"Mom, dad is going to **? When will you come to see me? ”
An emaciated girl was lying on a hospital bed, her eyes red and she asked her mother, who was visibly tired.
"I don't know. ”
The woman's eyes were full of exhaustion, she really didn't know why this man was so ruthless, this was also his daughter!
What really happened to the mother and daughter?
The woman's surname is Yang, and her daughter's name is Xiaoling, who has been a well-behaved and clever child since she was a child, especially in art, and has an amazing talent.
Ms. Yang and her husband have high hopes for Xiaoling and give Xiaoling all their love, Xiaoling is very happy every day, she has a father and mother who love her.
At the age of 9, Xiaoling successfully passed the piano grade 8 exam, which was a very happy thing.
However, it was also in this year that Ms. Xiao Yang chose to divorce her husband, and the divorce between the two was not happy, and Xiao Ling's father tried to keep Ms. Yang.
But Ms. Yang was very resoluteinsisted on divorce, and also got custody of Xiaoling.
After the divorce of the husband and wife, Xiaoling, who was only 9 years old, was devastated, and the warm home she had always thought was shattered, and in the days that followed, she did not see her father for a long time.
Xiaoling's originally lively and cheerful personality has also changed a lot, she is always in a daze, and no one knows what she is thinking.
Xiaoling hopes that their family can go back to the past, and the family is happy together, but this has become a luxury after all.
It is often said that time is always a good medicine.
It is true that with the company of Ms. Yang, Xiaoling has regained a lot of vitality after two years, at least she is no longer always sitting alone in the corner in a daze.
However, just when Ms. Yang thought that their lives would get better and better, a bad news struck them.
It was a very ordinary day, and it happened that Ms. Yang was not at work, and the mother and daughter were watching TV at home.
At a certain moment, Xiaoling suddenly felt very uncomfortable, but she couldn't say that she was uncomfortable, so she told Ms. Yang.
When Ms. Yang saw Xiaoling's pale face, she immediately became nervous and hurriedly sent Xiaoling to the hospital in a panic.
After arriving at the hospital, she immediately underwent an examination, and then the doctor told Ms. Yang bluntly: "Your daughter's illness may be more serious, and it is recommended to go to a more professional children's hospital for further examination." ”
At this time, Ms. Yang was flustered, this is not a joke, she was worried and frightened and took her daughter to a well-known children's hospital in Beijing.
The time spent waiting for the results of the examination was extremely painful, and Ms. Yang was very desperate to have someone to rely on.
Finally, the results came out, and it turned out to be aplastic anemia with hemophilic gene LYST positive!
Ms. Yang was like a bolt from the blue when she learned the news, which was really terrible, her daughter was still so young.
But no matter what, it can still be ** after all, that isHave a bone marrow transplant
And this operation must be performed, otherwise Xiaoling may not be able to live.
Ms. Yang felt like she was about to lose her breath.
I learned from the doctor that it isThe cost of the operation is about 500,000 yuanWell, that's not a small amount.
Ms. Yang is just an ordinary teacher, with a salary of several thousand yuan per month, and although the family's expenses are not too large, it is impossible to have so much savings.
MoreoverThe right bone marrow to find? Again, this is a big problem.
Ms. Yang herself is very willing, but it is a pity that her bone marrow does not match her daughter.
Bone marrow transplantation is the most suitable to find relatives, and the success rate will be greatly increased, Ms. Yang's own mismatch, and there is another person who is very likely to be okay.
That's Ms. Yang's ex-husband.
For her ex-husband, Ms. Yang's feelings are complicated, she asked for a divorce at the beginning, and in the two years after the divorce, they did not have much communication.
He had never come to see their mother and daughter, and it was impossible for him not to be suspicious of it.
But seeing her daughter lying on the hospital bed, Ms. Yang decided to contact her ex-husband.
After two years, Ms. Yang dialed her ex-husband's mobile phone number again, and unexpectedly, the man did not change the number, and it didn't take long to call, and it was quickly connected.
* A familiar voice came from the other end: "Hello, who is it?" ”
Ms. Yang was silent for a few seconds, and it was not until the other side asked again that she stumbled to greet her ex-husband and told him that her daughter was sick and needed a bone marrow transplant.
After saying that, ** fell into a short silence, and after a while, the ex-husband said:"I know, if my bone marrow matches Xiaoling, then use mine, the matter of money, let's figure it out together, where are you now? ”
Ms. Yang was shocked by her ex-husband's unexpected answer, and she was very surprised that her ex-husband would agree without the slightest cynicism or accusation.
