Listen to young people and be the masters of their lives .

Mondo Pets Updated on 2024-02-04

Originally published in the 2024 issue of China Youth magazine

Youth Questions:

Hello! Railway work is demanding, strict management, and part of the work is night shift, how to adjust the state to work with a positive attitude?

Young railway worker Lu Tieqing.

To Comrade Lu Tieqingof the reply.

Comrade Lu Tieqing:

Hello! First of all, I would like to pay tribute to you. It is precisely because of the hard work of the majority of railway employees that everyone can travel with peace of mind, efficiency and enjoy modern convenience. Especially in the busy time of the Spring Festival, it is more respectful.

I think this question you raised is a very good question, and I believe that many young people who are engaged in the service industry feel the same way.

First of all, we need to make two distinctions, that is, every organization should distinguish between work and life scenarios. Not only be strict at work and respect your right to work, but also fully trust and respect your right to rest in life. In many cases, it is not because we are tired from work that we are anxious, but often because we don't know if we will be disturbed by work during breaks. Therefore, it is very important to distinguish between these two points, and the organization should make every young person feel at ease to work and rest at ease.

Second, young people should have the mentality of being "masters of life". At work, you have your role, especially many young people, who have just entered the workplace and stepped into the society, often starting from a very basic and grassroots work, which is a role that is arranged and required. The vast majority of comrades will work hard to do their jobs well, which is a very good thing. However, after many young people return to the scene of life, they do not really become the masters of their own lives, which is actually not helpful for a person to relax and adjust their mentality.

The so-called "master of life" is actually to take the initiative to create your own life, in your life scene, to become a leader: for example, tidy up the home well, make it more warm, read a few of your favorite books, listen to **, participate in some of your favorite sports, get together with close friends to chat, accompany your family, see your parents, etc. Taking the initiative to arrange one's own life helps to form the mentality and feeling of "the master of life" in the life scene.

Some young people may regard playing games, shopping, brushing short**, etc., as "leisure". It's not impossible to do this, but there's a difference in it that we don't really realize: when you play a game, you're actually being assigned to be a character. When we go shopping, we are actually all passers-by in the goods. When we go to brush the short **, our identity is actually a spectator. In life, do a good job in the life that you can arrange, and take yourself as the leader to relax and relax, which is the most effective rest.

In addition to arranging our lives, there is also an adjustment of self-mentality. There are many methods of self-cultivation and self-cultivation in traditional Chinese culture. Zeng Guofan has a motto: the future is not welcome, the time is not mixed, and the past is not love. This is an important part of the excellent traditional Chinese culture: if something doesn't come, don't be in a hurry; When something is being done, don't have distractions; One thing has passed, let go of the baggage, no longer nostalgic. Such a mindset especially helps us to relax and also helps us to concentrate at work.

Finally, I think we need to establish some basic ideas in our lives. In our view, a young person should have lofty and beautiful ideals, a motto of true faith and deeds, and sincere and innocent friendship. In fact, we very much hope that young people will start a family as soon as possible, because home can bring a lot of warm and lasting emotional value and emotional value, and can make you truly become a master in life, a responsible and responsible person.

I wish you a smooth work, a happy life, and maintain a good attitude and a good state through adjustment.

Pi Jun. January 2024.

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