At the 2009 Civic Moral Education Conference, actress Ding Jiali said without concealment: "I once seduced others when I was in school, and I had countless male pets, but I had no self-esteem and morality. ”
Ding Jiali was over half a hundred years old, and at that time, in full view of everyone, she began to perform a "public execution" of herself.
As a well-known "uncrowned queen", why did she destroy her future? Are the rumors of her pregnancy, abortion, cheating on many people, and extravagance true or false?
Ding Jiali was assigned to work in the theater when she just graduated, and she fell in love with her colleague Hu Guangchuan at first sight on the first day she arrived.
Since she was exposed to many "sexual liberation" currents early in college, she was very open-minded in her behavior.
She did not hesitate to pursue it, which was quite groundbreaking in the society of the time.
Although there are great differences between the two, after all, at that time, Hu Guangchuan was already the leading figure in the young section of the drama.
Although he didn't like Ding Jiali, when faced with a beautiful girl with an avant-garde personality and an open flower season, it didn't take long for him to be conquered by her.
Ding Jiali offered to have sex shortly after the two were together.
Nowadays, such requests are commonplace, after all, getting along with the opposite sex will inevitably stimulate hormones, and it is normal to engage in some behaviors that attract each other.
However, don't forget that they lived in the 80s, when the social climate was not as ** and rough as it is now, so unmarried sex was considered extremely immoral.
Although Hu Guangchuan was a little older, he couldn't help but feel a little nervous when he heard such a request, and he decided to refuse her request after many hesitations.
Under Ding Jiali's constant seduction and bold moves, he repeatedly lost self-control.
She comforted, looking at her boyfriend's nervous expression: "Be bold and do what you want, what's there." ”
After a night of unforgettable experiences, Ding Jiali was completely addicted to this behavior and couldn't extricate herself, and from time to time she would secretly enjoy the forbidden fruit with her boyfriend.
As the number of sweet moments between men and women increased, it didn't take long for Ding Jiali to be surprised to find out that she was pregnant.
Two people who get carried away are woken up by the cold water of reality, and they are completely panicked because they are pregnant before they are married, which will surely be spurned at the time.
* is the only option, but that would mean leaking to family and colleagues.
At this difficult moment of choice, both parties fell into a state of indecision, they were helpless, and the stomach gradually showed obvious changes, becoming more prominent day by day.
Ding Jiali eventually couldn't help but go to the hospital, and in order to avoid arousing suspicion, she lied that she was married.
Her every movement revealed nervousness and uneasiness, and the knowing doctor did not give her any comfort, but instead gave her all kinds of cynicism during the operation.
Ding Jiali not only suffered physical pain at this time, but also mental torture followed, completely losing her original wanton appearance.
As soon as she got off the operating table, she swore viciously, saying that she would never steal the forbidden fruit and hurt her body again in the future until the operation was over.
However, surprisingly, her desire that had just ended was uncontrollable, and she began to urgently call her boyfriend to enjoy the good times in the world of the two again.
It was no surprise that she became pregnant again shortly after the abortion, and in the end, under various coercion and temptation, Hu Guangchuan reluctantly took her home as her husband.
However, it was this impure marriage that laid a hidden danger for Ding Jiali's crazy behavior in the future.
In 1986, Hu Guangfa and Ding Jiali got married, but soon after she gave birth to their eldest daughter, Hu Linna, which seems to be the result of their second unmarried pregnancy.
After taking care of his wife and children, Hu Guangchuan worked harder to support his family, and sometimes it was difficult to return home for months after acting and filming.
Ding Jiali has a great desire, and she loves "freedom" when she was in school, so she can't tolerate being bound by her "married" status.
This situation only makes her even more crazy, because after all, no one can dislike someone else's wife.
She spent a lonely and difficult day and ended up leaving her children behind to go on a hotel date with a married man and partying all night.
There is no impermeable wall in the world, and the cheating in marriage was not discovered by Hu Guangchuan in advance, but was first known by her adoptive father.
Ding Jiali was given to someone else by her biological parents after she was born, and because she was a girl, she went through seven or eight changes of hands before finally coming to her current adoptive parents.
