The sense of security in life does not come from others, but from oneself.
Even your dearest person, your lover, can't be completely relied upon.
Everyone has their own path to follow
This journey of life is actually very exciting, only by experiencing it with your own heart, can you feel its different beauty, you have to live a good life, and you have to live a radiant life.
If you choose to rely on others for everything, when others have prepared everything for you, the beauty in life has withered.
Everyone has their own way to go, and the best way to live in life is not that your predecessors paved the way for you, you just walk blindfolded, but to rely on yourself to explore, feel the stones to cross the river, in order to better experience life.
Nietzsche had a saying:
"If you want to go to a high place, use your own two legs, don't let others lift you up, don't sit on other people's backs and heads. ”
Rely on yourself to carry everything
The joys, sorrows, and sorrows in life have to be borne by themselves.
In addition to happiness, there will also be pain in life. When we are happy, we can enjoy it alone; When we are in pain, we have to bear it alone.
Don't expect others to feel sorry for you, everyone has their own difficulties, and when others can't help you, you can only rely on yourself. The ups and downs are destined to be the taste of life, and you and I can't avoid it, so we can only accept it alone.
There are many things in life, whether they are friendly to themselves or unfriendly to themselves, and you have to face them bravely.
In a life full of ups and downs, if you can't rely on yourself, then you will fall into the abyss and it will be difficult to get up.
Really powerful people are always able to survive in desperate situations, and even if they encounter great difficulties, they will not give up easily. ”
The greatest security in life is: on your own
There are too many variables in life, and your life is full of insecurity.
Instead of looking for comfort in others, it is better to support yourself and give yourself a sense of security.
What others give will make us feel involuntarily, and what we give will make us feel at ease.
Relying on the sense of security given by others is likely to be empty in the end; And relying on oneself will be blessed by God, and there will be no disadvantage.
In a person's life, how much effort there is, how much security there is; How strong faith there is, how stable life will be.
Write at the end
Don't rely on others, always rely on yourself, and be strong yourself is the king.
For the rest of your life, may you be the ferryman of your own life. It can withstand the wind and rain, and can withstand the wind, frost and snow sword.
Don't look at other people's faces, don't compromise.
Rely on your own ability to shine and be the little sun of your own life.