2024 has opened a new chapter, and every day there are happy or sad stories, some people leave the world with regrets, some people come to the world with joy, and the sorrows and joys of the world are intertwined like the ebb and flow of the tide.
A little ash of the times falls on a person's head, and it is a mountain. A little accident in life occurs in a family, and it is the abyss from which there will be no return. On ordinary days, sometimes it's hard to predict when the unexpected will come.
For women, the most fearful thing in life is to meet someone unladylike and be let down. "I wish to have one heart and one heart, and the white head will not be separated", what a beautiful wish. Therefore, some people do not believe in true feelings, but there is indeed no shortage of true feelings in life.
Recently, there is a couple who has touched many people, they work hand in hand, support each other, and interpret the most beautiful mutual love.
For women, the most beautiful thing in this life is to meet someone who loves them, and love is not a blank check, not sweet words, but a real protection.
Recently, a woman in Shanghai shared a family **, which touched many people. She has a sweet appearance, a young and beautiful face, curved eyebrows, and bright eyes, which makes people look a little loving.
Unfortunately, two months ago she had a serious illness that almost killed her. In the face of serious illness, her husband did not abandon her, did not stay away from her, but chose to scatter his family wealth to save her life.
A few days ago, her condition changed, she was rushed to the ICU, and spent more than 100 hours in the intensive care unit.
In the past 100 hours, my husband went to work and ran to the hospital at the same time, and as long as he was free, he would silently guard the door of the ICU, look inside, and wait patiently, hoping for a miracle to happen.
Finally, God favored, the woman overcame the disease, came out of the ICU, and she returned home. found that the husband in front of him seemed to be much older, and his originally black and shiny hair grew a lot of silver threads overnight.
After this serious illness, her husband's ideology also changed. Seeing the woman coming home, he stayed in front of his wife's bed, never leaving, wearing glasses, holding his cheeks, staring at his wife affectionately, his eyes were full of nostalgia and reluctance, and there seemed to be some happiness.
The wife was a little distressed and moved, she picked up her mobile phone to take a picture of her affectionate husband, and the two seemed to have a heart-to-heart connection, thanking them for overcoming the disease and surviving it. Now, the woman goes home to recuperate, and her husband goes to work during the day and comes home from work to take care of her without hesitation.
Grocery shopping, cooking, washing dishes, he took care of all the housework, the woman looked at her husband's busy figure in the kitchen, her heart was full of emotion, and she was glad for her choice.
When he had done everything, the husband stood by the woman's bed, saying, "In this way, my heart will be at ease." Hearing her husband's words, the woman's heart was very warm. After this catastrophe, the woman slowly discovered that a woman wants to marry a man with good character and responsibility. To see whether a man is good or bad, just look at the details he does, and she has chosen the right one in this life.
The experience of the woman and her husband touching many people, netizens said: "If you marry the right person, if you cough, he thinks you have a cold, marry the wrong person, you hang yourself, he thinks you are swinging." ”
Netizens said: "This is the real good husband, woman, you are married right." ”
Marriage and love are two different subjects, but there is an inevitable connection between the two. Most people can fall in love many times in their lives, but if they only marry one person, whether they can find the right person is a very mysterious question.
Of course, it is not without a trace, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, love and marriage are two different things, when looking for a partner, you must not take the other party's good to yourself as the only standard, but to see his character and sense of responsibility.
When falling in love, under the catalysis of emotion, the body will produce some changes, oxytocin will be produced, which can resist anxiety and make couples feel happy, so that many people fall into a situation of intoxication. At the same time, under the catalysis of vasopressin, love can last for a while, and the two hormones work together to allow them to enjoy emotional joy to the fullest.
But with the deepening of understanding each other, love also has an expiration time, after the passion period, you will see the shortcomings of the other party, the feelings in your heart will gradually change, and then the importance of character will be revealed.
There is a saying: "Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, fit for character, long for kindness, and finally character." This phrase applies not only to everyday social interactions, but also to married life.
Knowing a person and liking a person may initially be attracted by each other's appearance, and then slowly find out that the other party is talented and admirable, and then feel that each other has similar personalities, but how long the relationship between the two can last, whether they can understand each other and support each other, ultimately depends on the individual's character.
A person with good character, no matter what time or situation, he will never give up, he will take his own responsibility, hold the hand of his son, and grow old with his son. This woman in Shanghai is unlucky, but also lucky, I wish her a safe life!