Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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The road of life is rugged and difficult, and it is an unknown adventure. At each stage, we have our own difficulties and trials that we need to face.
Time hurried away, and when he was forty years old, he had entered the second half of his life.
At the intersection of forty years old, looking back at the past, there are gains and regrets. After experiencing the encounter, they will eventually say goodbye to each other.
In the second half, we must learn to look to the future, grasp the direction of life, and live our own wonderful life.
Here are four pieces of advice I have for a 40-year-old woman.
Life doesn't always go easy. Moving forward for half a life, encountering trials, setbacks, and pain.
None of us knows at what moment there will be storms and trials that we cannot predict.
Therefore, we must learn to strengthen ourselves, constantly improve our ability to withstand wind and rain, and strive to support our future.
For example, in your career, don't stop your upward pace. Learn to work hard to achieve a better version of yourself.
In life, we must learn to look down on the gains and losses. Don't worry about others, don't get angry with unworthy people, just keep your own pace.
Plato said, "Life is never easy, and even if you live in a happy and smooth situation, you will encounter difficulties that you will have to overcome." ”Anytime you encounter a problem, don't rely on others to solve it.
Instead, we must learn to face life and strengthen ourselves.
You must believe that as long as you don't admit defeat and don't succumb to the arrangement of fate, life will eventually unfold according to your ideal state.
No matter what time it is, money is very useful, and it is a person's strong confidence.
When people reach the age of 40, they should maintain reasonable consumption, save more money, and leave a way out for themselves.
I met a patient in the hospital who had just undergone surgery.
There is no money to hire a nurse, and her husband has to go to work during the day, so she can only ask the kind people in the same ward to help her get medicine and deliver water.
To save money, she didn't choose to use an analgesic pump. After the operation, I broke out in a cold sweat.
Originally, the doctor advised her to stay for a few more days to observe her recovery. But due to financial pressure, she still decided to go home to recuperate, which was embarrassing.
Money can solve most of the problems in life and make your life more decent and calm.
Women, if you have money yourself, you can take the initiative in life.
Save more money for yourself, because, in the future, when you encounter difficulties, you will have a way out.
Moreover, with money, you can also manage your own life according to your own wishes, without having to be tied up everywhere and live in poverty.
Recognize the importance of money, start saving early, and don't let yourself get into the embarrassment of life.
Everyone has their own ideas about life, their own favorite way of life, and the right to pursue their own way of life.
It doesn't matter if you live a dull life, or if you fight vigorously once. Each has its own value, and it is entirely up to you to decide.
Don't blindly follow the world's eyes, and don't follow the rhythm of others.
First of all, you must meet your expectations of life and learn to love yourself.
If you yearn for a distant place, you will throw away all the shackles and go far. Go and see the sky in the distance and feel the breath of a strange land.
If you like to be alone, stay away from the hustle and bustle, away from the disturbances in interpersonal relationships, and let your heart return to peace.
As long as you know what kind of life you want, go for it.
At the age of forty, make decisions about your own life. How you want to live is entirely up to you.
Life is already hard, and with a lot of pressure and expectations from others, the pace will become heavier and heavier.
At the age of forty, you are about to go halfway through your life, and you must learn to live for yourself.
Li Yinhe said: "I hope that I can also maintain the simplicity of my heart, love everything I have, step back from the arena of life, and be a simple enjoyer and spectator." ”Don't care about other people's opinions, know that in your own life, the most important thing is to meet your own inner expectations.
Do what you want to do but have never done, and fulfill the dream that has been put on hold in your heart. Let go of the expectations that others have placed on you and let yourself travel lightly.
Learn to listen to your inner voice, be firm in your feelings and ideas, and let yourself live for yourself in the years to come.
Live your life, live up to the time, and everything will become meaningful.
Life is really short. In a blink of an eye, I have come to the age of no confusion, and I must be clear about the direction of my future life.
Learn to save money for yourself, make yourself stronger, make yourself more powerful, and face all kinds of trials in life.
Understand what kind of life you want, learn to live for yourself, and let life glow with more vitality and color.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.