When you want to subtly ask about the blind date, you can try the following:
1.*Start with a light-hearted topic**: You can start by chatting about some light-hearted and interesting topics, such as recent popular movies, travel experiences, etc., to create a pleasant atmosphere for communication.
2.*Ask about hobbies**: Ask the other person what they like to do and what hobbies they have, so as to understand the other person's interests and lifestyle.
3.*Talk about work or study***Ask about the other person's work or study and learn about the other person's career field and development plan.
4.*Know the family background**: You can ask the other person about the family situation appropriately, such as family members, family atmosphere, etc.
5.*Use open-ended questions**: Avoid asking questions that can only be answered with "yes" or "no", and instead use open-ended questions to give the other person more room to express.
6.*Pay attention to your tone and attitude**: When asking questions, maintain a friendly, sincere tone and attitude so that the other person feels that you care and respect.
For example, you could say, "What do you like to do outside of work?" Or, "Do you have any special hobbies or sports that you enjoy?" This is a tactful way of asking questions and allows the other person to share their situation naturally.