Chinese New Year, for many people, is a long-awaited time. The reunion of relatives and friends, laughter and laughter, seems to soothe a year's hard work and worries. However, as a Zhihu user asked: "Why do many people usually have a good relationship, but they quarrel when it comes to the Chinese New Year?" "What kind of humanity is hidden behind this? Let's take a look.
Romance and New Year
In the special node of the Chinese New Year, people's behavior often exposes more humanity. As one netizen said: "From red envelopes to gifts, from the dinner table to the wine party, every move exposes human nature." This sentence profoundly reveals the truth about the interpersonal relationships and human nature behind the Chinese New Year. Family reunions, reunions of relatives and friends, and the previously dormant relationship will be revitalized again. However, it is in this process that we often feel the warmth and warmth of human feelings and see through people's hearts.
Gift-giving: layers and minds
During the Chinese New Year, gift-giving is an inevitable part. However, gift-giving is not just a simple act, it is a manifestation of culture, a test of humanity and the heart. The ancients said: "If you come and don't communicate, it's rude." Exchanges of courtesy are an important part of the traditional culture of the Chinese nation. However, some people deliberately discriminate between poor and rich. This kind of behavior directly exposes a person's level and mind. High-level people know the rules and know how to give back, while low-level people only care about their own interests and are not sincere enough to treat relatives and friends. In the face of such a situation, we should keep our eyes open, cut off insincere interpersonal relationships in time, and cherish friends who truly know how to be grateful.
Talking about money: the touchstone of the human heart
The plot in the TV series "Big River" may be the best interpretation. Money is the touchstone of human nature. In the face of money, both true and false feelings will be revealed. During the Chinese New Year, everyone carries out various exchanges and behaviors around money, from paying bills to borrowing, everything is a test of human nature. Many people seem to be mercenary when it comes to money, but people who really know how to be affectionate will lend a helping hand at critical moments. Lei Dongbao started from scratch and led the villagers to get rich, but he was snubbed by everyone when he was in trouble, which is undoubtedly a huge test of human nature. Therefore, in the new year, we should keep our eyes open, distinguish between the true and the false, cherish those friends who know how to speak up, and stay away from those who are mercenary.
Dinner table: self-cultivation and demeanor
Chen Danqing once said: "The so-called upbringing, the so-called politeness, all depends on small things. "The small matter of eating can reflect a person's self-cultivation and demeanor. Some people are selfish and selfish; Some people eat hayces indiscriminately, regardless of the feelings of others, and show rudeness; Others inadvertently show a thoughtful and thoughtful quality, showing a truly nurturing side. Being in a high position without being arrogant and respecting others is a sign of true culture. At the dinner table, the cultivation and demeanor reflected will directly affect people's impression and attitude towards a person. Therefore, we should be careful in the subtleties and know the etiquette in order to maintain sincere interpersonal relationships.
The Wine Table: A Real Test.
There is an ancient Greek proverb: "When wine enters the bowels, things go straight." "After drinking, a person's true nature is exposed. Some people laugh when they get drunk, some people cry when they get drunk, and some people take advantage of the alcohol to vent their private secrets, or even provoke others by drinking and going wild. However, a truly cultivated person can maintain a clear head and a noble character even when he is drunk. One such example is the collector Ma Weidu, who is good at restraining himself, staying sober and never indulging himself in the drinking party. His actions earned him the respect and trust of his friends, and he became a leader in his circle of friends. Therefore, the wine game is not only a touchstone of human nature, but also a testing ground for sincere friendship.
The Chinese New Year is not only a test of interpersonal relationships, but also a mirror of human nature. At this special juncture, we should cherish sincere friendships and stay away from hypocritical relationships. Only in this way can we have a better life and interpersonal communication in the new year.
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