"Since you've made up your mind, let's get a divorce. With tears in her eyes, the wife said with her back to her husband. Before parting, the wife said again, "I hope there will be no afterlife", and the husband remained silent, his eyes still firm.
Her husband's name is Liu Jingchong, and he was born in 1976 in a rural family in Xinxing, Guangdong. The educational resources in the village are not as good as those in the city, and the cultural level is naturally far from that in the city, which can be said to be one underground and one in the sky.
The background is already destined, and no matter how much you complain, you can't change the reality, but it is better to study hard, arm yourself with knowledge, and use a smart mind to change the valve of fate. Even though the family is not wealthy, even if they hear that many children in the village go out to work at a young age to support the family, Liu Jingchong's parents have always been the same, hoping that their son can use knowledge to change his fate.
However, Liu Jingchong failed to go to school according to his parents' wishes, perhaps because he felt that this road was too lonely and difficult, or because he couldn't stand his parents' hard work in farming, so he dropped out of school when he was in junior high school. No matter how much his parents persuaded him, they couldn't persuade him to return to school, and in desperation, they could only agree to their son's choice.
What do you do without reading? Liu Jingchong's initial thought was to return home to help his parents with farm work and reduce the burden on the family. However, facing the loess with his back to the sky, at the end of the day, he was sweating profusely, and the farm work was hard and tiring. In addition, the amount of money earned depends on whether the crop harvest is good or not.
If it is good, you can sell it well, and the money you get will be more, and it will be worth it to sweat all over your body; If the harvest is not impressive, the harvested grain can only be self-satisfied, and there is naturally no way to earn money. In the end, all the hard work, from sowing to fertilizing, was in vain. After paying a lot of sweat, the reward can only be left to fate, which is obviously not a long-term solution.
Liu Jingchong thought to himself, doing farm work is to earn money, and part-time work is also to earn money, the former is hard but full of variables, and the latter is not impossible to make a lot of money as long as he dares to dare to work. In that case, why not go out and give it a try?
With this thought in his heart, he could no longer do farm work calmly, and Liu Jingchong decided to go out to work. After telling his parents what he thought, they also felt that their son had a point in saying it and nodded in agreement. Like most of his peers in the village, he said goodbye to his parents and took the nearest shuttle.
Liu Jingchong's car drove slowly to Foshan, he sat in the car, his eyes flashed, his heart looked forward to the days to come, and he was about to jump up excitedly.
If you have a clear goal, you will find a way to achieve it when you reach your destination. When he arrived in Foshan, Liu Jingchong began to look for a job, however, the job was not so easy to find, and he only had a junior high school education, so he would definitely not be able to find a high-paying job, so he could only find some hard work to do.
After looking for a while, either they don't meet the conditions, or they are full, or they are too heavy. After coming out for so long, the money on his body was almost spent, and he thought he was going to live on the streets, but at this time he found a job in clothing sales.
The stone in his heart finally fell, and Liu Jingchong secretly made up his mind in his heart that he must grasp this job well and do it in a down-to-earth manner. Although the sales did not go well at first, I was unable to sell a few clothes in a day, and sometimes I felt sad and blamed myself. But as long as he thinks of the days of doing farm work and washing his face with sweat, Liu Jingchong works harder, in addition to asking his seniors for sales skills, he also learns more about this knowledge.
While working, accumulating experience, and groping for patterns. Time is passing, Liu Jingchong is gradually getting on the road, selling more and more clothes, the company gradually sees and recognizes his work ability, and large orders are naturally handed over to him to handle.
At the same time, his position also changed with the increase of ability, from the initial small staff to the store manager, and then from the store manager to the manager.
In 2000, Liu Jingchong's company was successfully listed in Hong Kong, and he can be regarded as witnessing the development of the company with the improvement of his ability, and he can also be regarded as an outstanding talent cultivated by the company. Liu Jingchong's ability was fully recognized, and he was appointed as the general manager of the branch, with an annual income of more than one million.
The mall is proud, and love is also proud. In the rising period of his career, he met his life partner who went hand in hand, and the two became husband and wife after careful consideration, witnessed by both families, and gave birth to a son, and the family was happy and harmonious.
In life, most people only pursue a successful career, and all they hope for is that they and their families are healthy and harmonious. Liu Jingchong has also realized this worldly pursuit at this stage, and he should enjoy it. The problem is that he is lost in this day-to-day life, unable to find a way forward.
Looking back, Liu Jingchong went out to work as an adult, and his goal was very clear - to make money. He also did it earnestly, from a poor boy to the general manager of the branch, from a poor man to an annual income of one million, which is the result of the realization of the goal.
However, after earning the money, the goal was suddenly gone, Liu Jingchong didn't know what to do except spend all day drinking, and he was confused in his heart, followed by confusion.
Seeing that Liu Jingchong's state was a little wrong, his friend suggested that he go out for a trip to relax. He really wanted to go somewhere, after converting his car into an off-road vehicle, and after all the travel supplies were ready, he set off for the northwest.
