Recently, the news of a 12-year-old girl buying the Civil Code Law to "deal with" her mother appeared on the hot search, which attracted widespread attention from netizens. Everyone's first reaction was to think it was funny and funny, but when the little girl cried and said the reason, netizens were silent.
In Xiangyang, Hubei, a 12-year-old girl called the police to say that her mother scolded her, and the police uncle couldn't cry or laugh after learning about the situation. It turned out that the little girl's grandfather was a police officer, and in addition to calling the police, she also bought a copy of the civil code to deal with her mother.
Hearing this, everyone laughed. But what the little girl said next with a crying voice made people laugh: "As long as she is angry and has no place to get angry, she will shoot at me." ”
The little girl tore her throat and said the reason for buying the civil code, protecting her dignity like a little hero. In the eyes of adults, this may be a joke, but it has caused netizens to think deeply.
What kind of woman is this doll forced to be to defend herself through such means? ”
This little girl is so squeamish, what's wrong with the child scolding? ”
Like us, we were beaten and scolded by our parents, and we didn't call the police at that time! ”
The comments of netizens have their own merits. Although some people think that the little girl is too squeamish, more parents are beginning to examine themselves: in the process of raising their children, are they also like this mother, who sprinkles anger on their children?
Children are the crystallization of love, and they are born as individuals. They need adults to raise, educate, and provide a lot of money to invest, but this does not mean that adults can do whatever they want with them and vent negative emotions on their children.
Modern young people live and work under pressure, and the cost of childcare is high, so it is inevitable that they will be angry in the workplace. But when they are angry, they will pour their anger on their children in order to divert their misfortune, which is quite "shameless".
Every child is a blank slate from birth, how you train and how you write, he will become. If you give him love, he will become a man of great love; If you scold him, he will become an extreme, irritable, timid person. Just like a seedling, if given sufficient nourishment at a young age, it will be able to thrive; If you ignore it, don't loosen the soil and don't fertilize, it will grow into a crooked melon and cracked date.
The world of children is very simple, and their joys, sorrows and sorrows will be expressed on their faces. Children's world is also very simple, they don't know how to beat around the bush, like is like, hate is hate. Therefore, in the process of getting along with children, be more patient, more understanding, less blame, and less scolding, so that children can grow up in a loving environment.
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