I am Chen Yulan, and I have entered the age of sixties, and I have just entered the threshold of 60 years old. At the peak of my career, I worked as a human resources executive in a state-owned enterprise, but now I'm a enjoyer of a leisurely retirement.
Life is peaceful, but it is also full and flavorful. After being widowed, I chose to live alone and immerse myself in my own world. However, as the years go by, I can't help but wonder if I still have some expectations and thoughts about men at this age.
One day, I met a gentleman named Lao Li in the senior dance class. Lao Li is two years older than me and is a retired middle school teacher. He has a good manners, a gentle speech, and amazing dancing skills. We often practice together, participate in various performances, and enjoy the joy of dancing together.
As we spent more time together on the dance floor, I began to realize that I had a subtle feeling for Lao Li. This stage of life seems to have sketched an unusual color for me.
However, I still have some concerns about the relationship. After all, we have all entered the age of no confusion, and our children have also established their own families and careers. Does it seem unrealistic to fall into a relationship again? The two of us have experienced the ups and downs of life, can we still maintain the impulsiveness of our youth when dealing with relationships?
One day, Lao Li invited me to go for a walk in the park. He suddenly shook my hand and said frankly, "Yulan, I think we are quite suitable." Would you like to go down with me? "At that moment, I felt like I was back in my youth, my heart was beating and my cheeks were flushed. But soon, I withdrew my hand and said calmly: "Lao Li, I am very grateful for your sincerity, but I think it is better for us to remain friends." ”
When I got home, I thought about my choice. Is it because of the fear of social ** and discussions? Or are you worried about whether you will be able to withstand the emotional turmoil again? Perhaps both have some influence. However, the main reason is that I don't want to trouble Lao Li because of me.
Time flies, day by day, Lao Li and I are still close friends. Together, we enjoy dancing, chatting, and traveling. The topic of feelings has become off-limits, but we tacitly know that that special emotion still exists.
Looking back, I firmly believe that the choice was wise. Although we did not become lovers, that deep friendship and tacit understanding are precious treasures that cannot be replaced. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Through this personal experience, I would like to share with you the point that 60-year-old women still harbor emotional needs and desires for the opposite sex. We haven't lost our sensitivity to feelings, but we don't indulge in them easily. We are more prudent and rational when it comes to feelings. What we are looking for is not only romance and passion, but also understanding and respect.
Of course, everyone's situation is unique. Some people may choose to remarry or find a new partner, while others prefer to live alone. Whatever lifestyle you choose, it should be based on your heart's true needs and feelings.
Ultimately, I want to emphasize that we should not hesitate to pursue our own happiness, regardless of our age. Don't be bound by age, and you don't have to be bound by social ideas. As long as the heart is full of love, dreams, and pursuits, life will be full of color and hope.