Xie Yong, the famous Chinese master of the I Ching: The most effective way to increase good luck (Part 8), how to make yourself better and better.
Xie Yong, a famous modern Chinese master of the I Ching, talks about how to improve his luck and how to make his luck better. Xie Yong, a famous modern Chinese master of the I Ching, talks about the most effective way to increase good luck
This article is Xie Yong's special "how to make your luck better" series of articles "eighth", Xie Yong's teacher combined with the "Book of Changes" culture, metaphysical culture, yin and yang five elements, feng shui numerology, Buddhism and other aspects of the comprehensive to talk about luck to talk about the problem in detail, I hope to be helpful to friends, at the same time you can also find Xie Yong teacher to solve problems for you
1) Teacher Xie Yong said: Everything pays attention to the balance of yin and yang.
As the saying goes, "ten years of good luck is good, a year of bad luck is hard", when a person is unlucky, into the unlucky environment, it is really like a year, such as sitting on pins and needles, so will find a way to change themselves, so how to make their luck better?
Regarding the origin of the word "luck", Mr. Xie Yong checked it, and at the beginning it was actually ** in the "Yellow Emperor's Neijing", which is the abbreviation of five luck and six qi, that is to say, it is composed of "five luck" and "six qi".
The five movements are the movement of the five elements of metal, wood, water, fire and earth; The six qi refer to the changes in the six climates of "wind and heat, cold and heat, and dryness and humidity".
Luck, simply put, is the result of the five elements of the natural environment "gold, wood, water, fire and earth" and the six qi "wind and heat, cold and heat, dry and damp" running each other, the five luck and six qi mainly talk about the "yin and yang five elements" in nature "six different aura" under the ups and downs and in, mainly used to describe the climate or human physiological phenomena of the year, different five elements under different luck interact with each other, it shows different "luck" states!
If we want to look at a person's luck from a metaphysical point of view, this is a very complicated problem, because the quality of luck is not something that can be controlled by an individual, we even feel that it is a very illusory thing, it is completely uncontrollable, when it will come, whether it is good luck or bad luck, it is completely unbelievable, so the only thing we can do is to do our best and find problems from our own point of view, because everything has cause and effect, we must have a correct mentality and find problems from ourselves. Keep improving, I believe that you will soon be able to avoid bad luck and get good luck.
1) Teacher Xie Yong said: Keep an optimistic and upbeat mood.
The biggest motivation that can make a person persist is to be full of hope for the future, have good expectations for the future, only hope can make a person become better and better, more and more hard, and the harder you work, you will get better and better.
A positive mindset can help us to be more focused and at ease to do what we want to do, and it will also exude positive energy and attract more luck, so always maintaining an optimistic mindset is a big secret to allowing yourself to have good luck.
Of course, everyone's life has its own troubles and difficulties, will experience some difficulties and setbacks, no matter what happens, you tell yourself, this is a good thing, you have to think about the good, because when you think about the good, then you will be optimistic about the future, your mood will be good, when you think about the good, at this time you will not be trapped in this matter, if we can't maintain a good mood, life will become torment, and we will lose the beauty it deserves.
In fact, anything that has happened is good for us, and it is all here to achieve us, even if you don't find out that it is good at that time, you have to think about the good, and your energy will be higher and higher.
The writer Rabindranath Tagore wrote in The Birds: "The world kisses me with pain and wants me to repay it with a song." ”
Living in the present, no one can have smooth sailing, no troubles, for the suffering experienced did not knock you down, but I think that I have realized the true meaning of life, learned life experience, and made myself more mature, then my optimistic attitude can make me better and better.
On the contrary, when you are blindly immersed in suffering and cannot extricate yourself, or you are accustomed to playing the role of a victim, no matter how small the difficulties encountered, you will easily be knocked down, and your life will become fragile, like duckweed in the water, and you will not do much in your life.
