1. Are all the women on the back of domestic violence victims?
When it comes to domestic violence, women regard themselves as victims, and the most talked about is how the body and spirit are destroyed, and how innocent and pitiful the injured person is.
There is a deep personal factor in the occurrence of domestic violence, and this individual does not exclude both husband and wife. The antecedent of any contradiction should be the most important, not the ending of being beaten, what kind of cause has what kind of effect, in this procedure, the cause of the existence of the woman can never be ignored, why was she subjected to domestic violence? What is the reason for the perpetrator? What problem does violence solve? It should all revolve around the very existence of women.
One of her main premises in the family is that the sexes are on the same level. Many men and women in domestic violence families are not at the same level, whether it is their level of knowledge, ability, thinking, and mutual understanding and attraction, but are at the level of mutual imbalance. Domestic violence here itself is not a moral level, but a matter of identity situation, many women and men have a big and irreparable gap between each other, each of them is 108,000 miles apart, which will appear cold domestic violence between many couples, such as mental violence.
On the other hand, verbal conflicts, physical dissatisfaction, machismo, and the arbitrariness of little women will also contribute to physical or mental violence between each other to a certain extent, or cold wars between each other, and these problems are by no means the problems of a single man, but a common problem of both sides. Under the condition of this antecedent, there will be different degrees of consequences, such as physical violence, and women are hurt more; For example, psychological violence, maybe more in men or maybe more in women; It is also possible that the spirit and body are subjected to violence at the same time, leading to rebellion, divorce, and so on.
In fact, in the case of domestic violence, it is the damage of both parties, which is long-term, not a judgmental valuation. Here, the victims are not only women, but also men and children, as well as entire families and society. It is irrational to emphasize that most women are victims of domestic violence, because women's own problems should be paid more attention to and reflected on in order to better prevent domestic violence. If domestic violence against women cannot be objectively judged to develop into an evil effect, only commenting on domestic violence itself will not really reverse the occurrence of domestic violence, but will go to the opposite. The law should treat domestic violence fairly, and there should be no irrational favoritism in society, only in this way can domestic violence not go to extremes and give the perpetrator and the victim a more fair explanation.