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With her abilities, she made it to the national first team and won numerous awards. Xu Xin, who is so young and promising, is a model lover in the eyes of many girls. However, he is only loyal to his childhood sweetheart Yao Yan.
This woman is two years older than Xu Xin, and she has always been Xu Xin's strongest support.
However, in his eyes, the most glorious moment was not winning the Olympic gold medal, but marrying a good wife.
In fact, Xu Xin was a very independent-minded person when he was young, so he was able to get together with Yao Yan, which also became the most important decision in his life.
1.Genius table tennis boy.
The story begins in 2006, when Liu Guoliang was 30 years old. At the time, he was coaching the national table tennis team. His teaching style is known for being harsh and intimidating to athletes, but at the same time, he has a sharper observation than the average person.
He never let go of any athlete with championship potential, so he discovered Xu Xin. It was an ordinary day. Liu Guoliang, as usual, instructed the students to play, and he noticed an unusual boy.
The boy did not train as seriously as the others, but "looked around". This look is indeed very smart, but is there any suspicion of cunning? Liu Guoliang was puzzled and suspected that the other party was looking at him.
This behavior generally implies laziness, just like a student cheating in an exam room. He needs to use his eyes to make sure that the teacher is not looking at him before he can easily plagiarize. Sure enough, after Liu Guoliang left, the boy immediately lay down.
In fact, Liu Guoliang's afterglow had already noticed the abnormality, but he did not expose it. He was just angry in his heart: he hung out when the coach was there, and slept when the coach was gone. How dare you be so arrogant here!
Just as Liu Guoliang was thinking, Qin Zhijian, who was traveling with him, spoke. He said: "That boy is what I told you before, I am very optimistic about him, he is my apprentice." After speaking, Qin Zhijian also fell into distress.
Because although this boy named Xu Xin is very talented, he is unwilling to work hard, which is likely to delay him. If this continues, his innate advantage will be erased. The most important thing now is to temper Xu Xin's temperament.
At this time, Liu Guoliang never expected that this child would become a world champion many years later. Many years later, Xu Xin really became a table tennis general, and even had the domineering title of "Big Python".
2. The road to sports is bumpy but happy.
The Xu family's mother gave birth to Xu Xin in 1990, and since her husband is a proud person, she hopes that her son can study "with an open mind" to reduce obstacles on the road to success. The homonym of "Qian" is the name "Xu Xin".
In 1994, Xu Xin's kindergarten welcomed a group of staff to select athletes, but they didn't notice Xu Xin. But Xu Xin dared to recommend himself and bravely said his dream.
For a while, the teachers looked at each other and decided to give him a chance to take Xu Xin in. In this way, Xu Xin's life has more possibilities than other children. In 2000, he was promoted to Nanjing Sports School.
At the age of 11, Xu Xin's abilities had already begun to appear, making other students envious. In the same year, he was selected into the Jiangsu Provincial Table Tennis Team. Coach Tang liked him very much and thought that this kid looked like a champion.
To what extent does this appreciation reach? When Coach Tang went to Shanghai to teach, he always took his favorite students out to show off to others, so that the students in Shanghai could follow Xu Xin's example. In 2003, Xu Xin was successfully selected for the Shanghai table tennis team.
During his days in Shanghai, Xu Xin met the love of his life - Yao Yan. When they first met, they were a 13-year-old boy and a 15-year-old girl. Later they became partners, and both had one self-evident goal – the national team.
3.Team fate.
The ultimate dream of every table tennis player is to enter the national table tennis team, but the level of selection must be top-notch! Later, Yao Yan really achieved his goal and wanted to enter the first team from the second team.
Later, Yao Yan really entered the first team. Seeing his predecessors working so hard, Xu Xin felt very proud. He wanted to be like Yao Yan. Finally, Xu Xin caught up with Yao Yan's goal in 2006.
At this time, my mother was very happy. She once again told her son to remember that the meaning of the name is "modesty" and not to think that entering the national team means once and for all. But Yao Yan didn't want to listen. He thought he was the strongest.
Although he doesn't say "strongest" directly, he always likes to describe other athletes as inferior to himself. For example, the opponent of the first team is obviously at the same level as him, and he can't tell the winner or loser, but Xu Xin thinks that the opponent has lost a lot.
This sentence made the coach sweat for him. After all, being too arrogant can easily cause jealousy, and it is difficult to say whether you will win or lose the next game. However, Xu Xin used her strength to prove that everything about her is valuable.
Therefore, Qin Zhijian loves and hates Xu Xin. He hates Xu Xin because he is too critical and often messes up relationships by treating others as worthless. And love, because this boy does have the strength of arrogance.
At the same time, Yao Yan won the gold medal in the Asian Youth Championship and the national championship trophy. Even Zhang Yining was defeated by her. These achievements have made Yao Yan an ideal object in the minds of many men.
Xu Xin also began his pursuit. In 2009, the players attended the post-match celebration dinner. This is a good opportunity not to be missed, Xu Xin took the initiative to ask Yao Yan for a walk and tentatively held her hand.
Yao Yan didn't expect this boy who was two years younger than her to be so direct. She looked at him and saw that he was shorter than herself. However, Yao Yan did not refuse such a "confession", because she understood Xu Xin's character.
Before this, Yao Yan had never been in love, let alone had such intimate physical contact with a boy. By chance, she and Xu Xin naturally came together. They understand the special meaning of being around someone who knows everything.
In order to prove their determination, Xu Xin and Yao Yan prepared a wedding room after being together for three months. The benefits of different careers always manifest themselves when bottlenecks are encountered. When Xu Xin was depressed, Yao Yan could always encourage her. This kind of companionship lasted for 15 years.
4.Happy marriage.
In 2013, the love variety show "Love Defense" made the couple's story known to more people. The plot is that after listening to Xie Na, Cai Shaofen found out that Xu Xin's wife is also a table tennis player.
Facing the surprised expressions of the guests, Xu Xin felt deeply proud, because Yao Yan was already valuable before winning the world-class championship. Xu Xin said frankly that the other party's level is higher than her, and her own success is inseparable from Yao Yan.
Xu Xin said that the reason why people don't know much about Yao Yan is because there is a rule in the team that team members can't fall in love, so Yao Yan chose to quit. Such a decision may seem risky, after all, there are countless examples of ruining careers for the sake of love.
Cai Shaofen also questioned this. After all, Yao Yan and Xu Xin were not married at that time. It will be more secure if you quit after getting married. Many female athletes return to their families when they get married.
But Xu Xin is very confident, because in his eyes, he has regarded Yao Yan as his marriage partner from the beginning and is willing to take responsibility for her life. In this regard, Xu Xin also specially released his own marriage proposal**.
It turned out that the location where he knelt down and proposed was also specially chosen by Yang Zongwei at the concert. In the eyes of others, these actions are a bit crazy, and some people are secretly worried about this woman, but only they know that the other party is the best partner.
Conclusion: In love, the happiest thing is to give everything to the person who truly loves you. It is precisely because Xu Xin is very reliable that Yao Yan's appearance has not aged at all, and even at the age of 36, she still maintains her youthful appearance.
One of their children is also very cute. They inherit the virtues of their parents. They are so happy, so perfect, and they are the model of perfect love.
On January 24, 2024, Cheng Jingqi also posted an article expressing her envy for Xu Yao and his wife. Their love is so low-key, but it has invisibly become a role model for those around them.