The great man said that it was not appropriate to interfere in Li Ne's marriage
Li Ne, known as the "Red Princess", is the only daughter of ** and ***. Among the many children, she is the one who is most loved by her father, and she spends the longest time with *** day and night.
She was fortunate enough to spend a full childhood in the company of her father, which made her a veritable "** child by her side".
Although *** advocates that his children be simple and low-key, he still shows great concern and support for his daughter's marriage. In 1971, Li Ne submitted an application for marriage to the organization, and the object was an ordinary young man from a worker and peasant background.
** not only agreed, but also transferred to** reading, but ** was not satisfied with this and did not express his position for a long time. Until I saw *** instructing on the letter: "The marriage of children should be decided by the children themselves, and we should not interfere." ”
**'s daughter, Li Ne, was his solace in the hard war. In 1940, **gave birth to a daughter in Yan'an, **according to the sentence "A gentleman wants to be quick to his words and quick to act", he named his daughter Li Ne.
As the only child who stayed by his side in childhood in his revolutionary career, Li Ne was particularly loved by his father.
When the "workaholic" didn't sleep for several days, sitting at the desk, and the staff couldn't persuade him to rest, they discovered Li Ne's "secret".
As long as Li Ne stumbled into the office and ran towards his father, **'s heart softened, and he would put down his work, rest for a while, and tease his daughter by the way.
At that time, Li Ne had just been born, and ** was almost fifty years old. Probably because of the revolution, he lost many relatives, and the pressure of the war made him crave emotional solace, so he decided to keep Li Ne by his side.
Li Ne's appearance really brought a ray of sunshine to the chairman and made his spirit relax for a moment. During the war years, Li Ne brought irreplaceable joy to the chairman.
There is a deep emotional bond between Li Ne and *** father and daughter. Because *** often takes Li Ne's little hand for a walk, Li Ne naturally affectionately calls his father "little father", and *** affectionately calls his daughter "big doll".
Under his guidance, Li Ne received selfless care and care as he grew up. In 1947, the situation in Yan'an was tense, and Chiang Kai-shek gathered 200,000 troops to launch a frenzied attack on the Shaanxi-Gansu-Ningbo region.
In order to thwart the enemy's conspiracy, ** decided to take the initiative to evacuate Yan'an and let the enemy fall into an empty city plan. During the evacuation, the enemy plane hovered in the sky and dropped a few bombs, but *** still calmly worked in the cave.
A bomb fell very close, and although the cave was not blown up, it was dusty. At this moment, ** was about to drink water, but saw that the teacup was full of dust. But instead of getting angry, he poured the water out of his teacup and continued to calmly review the papers.
It wasn't until the guards urged him to slowly evacuate Yan'an with his daughter.
In those years of fire, 7-year-old Li Ne was fearlessly by the side of his father. Bomb fragments flew everywhere around him, but Li Ne was as calm as if he had never felt it.
She marched day and night with her father, bumpy cars during the day and stumbling on foot at night. ** I felt sorry for my daughter and wanted her to sit on a horse, but I gave up because Li Ne was still young and couldn't ride a horse.
So, ** picked up Li Ne and walked all night. Sometimes, when she fell asleep on her father's back, she was tied to the iron frame of the saddle, and the warriors carried her safely on one shoulder.
In that difficult era, Li Ne suffered a lot with the troops, but her existence also brought endless joy to the soldiers, and she was regarded as the pearl of her palm.
However, the war is tight, and it is obviously not a long-term solution for children to follow them. So, ** made a heartbroken decision to send her daughter away.
The story of ** and daughter Li Ne is touching. During the war, ** fostered Li Ne in a village in Xingxian County, Shanxi, and was cared for by an aunt Li Ruo sent by the organization.
Despite the busy war, *** always puts Li Ne on the tip of his heart and often misses her. In a telegram to Deng Yingchao and Kang Keqing, he mentioned that Li Ruo's nanny took care of Li Ne's method very well.
In a letter to his son Mao Anying, he also specifically said that Li Ne's physical condition was very good, and a painting drawn by her was sent. Li Ne's paintings are the emotional bond between their father and daughter.
However, Li Ne did not live in a comfortable environment. When they moved to northern Shaanxi and came to Yangjiagou, food became very tight, and they mainly relied on eating black beans from the old base area of the Jinsui Military Region to support northern Shaanxi.
Once, after eating, Li Ne laughed when he looked at everyone's faces, and it turned out that after everyone ate black beans, their faces and mouths were dyed black. ** kindly touched her head, and then said to her solemnly: "The front-line soldiers rely on this black bean to fight."