In the afternoon of the same day, my ex-husband came to a hospital in Hebei where Xiaoling was located, and the hospital in Beijing had a shortage of beds and a lot of expenses, so it was in the hospital ** in Hebei.
Xiao Ling saw her father for the first time in a long time, and she was extremely excited, and her miserable little face also had an extremely bright smile.
Xiaoling hadn't seen her father for two years, and her father was still the same as two years ago, with a gentle face and a majestic figure, and she couldn't help crying when she held her father's generous hand.
The ex-husband touched Xiaoling's head and said gently"It'll be fine, Xiaoling, don't be afraid, Dad is here." ”
In order to carry out the surgery faster, it is natural to raise money as soon as possibleMs. Yang's ex-husband travels around every day to raise money, Ms. Yang is also looking for people everywhere.
Finally, the two raised enough money for the operation.
Now that the surgery fee is paid, the next question is the bone marrow.
Ms. Yang has new worries about this, she was very happy when she learned that her ex-husband and Xiaoling were matched, but at the same time, she was also very worried that her ex-husband would not regret it until he was at the end of his life.
After all, they are divorced, and the children belong to her, and she can't force him to agree, and if he really repents, she can't do anything.
During the preparation for the operation, Ms. Yang wanted to tell her ex-husband about it several times, but she couldn't open her mouth.
It wasn't until the time of the operation was approaching that Ms. Yang finally said to her ex-husband"I heard that after a bone marrow transplant, your body will also be affected to a certain extent, can you really accept it? ”
Ms. Yang's ex-husband didn't look at her, but kept looking at her haggard daughter who was sleeping soundly on the hospital bed, and said:"Well, I know, you don't have to think too much, I'll donate bone marrow to my daughter. ”
Ms. Yang was relieved when she listened to her ex-husband's answer, she looked at her ex-husband's side face and sighed deeply.
October 19, 2018, this is the day Xiaoling had surgery.
Fortunately, the operation was successful, but Ms. Yang had already been mentally prepared, and the end of the operation did not mean that Xiaoling would be able to get better.
The doctor had already told her that the postoperative repair process was very crucial, and a series of chemotherapy treatments needed not only Xiaoling's strength, but also the support and encouragement of their parents.
At this time, Xiaoling was 11 years old, but she was very strong, and she survived chemotherapy again and again.
Although this is very painful, every time I open my eyes, I can see my parents at the same time, and Xiaoling can still laugh happily.
The chemotherapy was very painful, Xiaoling's body was naturally and inevitably affected, at this time, she was no longer able to play the piano, but she could still hold the animation brush.
She likes to draw, and the paintings she paints are very warmIt is a picture of their family of three getting along together.
Xiaoling's father often praised her, and Xiaoling was very happy.
But what Xiaoling didn't know was that what she saw was just an illusion.
Ms. Yang and her ex-husband are very clear that they cannot go back to the past, and now they are in harmony on the surface, just to make their daughter happy.
Ms. Yang wanted to communicate with her ex-husband several times, hoping to maintain this illusion for a longer time until her daughter recovered from her illness.
But her ex-husband was reluctant to communicate too much with Ms. Yang, and after her daughter fell asleep, she almost always played with her mobile phone there, obviously not wanting to communicate too much with Ms. Yang.
Seeing her ex-husband's behavior like this, Ms. Yang had no idea of talking to him.
Time passed like this.
At that time, Ms. Yang never thought that her ex-husband would be so irresponsible and ruthless, so he left their mother and daughter without a trace.
And she doesn't even know how to face her mother and daughter in the days without her ex-husband.
Unfortunately, nothing can be changed.
In February 2019, when it was the Chinese New Year, Ms. Yang said something to her ex-husband and went home to see her mother.
Ms. Yang, who returned home, was in a much better mood, although her days in the hospital were depressed, but with her ex-husband, she felt a lot better, but after all, she was still more comfortable at home.
Ms. Yang's mobile phone, which was chatting with her mother, suddenly vibrate, and Ms. Yang looked down at a text message from her ex-husband.
Ms. Yang was a little surprised, how could she send a text message? Usually send WeChat, if there is an emergency, it is not faster to call ** directly.
She unlocked her phone with doubts and opened the text message.
The content of the text message made her whole person feel like she had clicked into an ice cellar.