Before it happens, we do what is in front of us and plan carefully, but if it has happened, it means that the scorpion has landed, then this is already the best result.
2) Teacher Xie Yong talked about how to cultivate optimism.
Optimism, as one of the most positive elements of human character, is to maintain a good attitude no matter how difficult the environment is, believing that everything will pass, and that difficulties and setbacks are only temporary.
In our lives, optimism is like an inexhaustible spring, which can always bring us a refreshing taste and fresh vitality. ”
We human beings have grown up again and again in setbacks, overcome difficulties again and again, and created miracles again and again. Setbacks not only bring out our wisdom, but they also make us more mature.
Laughing at success or failure, honor and disgrace is the highest state that a person has reached in cultivating his mind, and it is something that a person should have at any time. Without a relaxed heart, there will not be a good starting point. In this world, it is often the successful who live a chic and comfortable life, and the losers live an empty and difficult life.
The greatest happiness in life is to be able to live happily every day, cherishing the happiness in front of you is the happiest thing, many people are pursuing happiness all their lives, but we don't know that happiness is in front of us, if we can learn to cherish every happiness in front of us, we have lived in happiness.
If you don't want to get caught up in the social environment or the "designed" routines of life around you, then you need to go your own way. If you have a little hobby or a little goal of your own, it can be a big career or a little hobby of your own, and you will make your life full of fun.
The goal can be big or small, as long as it can calm you down and be willing to work hard for it, you will gain a little achievement every day, immerse yourself in it, and enjoy not thinking about "vulgarity".
In this way, it is naturally easy to maintain an optimistic attitude every day.
3) Teacher Xie Yong talked about how much positive emotions affect us.
The Power of Positive Emotions says, "We don't feel positive emotions because we live a full life and are healthy, but we feel positive emotions from the bottom of our hearts that create a fulfilling and healthy life." ”
I believe that positive emotions have a very important impact on our lives, we are like flowers, and positive emotions are like sunshine, when exposed to sunlight, the closed petals of the flower will slowly unfold.
In the same way, when people are in a positive mood, their minds will become open, they will be more willing to express, and they will be more willing to discover more beauty.
Recall that when we are in a good mood, our minds will be more active, we will be more comfortable in dealing with problems, and we will be more willing to open our hearts, communicate and communicate with others, and at the same time, we will like to accept new things and be willing to learn more new knowledge.
On the contrary, when we are depressed, we may not want to do anything, we may not be too lazy to use our brains to think, we don't want to see anyone, we just want to stay at home by ourselves, we may not even be interested in playing on our mobile phones, and we may just play games mechanically.
It can be seen that positive emotions can make our thoughts and actions more open and inclusive, and take the initiative to build better social relationships with others.
The most critical difference between resilient and non-resilient people is their positive emotions, which is an intrinsic resource that grows over time, and positive emotions drive that growth, says author Barbara.
Through research experiments, the author found that when facing difficulties and setbacks, people will have various negative emotions most of the time, and at this time, the role of positive emotions is like a reset button, which can help you quickly clear out the negative emotions.
Those who are able to maintain positive emotions and are more resilient will build resilience more quickly and see the better side of things.
So, positive emotions give us a hopeful view of setbacks and failures, give us the strength to recover from difficulties, and make us more resilient and strong.
Each of us has the power to turn positive emotions on or off for ourselves.
Rest assured that when you plant the seeds of positive emotions, you will reap the rewards of a thriving life!
This article is the "eighth" article of Mr. Xie Yong's "How to Make Your Luck Good", and the rest of the "ninth, tenth" will also be launched one after another, and friends who like it can search and read it on the Internet
Of course, if you need to know the previous "first to seventh", you can also search and read by yourself, when you have read them all, as long as you can insist on doing a few of them, Mr. Xie Yong believes that it will definitely have immeasurable help and improvement in your life, and even change your life from now on
Finally, Mr. Xie Yong wished everyone: the spring breeze is proud, and it soars to 90,000 miles;