Black beans are good, eating them can make you grow taller and fatter, and you should also go for a bowl. "This story shows us that even in difficult circumstances, ** always cares about his daughter, and their father-daughter relationship touches us deeply.
Li Ne is the daughter of ***, and during the war, she began to eat black beans with her uncles and aunts. At that time, she was of school age, but due to the impact of the war, it was difficult to regularize school.
In order to ensure her learning, ** invited Han Guixin as a family nursery for her and taught her to study in person. It was on horseback that Li Ne began to read and write.
Later, when the first organ of the Communist Party of China was stationed in Xibaipo Village, Hebei Province, she officially entered a simple primary school. After arriving in Beijing, she transferred to study at the school for the children of cadres in the western suburbs of Beijing, and then went to study at the High School Affiliated to Beijing Normal University.
Influenced by her father, she lived a very simple life, always with short hair and ears, wearing a blue ** and a pair of black cloth shoes. After she entered secondary school, she gradually developed a strong interest in history and classics, and her boudoir was full of books.
** Daughters Li Min and Li Ne spent their adolescence in Zhongnanhai, in which Li Ne's personality has changed significantly, from the lively and cheerful childhood to calm and introverted, she likes to immerse herself in the world of books and be alone.
** He took great care of Li Ne, and when he learned that Li Ne had a strong interest in history, he used his deep knowledge of classical literature to select a list of must-read books for Li Ne.
In 1959, Li Ne was successfully admitted to the Department of History of Peking University, and immediately handed over his treasured "Water Margin" to his daughter, and told her that the book was easy and enjoyable to read, and the story was fascinating, and suggested that she read "Dream of Red Mansions", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and poems after reading "Water Margin".
** I also printed out the poems I personally selected and gave them to Li Ne. **'s tutor was very strict, he didn't allow his daughter to ride home in the car, and asked her to ride a bicycle to and fro.
Li Yinqiao, the chief of Li Ne's guard, felt very sorry for her, and would quietly send someone to drive her home every weekend, and even gave her milk powder, biscuits and other items. However, this matter was discovered by ***, and he was very dissatisfied and severely criticized Li Yinqiao.
Li Yinqiao was worried about the girl, reminding that it was dark and it would be dangerous for the girl to be outside. But *** interrupted his worries and told him that he would take good care of his children and would not be special.
Although Li Ne was aggrieved, he knew how to understand his father's love and accepted this expression of love. This father's love is touching, especially when Li Ne was sick, and it can be seen that *** cares deeply for her.
Li Ne was weak and often sick, and when she fell ill around New Year's Day in 1951, ** was busy with work. But when he heard the news of his daughter's illness, he was very anxious, but he couldn't put down the work at hand.
So, he endured the distress and wrote a letter to his daughter, expressing his thoughts and love for his daughter.
In just a few sentences, a father's deep love for his daughter is vividly expressed. At the beginning of 1958, Li Ne suddenly suffered an acute attack of appendicitis, and the needle that had been broken in the flesh when he was a child also needed to be removed.
After discussion, it was decided to perform both surgeries at the same time. Unfortunately, ** was not in Beijing at this time, and went to Guangzhou, ** could only contact the doctor in person. The appendix surgery was successful, but there was trouble in the process of removing the needle.
Because the needle has been broken for too long, as the body grows, the needle has moved to another place, and the doctors have been looking for a long time but have not found it. In the end, the dean decided to carry Li Ne to the X-ray room and perform surgery while see-through, so that the needle was successfully removed.
However, due to the poor medical conditions at that time, Li Ne's wound became infected after the operation, and he had a high fever for several days. Hearing about his daughter's situation, his heart was like a knife, and he couldn't go to the ward to visit his daughter like ordinary people, he felt very sad.
All he could do was write a letter to his family, transcribing one of Wang Changling's "Seven Songs from the Army", encouraging his daughter to use her will to defeat the disease. In the 60s of the 20th century, China suffered three years of natural disasters, and many people in the country did not have enough to eat due to the impact of natural disasters.
The people who live a hard life can't eat. He resolutely shared weal and woe with the people, took the lead in reducing his own food rations, and did not eat meat or eggs.
It's not just *** who shares the hardships with the people, but also his children. Li Ne eats in the big cafeteria at school like ordinary people's children, but she always can't get enough to eat.
Whenever she comes home on the weekend, she sees Li Ne hungry and devouring, ** feels extremely distressed, so every time she comes home, ** will let the kitchen prepare something ready and give her daughter a tooth sacrifice, while he still eats green vegetables.
After Li Ne learned the truth, she was very sad, and she also responded to ***'s silent father's love. On December 26, 1954, it was ***'s 61st birthday, and Li Ne prepared a birthday gift for his father in order to express his gratitude to his father.