The content of the text message was not long, but it made Ms. Yang's heart tremble, and her ex-husband said succinctly:
"This was the last time we were in touch, and during this time, I have fulfilled my responsibilities as a father. ”
"Whether it's raising money for surgery or having a bone marrow transplant, I've done it, so you can take good care of your daughter in the future. ”
Ms. Yang was terrified, what does this mean? The ex-husband is going to leave his daughter alone?
She called her ex-husband ** with cold hands and feet, but there was only a busy sound over there, and she sent him WeChat, but she only saw a red exclamation mark pop up, and the message was released at all.
She wanted to contact her ex-husband, but she couldn't get in touch at all, and she wanted to find his relatives, so she realized that in the past two years, she has deleted all the people related to him.
Ms. Yang felt extremely desperate, she really didn't expect that her ex-husband would leave like this, leaving nothing but a text message.
Originally, having her ex-husband take care of her daughter with her was able to give her a breath, but her ex-husband left suddenly, which made her about to collapse.
Although Xiaoling has undergone many chemotherapy treatments, the next series of follow-up ** still costs a lot of money, and Xiaoling also needs to be taken care of.
The sudden departure of her ex-husband made it difficult for Ms. Yang to accept.
Ms. Yang's own life is not so easy, and she can't take care of Xiaoling wholeheartedly.
Ms. Yang remarried shortly after divorcing her ex-husband and had another child, the child is still so young, she must not be completely ignorant.
Without the care of her ex-husband, Ms. Yang also had a lot of resentment about life, and she always complained in her heart that her ex-husband was so ruthless, so she left her daughter alone.
At the beginning, Xiaoling would ask Ms. Yang with anticipation"Mom, where is Daddy? When will he come to see Xiaoling? ”
Regarding her daughter's question, Ms. Yang either said "I don't know", or avoided answering or changed the topic, she really didn't know how to tell her daughter that your father didn't want you anymore.
Gradually, Xiaoling also understood that her father would not come back, just like 3 years ago.
Xiaoling fell into the state when her parents had just divorced before, and every day in addition to painful chemotherapy, there was only a dull daze.
She was quiet, quietly looking out the window at the sky and white clouds, she missed her dad, but she knew that he wouldn't show up.
But no matter what, Xiaoling's follow-up still needs a lot of money, and Ms. Yang, who has no way out, finally chose to turn to the society for help.
In her rhetoric, it is inevitable that there are many remarks complaining about her ex-husband.
In any case, in the end, a lot of money was raised from caring people in the society that could be used for Xiaoling's **.
While Ms. Yang sought help from the society, she also recounted that her ex-husband left her daughter who was still in the ** stage and said goodbye.
Netizens started a heated discussion about this.
Some people think: "It's really not right for my ex-husband to do this, after all, it is also his daughter, and his daughter is in the stage where she needs his love, but he left."It's so irresponsible
Another person said: "Even if my ex-husband wants to leave, at least tell my daughter."The daughter is so pitiful, I thought my father was back, but I didn't expect to wake up and my father left again. ”
Some people also pointed out: "Even if you are divorced, the child is still his child after all, and you can leave the child who loves you so much."It's really too much
Some people think that the ex-husband is a bit excessive, but others believe that this is not the case.
Someone said: "My ex-husband has indeed entered the responsibility, raised money for surgery, donated bone marrow, and he did it one by one."It's already very responsible
Another person said: "It's been two years since I divorced, but my ex-husband is still raising money and donating bone marrow for the sake of the child."It's already good。Besides, the women have remarried, and the ex-husband may have a new life of his own, so it should be to ask the current husband for help instead of constantly asking the ex-husband to pay more. ”
Someone else also mentioned: "Just being willing to donate bone marrow is good enough."Be more tolerant and understanding of your ex-husband
In addition, some people think: "If a woman has a new family by herself, can't her ex-husband have it?" The ex-husband has already done it to this extentIt can be regarded as the end of benevolence and righteousness
In any case, it is a fact that Ms. Yang divorced her ex-husband, and it is also a fact that her ex-husband left, but it is also a fact that Xiaoling was hurt because of this.
Xiaoling hopes that the family of three will be neat and tidy, and hopes that her parents will be by her side, but this wish is obviously impossible to come true.
Regardless of why Ms. Yang and her ex-husband divorced, or whether their divorce exists whether or not there is right and who is wrongChildren are the most innocent after all.
The parents' relationship broke down, the marriage failed, and each of them may have a new family and a new beginning, but the child who was once born as the "crystallization of love" of the two is sandwiched between the two new families, how innocent it is.