Record old agelifeLive to be seventy or eighty years oldModern manIt is no longer a distant dream, and the extension of life span has given people more time to experience and face various things. In the face of life and death, the ultimate destination of life, the elderly are often able to maintain a calm and calm attitude. However, in addition to death, there are three things that are more terrifying than death, let's take a look at them together.
In old age, maintaining a healthy body is very crucial, and this is a more terrible problem than death. When we were young, we didn't experience the torment of serious illness, and it was hard to imagine the importance of health to people. However, as they age, older people often face a variety of health problems. Some minor ailments can be treated with medications** or simplyLifestyleimprove, but if encounteredlifeIf you can't take care of yourself, it will become a nuisance. At this time, the elderly need to rely on others for long-term care, but not everyone can get the right help. Some elderly people may be able to hire a nanny to take care of themselves, but some people don'tEconomyAbility. In the worst-case scenario, they are dependent on their children's care. If the children do not fulfill their responsibilities, or even dislike or indifference to the elderly, the elderlylifewill lose their dignity and may even starve to death. These true stories are happening all around us and make us deeply ironic. And we were cared for by our parents when we were young, and even if they were sometimes dirty and troublesome, we did not dislike them, but we showed ruthlessness when they needed our care. Therefore, it is very important to maintain a healthy body and the ability to take care of oneself, and the fear of the elderly is not death per se, but the loss of independencelifeand the fear of dignity.
There is a certain amount in handPensions, which is essential for the elderly, it can make us old agelifeMore stable and down-to-earth. At least when we encounter difficulties, we can come up with our own money to solve them, and we don't need to talk to our children. Because regardless of whether the child is able to give or notEconomysupport, once you borrow money from them frequently, it is easy to cause them to resent and get bored. You know, children have their own busyness every daylifeIt is very difficult for them to provide us with financial support at all times. What's more, if we have physical problems and our children don't take care of us, we will be in a situation where life is worse than death. Therefore, the elderly should have their own savings, which is our confidence and security. Only in their own hands to grasp a certainEconomyability, to ensure dignity and stability in old agelife。In any case, money is the confidence and capital of the elderly, we must have a certain amount of savings and not rely on others, otherwise it will be more painful than death when we are old and have no one to rely on.
As the saying goes, young couples are old companions. Although there are often arguments between couples when they are young, it is only when the other person is actually gone that we realize the importance of the other person. Especially in old age, it becomes more and more important for couples to accompany and care for each other. When there is nothing to do, two people can chat together, care for each other, and spend a new age that is not lonely. However, when one person dies first, the other person, even if he or she is in good health, often cannot afford to face it alonelifeofLoneliness。What's worse is that without the care of the other half, whether it is diet or illness, everything can only be faced by yourself. This sense of loneliness and fear of worry tormented the old man's mind. As a result, many couples will soon after one person dies, and the other person will also follow. They can't accept the loss of a loved oneLoneliness, but also because they have lost the people who take care of each other and cannot face the difficulties of the future, they feel that their lives are meaningless. However, everyone's perceptions and experiences are different, and maybe some of them are oldlifeI'm doing well and I'm confident in myself, so I don't worry about these issues.
In short, when we are old, we must have a certain amount of financial security and independence, and at the same time, we must cherish and love our partners and give them enough companionship and love. lifeThere are many things that are more terrible than death, but as long as we can maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and work hard to solve problems, old agelifeIt is still possible to live happily and meaningfully.
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