In fact, Xie Nan is a very controlling person, she hopes that everything can be realized according to her own ideas, this aspect is very subtle, but the psychological counselor can see it at a glance.
Her constant fragmented thoughts and gentle dogmatism at any time constantly deny the other party, provoke the man and get everyone's comfort by crying, it seems that Wu Jing is a very selfish person, which is more likely to cause Wu Jing's rebellious psychology.
But this makes it easy for people around her to resent her.
Like some parents, they will not block it strongly, but all kinds of soft control, which makes people feel uncomfortable and collapse.
Either they are pitiful in front of outsiders, and then outsiders will come to criticize the child, making the child very unconscionable.
The result of this is that the child hates his parents even more, and even breaks up.
Second, Xie Nan is not completely independent mentally at all, she longs for you and me in an intimate relationship, and longs for her every voice to be echoed, but this is impossible, and Wu Jing is obviously not such a character, so the personalities of the two are not very suitable.
Third, and what is even worse is that Xie Nan is completely unaware of his mistakes, obviously he wants to control everything because he manages too much, and he feels that he has not done enough, which is very helpless.
Also, the contradiction between the two, Xie Nan's grievances are seen by others, because they are too superficial; No one saw Wu Jing's helplessness and grievances, and no one understood him, because everyone could only see his violent temper on the surface.
If this continues, the two of them are easy to go farther and farther, and maybe one day they will break out, so it is not advisable for friends to scold Wu Jing one-sidedly.