In this life, God will give you some good opportunities. It's up to you to catch them. When you grab them, they get better and better.
However, life is unpredictable, and the world is even more unpredictable. A lot of things can happen to you overnight, and you may even lose everything overnight.
In this life, it is impossible to gain all the time, and it is impossible to lose it all the time. Only by maintaining a calm mind, looking down on what you lose and what you lose, and facing up to your successes and failures, will your life be more fulfilling.
In fact, a lot of things happen with signals. Some people can feel that something is wrong, so they adjust the direction in time, stop losses in time, and avoid losses.
Some people are arrogant and easily deceived and lose a lot.
In this life, people must pay attention to these three things in order to live a good life!
1.Started going to the hospital often.
When your body starts signaling to you to go to the hospital often, you should pay attention. Physical health is paramount. No matter how busy you are at work, you should start adjusting your body.
If you don't care about your body, neglect your body, don't listen to the doctor's advice, think you're okay, and you're still overdrawing your body, then it's a big problem when something goes wrong.
Physical health is everything. Don't be too conceited just because you're young. When your body reaches its limits, it sends signals to you.
In life, when you don't feel well, you should take the time to look at it.
In "Fireworks", Meng Wanqing begins to feel unwell and always feels pain. The daughter told her to hurry to the hospital and not delay.
In fact, she delayed several times and made an appointment, but didn't go because she was busy. Finally, when her daughter was at home, she noticed that something was wrong with her daughter, so she accompanied her daughter to visit her.
Later, she was diagnosed with cancer, which was not at an advanced stage, so she listened to the doctor and quickly underwent surgery.
Therefore, when something is wrong with your body, it sends a signal to you. Be sure to take care of your body, don't get angry, and stay in a good mood. It's about being kind to yourself. Also pay attention to exercising, maintain good living habits, and don't overdraw. Only by taking care of yourself can you enjoy the blessings.
2. Cracks began to appear between family members, and quarrels continued.
In fact, most of a person's happiness comes from his family. Only when the family is happy, can the individual be happy.
When you and your family start arguing a lot, and you always interfere in the affairs of the family, you are always attached to the family, and you want the family to live as you wish. The more tolerant you are, the easier things will be. If you have conflicts, you will not receive care and happiness, but will live a miserable life.
Meng Mingwei in "Fireworks" is like this. She is too tolerant not only of her daughter, but also of everyone in the family. She doesn't know that everyone has their own thoughts and lives, so she just thinks it's all her fault. It is wrong for others not to follow their own ideas.
The more Meng Mingwei took care of his daughter, the more he quarreled with her, so that his daughter didn't dare to go home and refused to pick up her **. When she was at home, her husband didn't care about her, so her life was just getting better. Very lonely.
There must be despicable things for the poor.
When people get old, they can't take care of too much. Only by learning to let go can we get warm family affection and family happiness.
Otherwise, the relationship will become strained and your own hard days will come.
3. Start investing blindly, and the loss of money is getting more and more serious.
Meng Mingwei's husband retired at home. He only knows how to study all day long**, but he has no technology and no money. He used his wife's retirement salary to invest blindly, and the money he earned was not enough to lose money. 。
Meng Mingwei's husband not only lost all her salary, but even secretly took a sum of money she had saved and thought about starting a business. Unexpectedly, I was deceived by a friend. Not only did he have no money, but he also owed a lot of debt.
When people are old, they are still whimsical, blindly invest, easy to trust others, and unwilling to stop even if they lose money. Instead, they want to invest more and recoup their money all at once.
The more people think like this, the more they end up with nothing. In the end, the money is gone, and I have to make money to pay off my debts, and I have to drag down my family. That's the real hard life.
In short, in this life, you must pay attention to the above three things in order to live a good life!