Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Managing love is like making a big movie.
Everyone likes a better plot and wants to make a story different.
However, not all love can blossom and bear fruit in the right season.
A woman who can really make love go for a long time knows how to manage feelings and knows how to grasp the needs of men.
What men want is more surprises and excitement, and they can feel different kinds of fun.
If so, women are too boring, conformist, and have no personality to attract men's attention.
If you look closely, you will find that the more "bad" a woman is in this regard, the more men love her.
Before, I met a couple like this:
The guy proposes to go to the movies, but the girl wants to play escape room.
The boy kept talking about how good the movie was, and said that it was closer to the theater.
The girl let go of his hand and let him go to the movies on his own, then jumped on a bus and said goodbye to him.
The boy ran a few steps after the bus, and then called ** to find her, asking her where she went, and he arrived.
At this time, he no longer insisted on going to the movies, and he also knew what his girlfriend liked. If he doesn't take this emotion seriously, his girlfriend will really leave him.
Loving someone, if you always compromise, is the beginning of please.
The more a woman compromises and becomes a "good girl" recognized by a man, it is easy for him to lose his freshness to you.
Li Bihua said: "If he loves you, he doesn't have to please, and if he doesn't, he doesn't have to." ”Women, after you are accustomed to compromise, men will habitually make decisions for you and arrange your life according to his preferences.
He won't care about your mood and won't give for you.
The more you please, the less he understands your heart and won't love you well.
At any time, women should not be too "well-behaved", they should have a unique style, be coquettish, willful, and play a little temper, and men will be more attentive to you.
Zhao Qiping in "Ode to Joy" is a doctor.
Everyone doesn't know why he likes Qu Xiaoxuan of the ghost horse elf.
Zhao Qiping is serious on the surface and shows a very mature appearance, but there is a child living in his heart.
When Qu Xiaoxuan was always bad and said some love words, his heart couldn't help but shake.
He likes to watch her play carefully, listen to her sweet words, accept her nickname, and bask in the surprises she brings.
Love a man, don't be too "honest".
Woman, you can take the initiative and guide him step by step to feel more surprise and romance.
Li Qingzhao said: "The warm rain and sunny wind are beginning to break the freezing, and the willow eyes and plum cheeks are already moving. ”Love needs to be actively managed, and it also needs to be actively expressed.
Women, when you are not overly reserved and can express your inner emotions generously, men will understand your heart better.
Sometimes, a woman's initiative and bad words will make the man see her sincerity, and will make him cherish her and care for her more carefully.
A man's competitive spirit is very strong.
In the world of feelings, a man wants a woman to be completely captured by him.
However, after really letting a woman give up her circle, keep her family wholeheartedly, have no friends, and have no social interactions, men feel that she has no charm.
The smarter a woman is, the less likely she is to give up her circle when managing her relationship.
On the contrary, she will manage her own circle well, so that she can have girlfriends, buddies, and even, the opposite sex is not bad.
Because, women can attract more people of the opposite sex, in fact, they are indirectly proving their own charm, which will make men cherish you with their hearts.
A woman's relationship with the opposite sex is very good, and on the one hand, it will make a man feel that he can be with her, which is a very fulfilling thing.
On the other hand, men will also feel "competitiveness", so that they will cherish their beloved women more carefully from the bottom of their hearts and manage each other's feelings with their hearts.
Men are born with a strong "desire to conquer", and they know how to make a man more challenging when pursuing you, and he will love you more deeply.
Women, give your sweetheart a sense of crisis, and he will become more active and enthusiastic.
Roland said, "If you love someone, you must first make yourself 100 percent worthy of his love now or in the future." As for whether he loves you or not, that's his business, you can hope for it, but you don't have to force it. ”A woman, in love with someone, is not to run after him, but to let him see your charm and be willing to take the initiative to approach.
Learn to improve your level, let yourself have richer knowledge, exercise higher emotional intelligence, and know how to live a more interesting life.
When you can bring more happiness to the people around you, it will also attract them to pursue you and be fascinated by your heart.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.