My brother in law got married, but my wife asked me to take 200,000 If you don t take the money, how

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

When I heard the news, I couldn't believe my ears. My brother-in-law is getting married, which should be a happy thing, but my wife asked me to take 200,000 yuan. She said, "If you don't take the money, how can my brother marry a daughter-in-law?" My heart sank to the bottom all of a sudden, and loss and grievances welled up in my heart.

Husband, did you hear what I said? My wife's voice broke my thoughts.

I looked at her bitterly, my heart full of helplessness and pain. "Why do you want me to give 200,000 to your brother? We ourselves are still struggling, how can we have so much money to come up with? "I tried to keep my tone calm.

But his wife muttered: "But my brother's family conditions are not good, and he is already very hard." Marriage is such a big thing, how can I not help him? ”

I sighed deeply, knowing that she was looking for her brother's good, but this was not the time for us to help. "I know about your brother's situation, but we may not be able to help him. We still have a mortgage, children's education expenses, and various living expenses, and we are already very tight. ”

But ......The wife lowered her head, "I really don't know what to do." ”

Looking at her helpless appearance, my heart was also sad. My wife is a kind and filial person, and her kindness and filial piety are what I love about her the most. But her kindness sometimes makes her a little soft-hearted, and she is easy to sacrifice herself in order to help her loved ones. I gently shook her hand and comforted, "My dear, I know that you are anxious about your brother, but we can't push ourselves to a dead end by helping him." ”

She looked up at me with tears in her eyes. "But I really don't know what to do......”

I put my arm around her shoulders and tried to give her some strength. "Okay, don't be upset. We can talk to your brother and see if we can find another solution. Perhaps he can understand our difficulties. ”

The wife nodded, wiping the tears from the corners of her eyes. "Well, well, I'll talk to him. ”

We embraced each other quietly, and at this moment my heart was filled with love and understanding for my wife. I know that helping loved ones is a virtue, but we also can't let ourselves get into trouble. Perhaps, this is just a temporary pressure and pain, but we will definitely face it together and overcome it together. Because we are a family, we support each other and grow together.

On the day of the wedding, I looked at the happy expressions of my brother-in-law and the bride, and I was happy for them. My wife also regained her strength, and she said to me, "Thank you, without your support, I might have made the wrong decision." ”

I smiled and put my arms around her shoulders: "Who let me have such a kind and strong wife?" No matter what difficulties we encounter, we will face them together and resolve them together. ”

Yes, we will definitely face it together and resolve it together. There was a hint of firmness in his wife's eyes.

At this moment, I deeply felt that no matter what difficulties I encountered, with the support and love of my family, I would be able to overcome everything. My brother-in-law's wedding also became an important turning point in our family's growth. I know there may be many ups and downs ahead, but we will face them together and move forward together. Because we are a family and will always support each other.

Therefore, even if we are not rich in hand, the love and tacit understanding between us are the most precious. We all understand that money is important, but the happiness and unity of the family is even better. This experience has made us more aware of how to cherish and tolerate each other. This bumpy road also makes us full of vitality to meet the challenges of the future.

After the wedding, our family returned home. The wife became a little silent, with a worried look on her face. I know she's still struggling with 200,000 in her heart.

Don't overthink it, dear. I patted her gently on the shoulder, "We'll take care of this matter slowly, and I'm sure everything will be fine." ”

She looked up at me, the worry in her eyes still not dissipating. "I really don't know what to do, my brother has always been very good to me, how can I not help him? ”

I looked at her deeply, and my voice was gentle and firm: "Honey, I know your worries too, but we can't ignore our own lives because of outside pressures. We are responsible for our own happiness and for the future of our children. ”

She sighed, as if she understood, "I know, but I really can't bear to watch my brother lose life like this." ”

We can help him think of other ways, such as helping him find a job or teaching him some skills so that he can earn his own money to solve the problem. "I said so, but I also knew in my heart that if my brother could solve the problem on his own, he wouldn't throw this burden on us.

Maybe you're right. His wife nodded slightly, "I'll discuss it with him." ”

Well, I believe things will turn around. I took my wife's hand, "As a family, we will definitely work together to solve the problem." ”

Over the next few days, the wife made an effort to solve the problem and discussed it with her brother many times. Eventually, my wife and I accompanied her brother to find a good job, and although the pay was not high, it was the best help he could get.

Watching the joy of his wife's brother finding a new job, his wife's worries gradually disappeared. She smiled at me and said, "Thank you for always supporting me, without you, I might have made the wrong decision." ”

I put my arm around my wife's shoulders: "We are a family, and it is appropriate to support each other." This experience also made us know how to cherish and tolerate each other more. ”

Yes, as long as the family is together, any difficulty can be overcome. There was a determined glint in his wife's eyes.

Yes, as long as we work together as a family to face all kinds of difficulties in life, we will definitely be able to overcome everything. Because the love between family members is the strongest support. This experience has made us realize that the power of family is endless, and that as long as we are united and united, we can overcome all difficulties and challenges. This wordless tacit understanding and warmth is the most valuable asset of our family.

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