On the bustling stage of the world, interpersonal relationships can be described as inextricably linked.
However, in human society, there are always some villains, like some of the villains described in the Water Margin, who are like ambitious wolves, threatening people's peace at all times.
Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. "We should choose wisely who we associate with, turn away from the wicked, and make our life path brighter.
The Water Margin has written the stories of 108 heroes, but not all of them are worthy of our respect and trust, although some people have made certain contributions, but they have done some treacherous, sinister and vicious things.
In real life, we may also encounter people like this, if we are not vigilant and precautionary, we may be burdened by them, the following is a list of 4 typical types of villains in the Water Margin.
Song Jiang, nicknamed Shi Yu, the first leader of Liangshanbo, he is famous for his loyalty, righteousness, benevolence and bravery, he has saved countless lives in fire and water, and has also led the heroes of Liangshan to resist the invasion of Jin soldiers.
After he was recruited by the imperial court, he was ordered to conquer the rebellion in all directions, and made many military exploits.
However, is Song Jiang really worth befriending?
The reason why Song Jiang was able to become the leader of Liang Shanbo was not because of how clever his martial arts or resourcefulness was, but because he had a mouth that could speak well.
He is good at using sweet words, grace and power to attract talents, so that everyone can convince and obey his command.
He is also good at using fake righteousness to win people's hearts, so that everyone will be grateful and loyal to him.
However, behind these superficial loyalties, there is a hidden nature of Song Jiang who is selfish and flattering.
Although Song Jiang is compassionate on the surface, he is actually very partial and xenophobic.
He only cares about his own family and friends, and is cold and ruthless towards others.
He also treated his brothers differently, pampering some and ignoring others.
For example, there is such a description in "Water Margin": "At that time, most of the heroes on Liangshan Bo were dead, and there were only more than 50 people left alive: Chao Gai, Lin Chong, Qin Ming, Lu Zhishen, Wu Song, Hua Rong, etc. were all killed; There are still more than 50 people alive, such as Song Jiang, Wu Yong, Gongsun Sheng, Guan Sheng, and Dai Zong. ”
It can be seen that here the author does not list all the living heroes, but only mentions some of them who are more important or more loved by Song Jiang, and other living heroes are ignored, which shows that Song Jiang does not regard all brothers as equal and important.
In addition, Song Jiang is also a hypocritical person.
Although he pays lip service to benevolence, righteousness and morality, he does things that violate his conscience and morality in deeds.
For example, there is such a description in "Water Margin": "That day was the Dragon Boat Festival, and a banquet was set up outside the city to set up wine, and all the princes and generals were invited to the banquet; He also invited Gao Yu and his wife to drink ...... togetherGao Yu was overjoyed when he saw the generals of Liangshanbo......Gao Yu and his wife drank ...... with the generals”
Here Song Jiang actually invited Gao Yu and his wife to drink and have fun with him, Song Jiang did not forget Gao Yu's hurt and hatred for him and Liang Shan, but used politeness and humility to cover up his true feelings.
In our lives, hypocritical people often make us feel uneasy and distrustful, they will hide their true colors in order to gain our trust and favor, but in reality they can betray our interests and even hurt our feelings.
Therefore, choose those who are genuine, warm, and honest as your friends and people so that you can enjoy the wonderful experience that comes with true friendship and relationships.
Wu Yong was the military advisor of the Liangshan Rebel Army.
He was very knowledgeable and intelligent, and was nicknamed "Zhiduoxing".
In Liangshanbo, Wu Yong was mainly responsible for planning and strategy, and often made suggestions to seek benefits for the righteous people of Liangshanbo, and was one of the important forces in Liangshanbo.
Later, when Wu Yong heard the news of Song Jiang's murder, he felt very sad and angry, and finally committed suicide in front of Song Jiang's tomb with Hua Rong.
Although Wu Yong seems to be a talented and virtuous man, he is actually a person who cannot be deeply acquainted with for the following reasons.
Wu Yong is a smart person with no bottom line.
He is too clever and often compares himself to Zhuge Liang, and he will do whatever it takes to achieve his goals, regardless of whether the other party is friend or foe.
He once used a serial scheme to deceive Zhujiazhuang, Xu Ning, Lu Junyi and others.
He also once betrayed his friend Mr. Wang.
He is a person without affection, although he is loyal to Song Jiang on the surface and died for Song Jiang, but in fact he does not really care about other Liangshan heroes.
When the brothers of Liangshan died or were subjected to **, he did not show any sympathy or anger.
Say that Wu Yong is smart, but at the same time, Wu Yong is a person who has no opinions.
Although he has a wealth of knowledge and experience, he does not have his own ideas and beliefs.
