Yu Xiuhua has recently become the focus of ** again, and she once wrote the poem "Crossing half of China to sleep with you".
After experiencing two failed marriages, the latest leaked heart-to-heart photos with millions of Internet celebrities are suspected of Yu Xiuhua's new relationship.
Many netizens bluntly said that she couldn't stand the loneliness so much that she had to find a man to accompany her. Some people also felt distressed about her, saying that this time they must keep their eyes open and not be hurt again.
She said that after her last violent marriage, she said: "I brought attention to him, and he gave me company. We owe each other nothing. ”
Yu Xiuhua doesn't know what her vision will be this time, is she pursuing a long-term marriage, or a short-term companionship?
Yin Shiping was Yu Xiuhua's first husband, and their marriage lasted 20 years.
However, she said that she would prefer to be a watery poplar person, to face the high concentration of loyalty and despair over the years.
Although she already has a son, Yu Xiuhua resolutely decided to divorce when she made a choice.
Her second marriage was to a man who was a decade younger than her. In less than half a year, the true face of the boyfriend was revealed, and finally they parted ways by tearing their faces.
What choice will Yu Xiuhua make at this moment? Whether to choose to go to the end of love, or to be together for a while and then be okay.
No matter how she chooses, Yu Xiuhua's courage has surpassed ordinary people too much.
As the saying goes, when God closes a door for you, He opens a window for you. Yu Xiuhua is such a person.
However, the door that God closed for Yu Xiuhua was too heavy, which also doomed her to a different life.
Yu Xiuhua suffered a miscarriage and hypoxia when she was born, but fortunately saved her life. Since then, however, she has been a permanent person with cerebral palsy.
Her life will be accompanied by the reality of limited mobility and slurred speech.
Since then, her mother, Zhou Jinxiang, has been eager to provide for her daughter's education.
She needs to gain knowledge so that she can earn the respect of more people in society.
However, what is unexpected is that Yu Xiuhua did not get the respect she deserved because of her knowledge on campus, on the contrary, she felt more malicious intent from all directions.
The children did not know much about everything when they were young, and they rashly called others "cerebral palsy" or "fools", which brought great harm to Yu Xiuhua.
When she was 19 years old, her mother Zhou Jinxiang could no longer afford her daughter's tuition, so Yu Xiuhua dropped out of school.
In order to let Yu Xiuhua have a way out, Zhou Jinxiang asked around for news of the matchmaker, hoping to find a good in-law for her.
Finally, because he couldn't marry a daughter-in-law, Yin Shiping, who was 12 years older than her, chose to accept her disability.
Yin Shiping was not interested in Yu Xiuhua, but given her conditions, her mother advised Yu Xiuhua to give up the relationship.
Yin Shiping is tough and good at farm work. Entrusting his daughter to him can at least ensure that Yu Xiuhua's food and clothing are worry-free.
Yin Shiping was a simple farmer and had never received a formal education. If it weren't for the fact that he couldn't find a suitable wife, he wouldn't have agreed to the marriage. But since it has been decided, it is necessary to face the reality and move on.
Due to her physical disability, Yu Xiuhua was destined to be unable to go out to work like everyone else, and this situation caused her husband's dissatisfaction for a long time.
She often taunted Yu Xiuhua, saying that she was incompetent. Whenever this happens, Yu Xiuhua will also taunt her unceremoniously.
She looked down on Yin Shiping in her heart, feeling that he didn't have much education and little literacy, so he couldn't resonate with herself at all.
Yin Shiping never stepped forward to help Yu Xiuhua when he fell, but Yu Xiuhua liked to laugh at him for being a wreck and a hillbilly.
Yin Shiping hopes that he can make her suffer more. He frequently used the word "crippled" to refer to Yu Xiuhua, and these injuries pierced Yu Xiuhua's heart deeply.
Yin Shiping lost control the most that time, he got drunk, and then grabbed Yu Xiuhua's hair hard and slammed it into the wall.
Since that time, Yu Xiuhua has completely lost hope in their marriage.
She once stood in front of the camera and ruthlessly declared that the marriage was nothing short of a farce. However, Yu Xiuhua was still helpless at that time.
Her husband did not agree to the divorce, which also brought great difficulties to Yu Xiuhua's future destination.
Once her daughter gets married, it is like water spilled out, although she can go back to her parents' home, she is unwilling to let her elderly parents worry about her anymore.
Since 2005, Xiuhua has been writing poetry. She has written many works and submitted them to several magazines. While some of the works went unnoticed, there were also some that were successfully published.
The editor of Poetry Magazine has been very appreciative of Yu Xiuhua for many years.
He thinks that Yu Xiuhua's poetry is as stark as putting a murderer in a group of ladies. Therefore, as long as she can provide Yu Xiuhua's manuscript, it will be published.
