Wang Xifeng won everyone's trust with her ingenuity and efficiency in "Dream of Red Mansions". Her wisdom makes big and small things easy, and her abilities make life worry-free for those who are favored by her.
Both her identity and her way of doing things are enviable. However, she is also unapproachable because of her pride.
Although he is as smart as Wang Xifeng, he was easily handled by a poor boy with only 15 taels**, why is this? Is it because this poor boy is talented? As a housekeeper, Wang Xifeng is very handy in managing Ningguo Mansion and Rongguo Mansion, with a distinct personality, capable and kind, which makes people feel like a spring breeze.
In terms of managing his subordinates, Wang Xifeng is well organized, his subordinates dare not be lazy, and the rewards and punishments are clear, which is convincing.
Although in front of the elders, Wang Xifeng has no shelf, more like a lively and lovely girl. With her intelligence, she is deeply favored by her elders. When the elders encounter troubles, Wang Xifeng can always give pertinent advice.
However, such Wang Xifeng also has strong ambitions. During her career as a housekeeper in Rongguo Mansion, she experienced a sense of majesty under one person and above ten thousand, so her desire for power and money swelled day by day.
In dealing with the affairs of the government, Wang Xifeng showed ruthless determination, which stemmed from the fear of consequences. She firmly believes in her own abilities and dares to offend anyone.
Wang Xifeng's style of doing things is bold and decisive, and when she meets difficult people, she always says her thoughts straightforwardly and does not back down. However, such behavior makes the people around them feel helpless.
In this environment, Wang Xifeng's personality has become a little extreme. She is also very strict with her own girls, and sometimes even takes some cruel punishments, such as making them kneel in the sun, and laying tiles under their knees.
If she was in a bad mood, she would starve them and even whip them. Such a form of punishment is undoubtedly very severe, but it is only part of her strict requirements.
Wang Xifeng, a scheming and vicious woman, is cruel to girls who make mistakes, and will burn her face with a red-hot patch, and even poke her face with a hairpin. She has 800 hearts and minds every day, whether it is a small thing such as deducting people's wages, or a big thing such as Jia's mother's birthday, she can always profit from it.
In terms of interpersonal relationships, Wang Xifeng also handles it very well, with strong social skills, and her friends are either rich or expensive, these people are not only her friends, but also her future tools.
Still, when Wang Xifeng uses others, he can still make them feel that they are not being used. Wang Xifeng treats people with kindness and kindness, which makes people feel her sincerity and sincerity, which is also her unique advantage.
However, such Wang Xifeng is not invulnerable, and she is obsessed with communicating with young men, especially her nephews. It can be said that Wang Xifeng is greedy for men, so he is particularly tolerant of handsome men.
In this situation, if a man has too many eyes, Wang Xifeng is easy to get lost and make irrational decisions. That's why a poor boy can easily "get" Wang Xifeng's favor.
can do big things with only 15 taels**, this poor boy is Jia Yun. Jia Yun can be said to be a male version of Wang Xifeng. If Wang Xifeng has 800 eyes, then Jia Yun has 1,000 eyes.
It can be seen that Jia Yun is more shrewd and calculating than Wang Xifeng.
With Jia Yun's excellent appearance, even Jia Baoyu praised him for looking like his son. Needless to say, Jia Baoyu's appearance is also very appreciative of Wang Xifeng. And since he is similar to Jia Baoyu's son, Wang Xifeng is also very fond of Jia Yun.
When Jia Yun first entered the mansion, she had already set a goal, hoping to get Wang Xifeng's support. Because Wang Xifeng is a housekeeper, if there is a relationship, his status and treatment will be improved.
Therefore, Jia Yun began to use sweet words to win over Wang Xifeng. As long as Wang Xifeng is there, Jia Yun will definitely be seen. And as long as Wang Xifeng is busy, Jia Yun will tell her what she thinks.
Whatever Wang Xifeng needs at work, Jia Yun will think of and prepare in advance to become her right-hand man. Jia Yun even prepared a gift early when Wang Xifeng was preparing for the festival, 15 taels of ** balm.
But he didn't send it directly, but helped by the side first, and actively shortened the distance and livened up the atmosphere. When the atmosphere is suitable, he will stop expressing his praise for Wang Xifeng.
Jia Yun's praise was not a lie, but based on the gift he prepared for Wang Xifeng. When he sent the gift to Wang Xifeng, his love was deep, and it can be said that the gift was a success.
Jia Yun's emotional intelligence is really superior, and giving gifts can also make people feel comfortable and natural at the same time, everything seems so natural. This is Jia Yun's excellence, and it is also the reason why he can gradually gain a foothold in the upper echelons of Jia Mansion.
In the end, Jia Yun became the core figure of Jiafu and Wang Xifeng's right-hand man. Jia Yun attaches great importance to friendship, and he will remember everyone who has helped him, even if it is Sister Feng who has been obtained through flattery, he is no exception.
When Jiafu was facing difficulties, Jia Yun never gave up and survived the difficulties for Jiafu. Although Jia Yun and Wang Xifeng did not develop a romance, this did not affect Jia Yun's status in Jia's mansion.
To sum up, even the most powerful people have their own weaknesses, and lust is the source of sin. Wang Xifeng's desire is actually very simple, that is, power and money.
Once you have power, you have the capital to make everything take for granted.
Jia Yun was able to successfully counterattack because of his wit and high emotional intelligence. These valuable qualities, which help us move forward anytime and anywhere, are examples for us to emulate.