In the emotional world, the sincerity of men and the sincerity of women will find that they basically do not meet together, so love is always rare, they miss each other, and they become the most familiar strangers halfway through each other.
In everyone's life, there will be countless destined people, but at the same time, there are countless fateful people, until you meet someone who really wants a lifetime, only better is not the best, love is restraint, not impulsive.
When a woman encounters a man who betrays her feelings, she is heartbroken, she sees the wrong person, and she leaves regrets, it seems that it is not her own fault, there is nothing wrong with truly loving someone, but she can't see clearly that people have part of their own reasons, and love is always cut and messed up.
Therefore, for men, it seems that there is no loss, but whether it is material or spiritual, how to calculate that the true heart is wrongly paid? Obviously, men should be careful, such as women and men outside of marriage"Out of bounds", mostly from the following"Three little things"Don't believe it.
01 Women and men outside of marriage "cross the line", starting from talking too much about this "little thing", don't believe it
It seems that there is nothing on the surface, chatting is just a verbal thing, which can be forgotten in a blink of an eye, and this kind of meaningless does not represent anything, some men think so in their hearts.
But in fact, the reality is that the crossing of the line between male and female girlfriends of the opposite sex, look at it, it is a habit, and the harbinger of the love between men and women and each other is the habit and unconscious emotional dependence and acquiescence.
This thing, especially for women with keen emotional capture ability, is difficult to correct, and will slowly produce a feeling of transferring love, whether this feeling is true or false, once it comes out, like being coaxed by others in the relationship, it will really mistake you for a pair with another person.
People say that there is no wind and no waves, and flies do not bite seamless eggs. There is a cause for the origin of love, so men remember that the smaller the thing, the bigger the problem in the relationship, the more details are located, and you need to pay attention to prevent seeing the wrong person.
02 Women and men outside of marriage "cross the line", starting from the "little thing" of human affection, don't believe it
When did the acquaintance of men and women begin, men can know if they think about it carefully, they know each other from the beginning, you say half a sentence to each other, and the other party says half a sentence, and you say another sentence and so on.
Every time the relationship warms up after that, the same is true, the gifts given, the surprises prepared, and the cost of eating, drinking and having fun together are not equally shared, but choose you and me once, each time is different, men and women in terms of human contacts, lovers are not full, friendship is above.
The most important thing to pay attention to in the relationship is such a vague concept, and many men and women who successfully come together are mostly in the ambiguous period, rather than after the crossing period to clarify each other's intentions in their hearts.
If a man does not pay attention to such abnormalities at this stage or recognize the words and deeds of the other party, because they are all friends, they have no concept, and most of them will be betrayed by their friends and the other half around them, and any relationship has a certain boundary, which is very important in the relationship.
03 Women and men outside of marriage "cross the line", starting from the "little thing" of feeling bored, don't believe it
Between lovers, in the relationship, the boredom period is the existence of human nature, but two people who love each other will slowly overcome, pay more attention to each other, find more freshness, and dig out the preferences that have not been discovered in each other.
Even if you look for emotional value from another person because you don't get a response, or even go from having no relationship to becoming a relationship partner in the name of a friend, it's obviously a slow loss of love, or even an emotional betrayal.
Love, most people pay attention to the beginning and the end and get together and disperse, while the other half of the people who don't think so, betray feelings, obviously in reality, people who are hot for many things for three minutes, rarely have things or people they like for a long time.
Therefore, for women who are looking for a lifetime to be with them sincerely, they need to pay more attention to their words and deeds, one is to show their careful side, and the other is to recognize people and protect themselves.
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