Yu Xiuhua can be said to be the Bole of the passing years.
Although Yu Xiuhua was not divorced at that time, she was full of desire for love, and frequently chatted with many netizens on the Internet, some of whom were even very engaged in chatting, and had already talked about the extent of meeting.
Every time Yu Xiuhua went to the banquet on time, the result was always unpopular.
Some men expressed disgust at her disabled stuttering and even verbally abused her.
Yu Xiuhua later wrote a poem "Crossing Most of China to Sleep with You", which was inspired by her personal experience.
Some people ridiculed her for being uninhibited, and some people praised her for being frank and resolute, and these poems triggered different evaluations.
In 2015, readers were met with her poem "Moonlight Falls on the Left Hand", in which she wrote:
I want to be a person who dares to challenge the strong loyalty and helplessness of the years, and is as free and easy as the watery poplar.
In his poems, he fully expresses his dissatisfaction with his marriage.
Yu Xiuhua, who is famous for writing poetry, was able to join the Chinese Writers Association. During this period, she began to enjoy a stable income and became increasingly famous.
She quickly filed for divorce because she already had certain conditions and bargaining chips, which made the relationship between her and Yin Shiping strained.
Yin Shiping categorically would not agree, and it was obvious that he was eager to rely on her fame to live a worry-free life.
Yin Shiping could only reluctantly put forward the conditions of 150,000 cash and a suite, so that he could reach a divorce agreement with the resolute Yu Xiuhua.
It wasn't until 2015 that Yu Xiuhua's mother was diagnosed with lung cancer and died soon after.
That year was the darkest moment in Yu Xiuhua's life, and she vented her pain to the world with the poem "We Have Loved and Forgotten".
She later appeared frequently in several well-known programs such as "The Reader" and "The Shell of the Spirit".
had an in-depth conversation with Dong Qing in the studio, and had a Chinese-style marriage with Jiang Fangzhou.
In various conversations, it is often heard that Yu Xiuhua is extremely dissatisfied with her first marriage. She confessed that in that marriage, she did not understand the true meaning of love.
After she left her marriage, her heart was completely liberated, so she began a journey to bravely pursue love.
She used to fall in love with Li Jian, and she also publicly expressed her love.
publicly confessed to Li Jian on Weibo, saying that he planned to write ten poems for him within a year.
The sound of her scolding echoed in the air, and at the same time, there was a steady stream of praise for her.
Yu Hua never easily endures the insults of others, and she is always able to respond to the abuse of others with a strong counterattack. She would say in harsh terms: "I never speak ill of each other, and no one I rebuke is worthy of being called a man." ”
Yu Xiuhua got acquainted with a post-90s little fresh meat who was more than ten years younger than her, and soon got married to him.
She shared her wedding photos on the Internet and did not hesitate to express her love to her post-90s boyfriend.
Everyone began to doubt the young man's motives, and they questioned whether he intended to covet Yu Xiuhua's wealth, or wanted to use Yu Xiuhua's popularity to gain popularity.
They have already received their marriage certificates, and it is not appropriate to say more at this time, so we can only send our most sincere wishes.
The news of Yu Xiuhua's domestic violence became a hot search in less than half a year, and the news of her divorce also spread.
In her narrative, she described her boyfriend cheating on others and committing multiple domestic violence against Yu Xiuhua.
After an enthusiastic netizen reported the case to **, Yu Xiuhua shared her feelings on Weibo: I decided to choose forgiveness and thank you for being with me in the past six months.
Soon after the divorce, this post-90s guy used Yu Xiuhua's identity as her ex-husband on the live broadcast platform to openly take advantage of the situation to gain traffic.
When he was scolded by netizens, he also replied without cowardice, saying, "I can rub you too."
Yu Xiuhua has experienced ups and downs in the process of finding love. After ending her second marriage, she started a new love affair with Fan Jian, the director who made a documentary for her.
I heard that Yu Xiuhua bravely confessed to the director, but was cruelly refused.
She cried for a long time after being rejected because she was already in poor health, and even cried to the point of **. It wasn't until the director came over to comfort her that she calmed down a little.
In March, a new face emerged in Yu Xiuhua's cyberspace, and that was a male influencer named Bobo.
Yu Xiuhua held the hand of a man, and the two walked through the street, with a happy smile on her face. Some netizens began to question and speculate whether this meant that she had a new boyfriend.
The ** of her and Bobo's heart-to-heart comparison in the restaurant spread on the Internet and attracted widespread attention. Yu Xiuhua's hand was naturally on Bobo's shoulder, giving people a feeling of being a very close partner.
Yu Xiuhua has always pursued love, and despite countless setbacks, she can always pick herself back. This attachment may be difficult for many people to understand, but the spirit of perseverance is an example that many can follow.