I saw a topic, and it was quite interesting and realistic.
What does it feel like to marry someone you don't love?
Some people say that if you marry a man you don't love, you will have a hard time in the future.
Some people also say that it doesn't matter whether you love or not, the important thing is to see if a man is good to him.
Some people also say that since it is marriage, then there should be more or less love, but it may not be much.
To be honest, marrying a man you don't love is not common in life, but it is not uncommon either.
In particular, some men and women who know each other on a blind date may confirm their marriage after meeting a few times.
Two people really can't talk about loving each other much, it's just that the conditions are right.
In this case, life after marriage is full of unknowns.
There are joys and sorrows, and it can only be said that everyone's luck is different.
So, what is it like to marry a man you don't love? That's what these three women said to me.
1.Ms. S: The path you have chosen has to endure no matter how hard it is.
Ms. S and her husband were introduced to each other by a friend, and they got married not long after they met, because the man was older, so he gave birth to a baby not long after getting married.
At first, she didn't have much love for men, but she was also of the age of marriage, and men were quite good to her, so she got married in a daze.
It's a pity that not long after getting married, the man seems to have changed, all kinds of lazy things, Ms. S feels like she has become a servant, and the key is that she still has to go to work to support the family.
Such a gap made her depressed.
What's even more regrettable is that Ms. S can't even get a divorce, first, because she has children, and second, she is afraid that her parents will worry, so she can only endure it.
No matter how difficult life is, she can only grit her teeth and persevere.
2.Ms. L: Life is happy, but I always feel that there are shortcomings.
is also married to a man she doesn't love, and Ms. L is relatively lucky.
Because whether it was before or after marriage, her husband treated her very well.
In the eyes of outsiders, she is very happy, because her husband's career is developing well, and he is also gentle and considerate to her, the key is that he still knows how to be a little romantic, and he has no bad habits.
Such a man, in the eyes of many people, is the ideal of the ideal model.
In fact, Ms. L also knows that she is very happy, but she just feels that something is missing.
Even though her husband was very kind to her and she was touched, she always felt that it was not love.
It is more appropriate to say that it is not so much a lover as a loved one.
3.Ms. Y: After the divorce, I still be roommates.
Although, most of the time everyone gets married because of love.
But it is undeniable that there are indeed some people who marry for the sake of getting married, and this is the case with Ms. Y.
Because his parents urged him to get married, he hurriedly married a man he didn't love.
The point is, it doesn't matter if you don't love it, Ms. Y didn't know much about the man before she got married, and she only knew that her parents were very satisfied with the boy, so she got married in a daze.
After getting married, the man is not bad, at least the material conditions are quite good.
It's just that this man is too playful, and he doesn't pay attention to it after getting married, and he messes with all kinds of flowers and grass outside.
Even if she became a father later, it did not improve, and in desperation, Ms. Y chose to divorce.
Interestingly, the two still live together after the divorce, and in the eyes of outsiders, their family of four is still happy.
Only they know that the other party has become roommates.
Actually,Before getting married, no one can predict what life will be like after marriage.
Even if two people get married because of love, it is not easy to say that they will be happy after marriage.
It's just that a marriage with a foundation of love has a slightly greater ability to resist risks.
As for what a marriage will be, it is really full of unknowns.
Finally, I want to say that,It is happy to be able to marry the man you love
But having love after marriage is even more crucial ......