On the night of the red carpet, Liu Yifei's unicorn arms and bucket waist completely shattered the "fairy filter".
The term "fairy filter" is believed to have been heard by many young women. On social networking, using this filter can make you instantly become a fairy with three-dimensional facial features and a smooth jade, which has attracted countless likes and envy. However, with the changing times and the shift in aesthetics, more and more people have begun to question this false standard of beauty.
Recently, a piece of news caused an uproar on social media. It is said that at a certain awards ceremony, Liu Yifei was the real *** when she walked the red carpet.
Her unicorn arms and bucket waist surprised everyone. This scene completely subverted people's imagination of her fairy-like appearance. Many people have begun to reflect on why we need to change our appearance through the "fairy filter" instead of accepting our true appearance.
This topic is not limited to physical appearance, in fact, there is a similar phenomenon in the workplace. More and more people are starting to pursue the "perfect" career, ignoring their inner needs and true abilities. They cast themselves as perfect in the eyes of others and ignore their true interests and areas of expertise.
Therefore, in today's competitive era, how to find your own position and stick to your beliefs has become a problem that cannot be ignored.
I have a friend whose name is Little A. At the beginning of her career, she was confused. She felt that she was not smart enough, that she was not beautiful enough, and even doubted that she was a good fit for the industry. So, she began to try to change her appearance and heart. She spends a lot of time and money dressing up, but neglects to improve her professional skills. She seeks recognition in the eyes of others, not her own inner needs.
However, as time goes on, Little A gradually discovers that what he does does does not bring a real sense of accomplishment. Instead, she is increasingly disoriented herself. By chance, she met an industry celebrity. This person is not so "perfect", but he has a very strong professional ability and independent thinking ability. Through communication with him, Xiao A gradually understood what he wanted to pursue, and also began to realize what he was really good at.
Since then, Little A has begun to focus on his professional skills and inner needs. Instead of spending time and money on meaningless appearances, she puts more energy into learning and improving herself.
She began to participate in various industry activities and exchanges, made many like-minded friends, and also received the recognition and support of many industry leaders. Her career is gradually on the right track, and she has gained her self-confidence and sense of accomplishment.
Through Xiao A's experience, we can see that in the workplace, the pursuit of "perfection" is not the most important. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and the important thing is to find your own position and give full play to your own strengths in order to truly realize your self-worth. At the same time, we also need to understand a truth: beauty and success are not external standards, but inner self-confidence and independent thinking ability.