Although the family's living conditions were not ideal, the kind parents always did their best to fulfill little Jiali's wishes.
She was endlessly pampered, which led her to develop a distinctive trait, until she grew up, and Ding Jiali's behavior gradually deviated from the right track.
Parents are shocked to find themselves pregnant out of wedlock, and then blatantly cheat on someone shortly after.
Their behavior became more and more frenzied, and they even took the man home and went directly to the bedroom in front of the children and parents, and their loud voices could be heard outside.
But the two elderly parents can no longer control Ding Jiali, who is immersed in it, and they can only do everything they can to help her hide it and make her lie in front of her husband.
When Hu Guangchuan first learned of this above board act, he still didn't want to believe it.
It wasn't until he opened the bedroom door himself and saw his wife in a state of extreme indulgence in bed that he almost couldn't help but collapse.
On the day of his daughter's full moon, Hu Guangchuan filed for divorce from Ding Jiali.
Ding Jiali originally didn't care about this, and even longed for the other party to leave her life as soon as possible, so they immediately went through divorce procedures.
She is completely free from her shackles and not only plays more and more out of line in terms of entertainment, but her acting career has also become more successful thanks to her open-minded style.
While Ding Jiali's career was thriving, she ushered in her second marriage. In 1990, she met a university teacher, and the two were hastily married soon after.
She became pregnant out of wedlock and welcomed her youngest son soon after.
Interestingly, this marriage is exactly the same as the last time, and it was also when the child was just full moon, because one party cheated, which led to the breakdown of the marriage of the two.
The person who made the mistake this time turned out to be a university teacher, and Ding Jiali also tasted the betrayal of others many years later.
She wanted to restrain herself and live a well-behaved life, but fate seemed to play tricks on her, allowing her to meet Sun Honglei, who was just beginning to emerge, and experienced retribution in him.
Ding Jiali, who has experienced two failed marriages, is no longer interested in feelings and is determined to devote herself to her career.
In 1999, when she was active in the repertory theatre performing Marie Curie, she met Sun Honglei for the first time.
At that time, Sun Honglei had just started his acting career, and he was 11 years old apart from Ding Jiali.
Maybe because they are all fellow villagers in the Northeast, the older Ding Jiali always cares about this younger brother. Coincidentally, at this time, Red Lei's girlfriend abandoned him and went to join the local tyrant.
Greatly stimulated, he silently swore in his heart that he was determined to make a difference, so that the woman who abandoned him would regret it forever.
With his meticulous and meticulous character, Sun Honglei became interested in Ding Jiali's prey at a glance, and for him, this is definitely a ready-made opportunity that cannot be missed.
In order to win her heart, I not only amuse Ding Jiali in a different way every day, but also show up when she needs me.
Ding Jiali's heart has been in a state of silence for a long time, Sun Honglei's thoughtful care directly hit her heart, and soon she was completely immersed in Sun Honglei's love and couldn't extricate herself.
In order to make him successfully star in the drama "Marie Curie", Ding Jiali even found the director to kneel and pray, which shows her determination.
However, what she didn't expect was that after Sun Honglei became popular with "Conquest" in 2003, he immediately found Ding Jiali and proposed to break up.
She was so shocked that she couldn't speak, she couldn't believe it, and asked urgently, "Why?" ”
Sun Honglei just said an abnormal sentence indifferently: "I have always been using you, and now that I am popular, you have no use value." ”
When Ding Jiali heard that short sentence, she felt as shocked as five thunderbolts. After 3 years of relationship, in the end, I still can't resist the ** of interests.
In an interview, Sun Honglei did not shy away from expressing his contempt for Ding Jiali, implicitly implying that she was a woman who lacked education and was only good at working with others.
She has regained her sobriety, but it is too late by this time, the former girl has been polished into a middle-aged woman by the years, she has not only lost love, but even the children are indifferent to her.
In old age, there is no one else to be with alone.
Affection is one of the most karmic areas, and if you are loyal to it, it will not fail to live up to your expectations.
Indulging oneself when you are young, without scruples and concerns, can pay a heavy price in middle or old age. Every relationship you play with will stay with you for the rest of your life.
Treating feelings with heart and treating others with heart is the best way to live a good life.