Zeng Guofan was an outstanding statesman and military strategist in Chinese history, and his life was full of wisdom and insight. In interpersonal communication, he deeply realized that it is very important to choose the object of deep friendship, and the key to judging whether a person is worthy of deep friendship lies in the following four points.
The first point is "Chi". Tsang believes that a person's ambition determines his future direction and achievements. If a person has great ambitions and a clear goal to strive for, then he has the possibility of achieving great things in the future. On the contrary, if a person's ambition is unclear and lacks goals, then it is difficult for him to make a big breakthrough in life. Therefore, when choosing a partner for deep friendship, Zeng Guofan will first consider the other party's aspirations and goals to see if it is consistent with his own values and life pursuits.
The second point is "learning". Zeng Guofan believes that knowledge is the embodiment of a person's inner quality and the foundation for a person's growth and development. A knowledgeable person is not only better able to cope with various challenges in life, but also to better understand the world and oneself. Therefore, when Zeng Guofan chooses the object of deep friendship, he will pay attention to the other party's knowledge and knowledge reserves, to see if he can complement himself and inspire each other.
The third point is "virtue". Zeng Guofan believes that a person's moral character determines his behavior and way of doing things, and is also an important criterion for whether he is trustworthy. A person of high moral character is not only able to match his words with his deeds, but also to be more sincere with his friends and partners. On the other hand, people with low moral character often engage in immoral behavior and even betray their friends. Therefore, when Zeng Guofan chooses the object of deep friendship, he will pay great attention to the character and behavior habits of the other party.
The fourth point is "talent". Zeng Guofan believes that talent is the embodiment of a person's ability, and it is also one of the key factors for a person's success in his career. A talented person is not only better able to cope with various challenges at work, but also to create more value. Therefore, when Zeng Guofan chooses the object of deep friendship, he will pay attention to the talent and ability of the other party, and see if he can complement himself and help each other.
In short, Zeng Guofan believes that when choosing the object of deep friendship, we should pay attention to the other party's "ambition", "learning", "morality" and "talent", which are important criteria for judging whether a person is worthy of deep friendship.