She prepared carefully with excitement, but she always didn't do it well, and seeing that her father's birthday was approaching, the gift was still not ready.
Li Ne was anxious, but she didn't want to give up, and decided to re-weave a beautiful and unique bookmark on the round cardboard with silk thread. The bookmark is painted with a longevity peach on one side, and "For dear Dad" on the other.
After receiving the gift, ** showed a relieved smile on his face. Li Ne applied for marriage to **, but ** did not respond immediately, which made Li Ne feel a little disappointed.
However, both Li Ne and *** are fond of history and classics, and their father and daughter get along very well and often have in-depth exchanges of ideas. When Li Ne went to college, some disagreements arose between the two, and Li Ne did not return home for a long time, nor did he even write a letter to his father.
It wasn't until the New Year of 1962 that Li Ne sent back a New Year's card, which made *** feel very relieved. After receiving my daughter's letter, ** wanted to have an in-depth exchange with her.
Seeing the familiar font on the letterhead, the thoughts in Li Ne's heart surged like a tide, washing away the depression in his heart. She immediately wrote back to her father, opened up to him, and told him what was on her mind.
During this time, Li Ne was truly exposed to her father's teachings, and she was determined to change herself, to fundamentally change her worldview.
On the New Year's Day of 1963, Li Ne sent a letter and a greeting card to her family, in which she analyzed her shortcomings and ideology in detail, and shared with her father her thoughts on the fable "Zhuangzi Qiushui".
** was both pleased and happy about his daughter's change, and wrote a letter to encourage her to have will and perseverance, and not to be arrogant. Although ***'s concern for his children has never been on his lips, he has used his lifelong wisdom and enough patience to educate his children, hoping that they can grow up healthily politically, ideologically and academically.
In life, the requirements for children are extremely strict, but they are not as strict as people imagine in learning. During his time in college, Li Ne scored five points in all six exams, and was hospitalized due to illness after the exams.
Sensing his daughter's hard work, he said to Li Ne: "You don't have to score five points every time, you can also score four or three points, and that's okay." He never insisted on the marriage of his children, and he always hoped that his children would find ordinary people who came from a worker's or peasant family.
**'s daughter Li Ne was sent to the ** General Office "Wuqi Cadre School" in Jinggangshan in 1970 for exercise. At that time, she was already in her prime, and although some people introduced several cadres to her marriage, she was not very interested in it.
Li Ne has high requirements for herself, she actively participates in labor, is not afraid of hardship or tiredness, but because of overwork, her body is often in a sick state. At that time, there was a Comrade Xiao Xu, who was from the Northeast, who was down-to-earth and capable, witty and flexible, and handsome.
He saw that Li Ne was always pale, so he often asked her to walk and chat, and the two soon fell in love. Although everyone is not optimistic about this relationship, Li Ne does not care about other people's opinions, she only hopes to get her father's support.
In 1971, Li Ne submitted an application for marriage to the organization, and the leader of the ** General Office reported the application to *** and agreed after seeing it, and commented on the letter: The marriage of the children should be decided by themselves, and we should not interfere.
He forwarded the letter to **.
Li Ne and Xiao Xu's wedding can be called low-key luxury with connotation, no luxurious banquet, no extravagant decoration, only the most sincere blessings and endless love. Their marriage was waited and considered for a long time, and it was not until they saw ***'s instructions that they were finally decided.
Although the parents of both parties did not attend the wedding, this did not affect their happiness and joy. At the wedding feast, there are only 8 simple dishes and a few cigarettes, but this does not prevent them from enjoying this special day.
The cave room is also very simple, with only two single beds spliced together a double bed and a thin futon, but this does not affect their love and warmth. As a father, ** sent his most sincere blessings, hoping that their love can last for a long time.
The wedding gift he prepared for Li Ne was a set of 39 volumes of "The Complete Works of Marx and Engels", and he hoped that Li Ne would teach Marxism-Leninism to future generations and fight for the realization of communism.
Li Ne and Wang Jingqing's marriage was not happy, because the two were different in many ways and often clashed. In order to solve these problems, Xiao Xu was sent to Hebei to study, during which Li Ne became pregnant and gave birth to a son.
However, even with children, their marriage eventually broke down. In 1976, Li Ne experienced the most painful year of her life, and the death of her father collapsed her spiritual world.
But with his father's teachings and strong will, Li Ne survived this difficult period strongly. In 1985, under the introduction of Li Yinqiao, Li Ne started a new life and established a stable marriage relationship with Wang Jingqing, who became the pillar of Li Ne's spiritual world, bringing her fatherly love and support.