Friends, who understands this kind of life of getting by and seeing the end at a glance?
I talked to my mother about life and my father about work, but after we finished talking, they always told me that I was very happy now, that is, I had not suffered hardship. That's why I can't stand this little bit of suffering.
But they don't know that the mechanical life that is repeated every day is really too boring, and they just can't find the meaning of life. You have to be motivated to keep going, right?
I'm exhausted just by coping with these days, let alone my zest for life.
The reason you feel this way is probably because you're not autonomous, you're not in control of your life.
Many times, we are carried forward by this society. This society tells us that after finishing school, we have to get married, we have to be stable, we have been married for a few years, we can't have children, you should have a child. As a result, you are arranged by this society for very, very personal things such as studying, going to school, working, getting married, and having children.
If it is not arranged by society, then in China, most people are arranged by their parents. After all, growing up, parents have absolute control. Some very strong parents basically say the same thing.
In fact, when we encounter this situation, we all want to change, but most of us are stuck in the quagmire of not being able to change the status quo.
Some people never change their lives, they just do everything step by step; Some people want to change, but there is no direction to change, so they are always confused; Some people listen to their inner voice and live their lives according to their own way.
Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement. "How do you break this monotony and make life colorful?
Many times, we feel that life is the same, but it is actually because our perspective is too one-dimensional. Sometimes, we can tryLook up at the sky: Because the sky is always changing; We can try tooGet out into nature: On weekends, why not go for a walk in the park or the countryside to soak up the charm of nature? You will find that every life in nature has its own unique way of living and beauty; And then there isRead books: Reading is a great way to broaden your horizons, and you can use your limited time to read about unlimited lives.
A gentleman's self-improvement does not mean that "strengthening" himself and finding his own interests can also make people's lives betterLearning new skills has always been a great solutionWhether it's learning a new language, mastering a new skill, or learning a new instrument, your life can become more fulfilling and fun.
If you feel that life lacks motivation and purpose, you may want to set small goals to motivate yourself. There are small goals to achieve every day that will make you feel fulfilled and meaningful every day.
Whether life is set in stone depends on how we view and organize our lives. By looking at the world from a different perspective, developing hobbies, and setting small goals, we can make our lives more colorful and meaningful.
Change your life, start from the bits and pieces, and make every day full of freshness. "Even though we can't feel new to everything like babies, you can still capture the exciting points in your life and don't forget to please yourself.