What should a boy do if he can't express his love? Repentance requires skill. Men always mistakenly believe that choosing a romantic way to express their love will have a higher success rate and will also make girls cry. But this kind of romance you think will only amplify her feelings for you. If she has no feelings for you and has not established a long-term attraction before, then a sudden confession will make the girl want to stay away from you.
If she likes you, it's better if you don't confess because she'll chase you all the time. Confession doesn't necessarily mean I love you. Can you be my girlfriend? These words can put a lot of pressure on her, because when a girl is faced with a sudden confession, she will choose to reject you first if she is not sure if she really likes you.
A better confession can be done through other verbal means, such as complimenting the girl, which is also an indirect confession. For example, I think you're quite social. In addition to being pretty, it's also fun to chat with you. You are also a girl with strong opinions and ideas. I love your smile and it's a pleasure to be with you. Interaction isn't just about expressing these one-sidedly, but when a girl shows interest in you, you can give her some compliments as a reward for her actions.
Don't think that just saying "like" will make a girl like you. Confession is the easiest way to pursue a girl. Confession is also a way to make the other person feel very casual. Why do many girls not like to accept confessions?
Because when you confess, it puts a lot of pressure on her. If she likes you, but can't seem casual and make you feel like you can get her easily, it will make it difficult for her to make a decision. In fact, she doesn't accept confessions in her heart, but she won't necessarily refuse to date you. She also needs to determine whether she really likes you in her heart through future interactions, rather than the short-lived affection she had during the initial contact.
Another way to put it is that I don't have much affection for you right now. If I suddenly confess my feelings at this time, the most likely outcome is that we can become friends. Because when you're not sure if she's already in love with you, you shouldn't rush to confess her feelings first. If you can get along with her in the future, maybe her feelings for you will change.
Women and men are different. Women need to protect their reputations. They don't want others to think they're casual, and they don't want others to think they're a scheming person. Girls still want your relationship to be natural and intimate, not something that can be solved with a single sentence.
At the same time, women are born with a need for men to lead them due to the fear of choice. No matter how strong a woman is, she needs a stronger man inside her. So your relationship needs to be formed in a natural process, not in a leap and bound. So what should a guy do?
The right way to express yourself is to start by building an attractive relationship with her so that she feels attracted to you, and then escalate your relationship, such as holding hands and making simple physical contact. During this time, she may also sense that you are also intrigued. Attract her and then express your attraction to her. This will rationalize the mutual attraction between you. At this time, the two people are in love.
Second, the biggest problem with confession is that you like her, but you don't know if she likes you or not. So boys will use the stupidest way to express their love. This may seem good, but you may have skipped the step of attracting her. Even if she likes you, you'll instinctively let her turn on protection. Cover. Because I don't want to reject you by acting casual. Boys will always be attracted to girls after attracting girls to supplement their sense of connection. In this way, the relationship is determined. For men, women feel casual, but for women, this is the most natural way.