。They used to putRetirement's hopes are all pinned on their children, but the reality has gradually made them realize that it is not reliable to prevent old age by raising children. As a result, more and more elderly people are beginning to take the initiative to solve their own problemsRetirementIssue. They employ a variety of strategies and look for the economy** to secure their old agelifeLive decently without being dependent on the children.
There are some old people who don'tPension, especially in the countrysideFarmersFriend. Even after the age of sixties, they still choose to work in the fields or go out to do odd jobs to earn some income. They understand, putRetirementIt is somewhat unrealistic to pin my hopes entirely on my children, and I don't have any savings myself. Therefore, when they are still healthy, they will try to work as much as possible and earn more money. Again, some have:PensionThe old man, inPensionFewer people choose to go out to work when they have just retired. Although the salary is not high, the work content is relatively easy, so it is also a good thing for them to have an extra income. As they get older and their bodies are less flexible, many older people look at themselvesPensionand the number of deposits. If they don't have a lot of money, they try to be frugal and try to ask their children for money as much as possible. They want to solve it on their ownRetirementproblem, not overly dependent on the support of children.
Among the elderly, there is a desire to step up legislation that will"Euthanasia"The call for legalization is getting louder. This is not an isolated phenomenon. It is true that many of the older people I work with have such thoughts. It's not that they don't value life, but in some cases, they don't want to be a burden to their children's families and want to die in a relatively dignified way. Especially for those elderly people who give up because they don't have enough money, they have to accept the pain of illness. This is even more prevalent in some impoverished rural areas. Once they choose to give up**, they can only go with the flow. However, not all conditions can be easily tolerated. There are illnesses that afflict them and make them feel miserable. toCancerFor example, once entered"Bone pain"stage, the whole body is like a heart, so painful that I can't sleep at night, even if I keep eatingPain relieversIt's also unbearable. As a result, many seniors want to be able to pass legislation that will"Euthanasia"Legalization. With the voluntary and consenting of the older person and his or her family, it is possible to choose a more dignified way of leaving.
Many older people are reluctant to live with their sons and daughters-in-law, except to care for their grandchildren. Some elderly people will choose to rent a house, and some will return to their rural hometownsRetirementand even some people choose to stayRetirementCourtyard. Whether it's a daughter's home or a son's home, many elderly people can't adapt for a long time, because of two generationslifeHabits and concepts are different, and sometimes there will be differences in the face of the same thing. Conflicts between parents and children inevitably occur. Although it is not that the elderly do not want their children to be by their side, after not living with the children, family conflicts are greatly reduced. When they are older, they don't want to be angry with their children every day, and they want to be able to enjoy their old age happily.
Many of the elderlylifeThe circle has become very narrow, repeating yesterday's almost every daylife。They go to bed early and wake up early, fall asleep around 9 p.m., and wake up around 6 a.m. Then nothing special happened for the rest of the day. They do chores, cook, play with their phones, watch TV, and occasionally go out for a walk and jumpSquare dancingOr play chess. Of course, if they have their grandchildren by their side, they have to take them to and from school. Basically, every daylifeIt's just repeating it. Compared to the busy work beforelife, nowlifeBored and lonely. However, they also have no choice, because most older people live similarlylife
When it comes to treating their children, the elderly always have endless thoughts. Before the children got married, they worried about their marriage, and constantly asked acquaintances to introduce blind dates. , nowMarriageIt is becoming more and more difficult, and many children need to go on blind dates many times without results. When it comes to a suitable object, I am worried about the high bride price and the problem of buying a house. These demands have left many parents anxious. After the children got married, they began to worry about when the children would have children. However, today's young people are not in a hurry to have children, nor are they willing to have more children, and for the older generation as parents, they are urging. When a child is born, they start to worry about taking care of their grandchildren, and some parents even urge their daughters-in-law to have another child. In short, in old age, most parents always have all kinds of worries when dealing with their children.