Some people are enthusiastic about you only when they need you, and once they don't need you, they are like a different person, and they are cold to you. This kind of person, even if you turn the river and the sea upside down, with a hot face and a cold ass, they won't take it to heart. So, when you find out that you have become a spare tire, why bother to waste your feelings?
The person who really knows how to cherish you is the kind of person who will be with you no matter the wind or rain. They will care about your feelings, understand your difficulties, and will not let you be wronged, let alone let you wait in vain. So, when you meet someone who only cares about their feelings and is careless about you, you should understand that they are not worth your wait.
Love is a thing that pays attention to heart-to-heart and cherishes each other. If you are deeply involved in it, but the other party ignores it, then this relationship is really not worth your persistence. It's not because you're not good enough, it's not because no one knows how to appreciate you, it's because the right person hasn't shown up yet, and your person is still in a corner and hasn't met you.
Therefore, when you meet the kind of person who is warm when you need it and stays away when you don't need it, you can calmly give yourself a step and leave, why let yourself sink deeper? In this world, there are many people who cherish you, and there is no need to hang yourself from a tree. Once you find that you are not welcomed, quickly collect your mood and move forward. After all, the most important thing is to love yourself.
If one day, you find that the other party suddenly blocked and deleted all your ***, it means that they don't plan to keep in touch with you. In this case, you don't need to go to him again and ask for clarification, let alone ask him to add you back. What you have to do is calm down first and don't be impatient. Then, think about it, what happened between you, the problem is **. After figuring it out, I know whether to redeem it or let it go.
If you really do something wrong, then you have to correct it seriously and strive to become a person worthy of being cherished by others for a lifetime. In this way, whether it is with him or not, you can always find happiness that truly belongs to you.
In addition, if he always likes to play and disappears, and you can't find anyone when you look left and right, then don't accompany him anymore. Listen to me, the person who really loves you will never hide it, and there will be nothing to play and disappear. They will respond to your call, and as soon as you call him, he is there, and you are looking for him, and he appears. And that kind of thing always disappears, you shout loudly that he pretends to be deaf and dumb, you send messages and he turns a blind eye, if you want to find him, he will play with you to hide cats, this kind of person, don't love you at all!
It's not that you're stupid, it's that you're just a spare tire to him. Stop playing this kind of game with him, and it doesn't make sense if you lose. In your game, he's not afraid to lose, because he doesn't have his heart set on you at all.
Love is precious, don't waste it on someone who doesn't deserve it. Life is too short, and don't waste your time on things that aren't worth mentioning. Remember, only those who know how to cherish themselves will not let their youth go to waste. Timely stop loss is the greatest respect for oneself and the awe of life.