Before that, this was the first time in his life that he traveled by car, and it was the first time that such a gorgeous scenery on the road caught his eye. The beautiful scenery seems to have a natural function, so quiet and powerful, as if trying to bring some pleasure to the people on the journey.
A rear-end collision occurred while driving to Xining, Qinghai, and Liu Jingchong was forced to stay for a while while to wait for the check to be issued.
I saw that he looked calm, as if he had expected an accident on this trip. After finding a nearby hotel, I stayed temporarily, and apart from sleeping, my favorite thing was to pick up the book I had bought before, sit cross-legged and read.
Reading a book seems to be to pass the time, but for Liu Jingchong, it is also to purify the heart and calm the impetuous heart. This look, I saw Zhongnan Mountain; This saw the desire to climb Jungnam Mountain.
I experienced a slow life, slow reading, slow thinking, and the invoice was received immediately. Liu Jingchong continued to drive to Xinjiang, where the people were warm and simple, the mountains were numerous and wide, the water was transparent and cool, and the clouds were low and bright.
The beautiful scenery in front of him made Liu Jingchong intoxicated and excited. He looked forward to being able to absorb the nourishment of nature, and he longed to be like nature without being moved by the outside world, and to be detached from the world.
The tour ended in less than two weeks, and although Liu Jingchong was reluctant to give up, but, considering the limited items he had prepared, he had to return to Foshan the same way.
After returning to the company for a while, Liu Jingchong decided to go to Zhongnan Mountain to find out. Climbed the mountain in 2012, the mountain is very quiet, the hermit wind blows slowly, Liu Jingchong also feels unprecedented relaxation and relief.
After the holiday, when he returned to Foshan again, Liu Jingchong missed Zhongnan Mountain day and night, and could no longer work with peace of mind as before, walking in the bright city.
Finally, in September 2013, Liu Jingchong climbed Zhongnan Mountain again and began a half-year secluded life here. In the past six months, he has been friends with plants and trees, accompanied by mountains and rivers, and has spent a long winter here. The cold wind came in bursts, and what I felt was not biting but refreshing;Xiaoxue fell night after night, and I just felt that it was not too beautiful.
It is said that the environment can change a person, and this sentence is also confirmed in Liu Jingchong. A good environment can shape the body and mind, let yourself pull out the layers of dark clouds and see the red sun in your heart, you can relieve the doubts that have been trapped in your heart for a long time, and you can make yourself clear about your goals.
In these days of living in Zhongnan Mountain, Liu Jingchong gradually clarified his pursuit in the second half of his life, he wanted to be a hermit. When I returned home, I told the people around me about this decision, hoping to get the support of my family and friends.
However, the moment the words came out of their mouths, everyone's faces were very different. The parents were so angry that they wanted to cut off the parent-child relationship with Liu Jingchong;The wife hugged her son and shed sad tears and told the divorce;Friends repeatedly persuaded him to think calmly, and his current life is something that most people can't envy.
Everyone expected Liu Jingchong to change his mind, but his decision was not shaken, and it was not so easily shaken. In 2014, despite everyone's opposition, Liu Jingchong went to Zhongnan Mountain to live in seclusion.
In the days of seclusion, I would get up at sunrise, clean every day, cook with firewood, recite scriptures and study them deeply, and when I came across a sentence that was enlightened, I would pick up a brush and write it down, which was also regarded as a practice of writing.
In addition, Liu Jingchong also traveled to visit temples in various places. By chance, I met the abbot master Shaoyun in Anhui Hanshan Baochan Temple, and after a period of contact, I became obsessed with Buddhism, and I wanted to worship the abbot as a teacher.
The abbot didn't nod immediately, but let Liu Jingchong think twice before acting, and let him think clearly whether he had made up his mind if he was just three minutes hot. The trial period was one year, during which the abbot arranged for him to clean the temple.
In this way, Liu Jingchong cleaned the temple on time every day, thought in the cleaning, and became more and more firm in his ideas in the cleaning.
In August 2015, Liu Jingchong finally got his wish to become a monk, and the abbot gave him the Dharma name Yanding, and he was responsible for cooking rice in the temple. He cut first and then played, and only after entering the empty door did he inform his family and friends.
After hearing the news, his wife really came to the temple with the divorce agreement and asked Yanding to sign it. The parents also tried to come to the temple to persuade their son, but unfortunately, the raw rice was already cooked at this time, but they had no choice but to accept this fact.
Opinions on Liu Jingchong's ordination on the Internet are different, some people admire, some question, some criticize, and some respect. No matter how the outside world changes, Liu Jingchong still keeps his duty in the temple.
If a person decides to follow his own path, then he must be prepared to be disagreed.
So far, since Liu Jingchong has insisted on becoming a monk for 7 years, it shows that he is firm in his pursuit, and at the end of the article, let us bless him and live his life well.
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