Spring Festival movies have fun every year, and they quarrel every year, and this year is no exception.
The movie "Hot and Hot" directed by Jia Ling won a box office of 3.3 billion in 20 days after its release, becoming the highest-grossing film in the Spring Festival stalls, and Jia Ling's own career has also reached a higher level.
But the hottest topic this year is not her movies, but herself
Losing 100 pounds a year is almost a miracle.
When Du Leying in the movie successfully lost weight, Jia Ling in reality also achieved transformation.
Many viewers were impressed by the burning vitality of Jia Ling, the movie overlapped with reality, and Jia Ling has become the new spokesperson for female power.
And after losing weight, Jia Ling is a resident of hot searches, and the golden sentences during interviews often sweep the whole network.
So after the praise, some people expressed their dissatisfaction with this-
Hanging on the hot search every day, is there no end? ”
The overwhelming marketing is disgusting, and it has turned black. ”
There are even people who say "Jia Ling ruined Chinese movies".
Whether it is positive or negative, to a certain extent, it is actually fair for a public figure.
But among the many disgusting words, the most unbelievable thing for the girl is-
Jia Ling, stabbed a woman in the back. ”
The reason for the backstab is even more ridiculous -
"She actually dared to wear high heels and burn big waves! ”
On February 18, Jia Ling released an MV, saying that this is the first song she has written, and it is also what she has always wanted to say:
Everything is in time, remember to love yourself.
It can be seen that Jia Ling is very attentive to this MV, and she has been preparing for at least a year.
* In the first half, I was chubby and losing weight, running, fitness, and boxing;
* In the second half of the *, Jia Ling successfully lost weight and returned gorgeously as a queen.
Most people were deeply burned by Jia Ling after reading **, and their admiration came spontaneously, shouting "Sister Ling is a good cow".
However, some people only saw Jia Ling wearing "beautiful torture equipment" high heels, revealing her small fragrant shoulders and long legs, and ridiculed her:
Your husband and sister have finally stepped on the height of hatred. ”
The comments at the bottom are even more malicious-
Loving yourself is just about wearing high heels, right? ”
It's all mixed in the entertainment industry, how can you mix it up if you don't supply it? ”
It is correct not to make offerings. ”
What's more, he directly uses a painting to express irony:
Pigs that were tied up were tribute, as were women who were dressed naked.
Offering "tribute", the degree of materialization of these metaphors makes me smack
A woman wearing high heels is equivalent to a pig tied up, and the male gaze is fed on it, even if she is excellent and powerful, it is also a "tribute".
is obviously insulting women, but he prefers to use the slogan of "awakening".
They couldn't see how much Jia Ling had walked and how many tears she shed in the first half of her life, so she stood on this stage and wore what she wanted to wear and express what she thought in her heart.
They only saw that this woman dared to wear high heels to serve in beautiful service!
This kind of "love girl" thinking, in a word-
Only love the fashionable and avant-garde female progress symbols, not the concrete and vivid real women.
What's more, Jia Ling's life does not need the so-called progressive symbol to emphasize the "big heroine" at all.
Jia Ling, more than 20 years ago, came to Beijing from a small county town in Hubei to pursue her dream.
entered the cross talk industry where there are more men and fewer women, and he is not a foil for male actors, but only the first female to tease;
dared to innovate in cross talk, put forward the concept of "Cool Mouth Gang", and put it on the Spring Festival Gala;
When the actors of the same generation were still performing on stage, she established "Big Bowl Entertainment" and transformed in time;
The first work "Hello, Li Huanying" directly won the achievement of the highest box office female director in domestic entertainment.
The surging vitality is burning wildly in Jia Ling's life, if you only use "American service" to define the heroine, this is undoubtedly a kind of debasement for her.
And "hot a big wave and wear an evening dress" itself is Jia Ling's free will.
In the end credits of "Hot and Hot", the staff asked Jia Ling:
Sister Ling, what do you want to do most if you lose 100 pounds? ”
I just want to make a big wave and wear an evening dress. ”
Jia Ling does not daydream vainly, she will only put her wishes into reality, and every node of her life is her life epic.
If a successful woman is still trapped in "discipline", it is really sad, indicating that she still does not have the ability to make her own choice.
Women's freedom to dress is constrained by the "female virtue" in the name of "awakening", which is nothing more than replacing the traditional thinking of "you are a woman, you can't show your face" with "you are a woman, you can't become a product of the male gaze".
PUA, daddy discipline, and the proclamation of not allowing women's free will.
The woman in the same situation also has the spokesperson of the coconut tree, Xu Dongdong.
The skin is white and beautiful, and the S curve shows the waist.
Xu Dongdong's figure has indeed attracted a lot of stares for her, and many people will link Xu Dongdong's temperament with sex symbols.
Someone stares, and naturally someone disciplines.
Many people scolded her for being a "charming man" and "serving in the United States"; There are also fans who want to express their beauty, but lack courage because of shame.
Regarding these chaotic voices, Xu Dongdong only said:
When I was a child, I saw the sunshine and confidence of many beautiful calendar girls....How beautiful the swimsuit beauties on the old calendar are, no matter how beautiful they are to show the plump beauty of the body or the bony beauty, they should not be ashamed. Thank you, netizens. No need to code my swimsuit. ”
Don't code my swimsuit" is a small request that is not worth mentioning, but behind this sentence is a self-consistent Xu Dongdong.
She will not be intimidated by the gaze, and will henceforth wrap herself tightly; will not be knocked down by the "service to the United States" in the outside world and the "shame" in the heart, and give up beauty from now on.
Xu Dongdong appreciates and likes her plump self, and it is precisely because of this self-pleasing that she can say that sentence calmly:
Whether you show the plump beauty of your body or the beauty of your skin, you should not be ashamed. ”
This is the true strength of a woman, who dares to defend her free will and not be swayed by others.
Whether it is Jia Ling, Xu Dongdong, or other women, when it comes to them, some people always focus on their figure and aesthetics, so as to make one-sided evaluations.
But no woman is defined by weight, body shape, clothes, shoes.
Each of us should accept our true selves and fill the gaps in our souls.