In a relationship, the more entangled, the deeper you fall. Obsession will only make your heart a quagmire, which will eventually make you irritable, miserable, bored, and heartbroken. Therefore, to refrain from contacting the other person is to let go of a personCriticalOne.
Not being in touch does not mean taking the other person out of your life completely, but learning to make the other person's existence small and actively constructing your own life. You can reduce the influence of the other party by deleting the other party's *** blocking footprints or drawing a clear line. At the same time, approach the whole process with a calm heart and allow your mind to have more room for happy and new people.
It is often said, "It's the amount of time you spend on roses that makes them so important." "In a relationship, for those who love each other, the most affectionate is attention, and for those who should not be loved, the attention of the other party is the most terrible. If you have been paying attention to the other person and paying crazy for the other person's life, then the higher the value of the other person in your heart, the deeper your dependence on him, and the more difficult it will be to let go of a person.
Put down a person'sCriticalIt's about being a principled and "boring" person. No longer care about each other's every move, no longer obsessed with each other's dynamics, take yourself back, and return to your inner world. It is only when you learn to stop expecting from the other person and no longer give the other person special importance that you can truly let go of him and set yourself free.
Expectation is one of those quagmires that makes people fall into pain and tangling. Many people are lucky and delusional, and when the other party leaves them, the other party will definitely turn back. However, in a relationship, the person who loves you will not leave, and the person who can leave does not care about you. Too much expectation will only bring pain and suffering.
Put down a person'sCriticalIt is to put an end to any expectations. When you no longer expect any actions and responses from the other person, you can leave calmly and truly draw an end to the relationship. Only when you can smile at the pain of the past and thank the person who left you can you embrace the future calmly and easily.
It is a long and difficult process to let go of a person who has entered the heart, but we can reach this goal faster through the principle of three nos. Not connecting allows us to have more space and time to build our own lives, not paying attention to making the value of the other party in our hearts smaller, and not expecting us to put an end to pain and entanglement. Through these three nos, we are better able to let go of a person and face the future calmly and easily.
In real life, the process of letting go of a person is a process of spiritual growth and self-enlightenment. Everyone will encounter situations that they can't let goEmotionTroubled, but only by truly learning to let go can we become stronger and more mature.
That's it. I hope that everyone who is experiencing the pain of falling out of love can find a way for themselves, let go of the past, and welcome a better future. In this process, we must learn to love and cherish ourselves, believing that happiness will always come inadvertently. Let's bravely face the process of letting go, regain the courage to live, and move towards a better future.
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