He will only obey Song Jiang's orders and arrangements, even if Song Jiang makes wrong or unreasonable decisions.
In interpersonal interactions, we often meet people who are unscrupulous and overly intelligent.
They may use various means to gain their own benefit, even if doing so will hurt others or violate morality, and they will lose true friends and trust despite their actions looking smart and handy.
On the contrary, choose people with good morals, sincerity and reliability to build long-lasting friendships and mutual trust.
Therefore, we should cherish the friends around us and not covet temporary convenience and benefits, so as to live a truly happy life.
Li Kui is a Liangshan hero who is known for his bravery, and is known as the "Black Whirlwind".
His martial arts are strong, his personality is straightforward, and he is loyal, and he is Song Jiang's right-hand man.
But in real life, staying by someone like Li Kui requires worrying about your personal safety.
First of all, Li Kui's personality is very irritable and impulsive, and he often can't control his emotions and behavior.
He is easily provoked or provoked, and often vents his anger recklessly.
Li Kui is not good at communicating and communicating with others, and often has disputes or conflicts with his peers.
He often gets angry over trivial things, and even beats people with his hands.
He doesn't care who the other party is, as long as he violates his bottom line, he will shoot mercilessly.
For example, in "Water Margin", he once beat a vendor to death because a small person sold him bad alcohol;
and killed a monk because he said a few words;
He also beat the old woman to death because an old woman stopped him.
These are innocent people! Li Kui did not care about the law and morality at all, and only relied on his own momentary anger to cause countless sins.
Secondly, Li Kui is a mindless person, he can only speak with his fists, not think with his brain.
He has no own opinions and judgments about anything, and will only follow Song Jiang.
Although Song Jiang was the leader of Liang Shanbo, he also had many mistakes and flaws.
For example, in "Water Margin", Song Jiang surrendered to the imperial court many times and accepted the official positions and titles given by the imperial court.
This obviously betrayed Liang Shanbo's original intentions and ideals, and damaged the interests and honor of Liang Shanbo's other heroes, which also exposed Li Kui's lack of sensitivity to the overall situation and politics.
If we choose to associate with hands-on, irascible people, we may suffer from unnecessary troubles and conflicts, and even ruin our relationships and mental health.
On the contrary, surround ourselves with positive, kind, and polite people that make us feel happy and comfortable, and contribute to our success and happiness in life.
Sun Erniang is one of the three female generals of Liangshanbo, and she is also the shopkeeper of the Xishan Hotel in Liangshan, she and her husband Zhang Qing originally opened a black shop on the cross slope of Mengzhou Road, stunned passing travelers with ***, and then killed people to make money, made human meat buns and sold them to others.
Sun Erniang looks *** likes to wear red dresses and yellow hair, exposing her breasts, she has twice wanted to kill Liangshan heroes Wu Song and Lu Zhishen.
The first time was when Wu Song stabbed Mengzhou on the way, staying in her hotel, she saw that Wu Song was heavily packaged, so she wanted to poison him.
But Wu Song wittily saw through her ruse and knocked her to the ground.
Later, after Zhang Qing rushed back to understand the situation, he learned that Wu Song was his old brother, and there was also a letter of introduction from the Daimyo Mansion to govern Song Jiang.
So the couple hurriedly apologized and entertained Wu Song.
The second time was when Lu Zhishen came out of Shaolin Temple, and met another black shop opened by Zhang Qing and Sun Erniang on the road.
But although Lu Zhishen was rude and straightforward, he was not colorblind**, and he was not fooled, but he saw Sun Erniang's fierce eyes, thick hands and feet, bloated body and other characteristics, and heard that she and Zhang Qing opened a black shop with countless notoriety, recognized them, and warned them not to do bad things in the future.
From these two incidents, it can be seen that Sun Erniang is greedy for money, willing to frame others for benefits, and takes the lives of others by unscrupulous means in order to achieve her own goal of seeking wealth.
Choosing to make friends, like choosing a situation to get along, requires vision.
Befriending ruthless, indifferent and ruthless people is like walking into the depths of the forest, full of danger and uncertainty.
On the contrary, choose those who are kind-hearted and empathetic as friends and partners to build true friendship and mutual trust.
Therefore, we must cherish the friends around us and not let the bad influence erode our character and morality, so that we can truly enjoy the beauty of life.
Life is a long road, and we will inevitably meet all kinds of people in the process of growing up, just like the image of the four villains in the Water Margin, there are also such people in real life.
Choose good people and make friends, choose good books and read. ”
Choose honest and kind friends, and stay away from those fox friends and dog friends.
Let us work together with friendly friends, with the mentality of "light and dust", to appreciate the beauty of "life is like a dream, years are like a song", and steadily move forward on the road full of sunshine ......
Water Margin".