How hard was it to play a colt in ancient times? Before marriage, you have to try to get married, what is the identity of those women who try to marry
The ancient criteria for the selection of horses and the system of trial marriages are both curious chapters in history. The selection criteria for the candidates, whether they were equal to family and talent, or political interests were paramount, reflected the political attitudes and power operations of the royal family at the time. In the Tang Dynasty, the selection of concubines focused on political rank and personal talent, while in the Song Dynasty, more emphasis was placed on consolidating political power through marriage. With the evolution of history, the selection criteria of the Ming Dynasty for the horses tended to be younger, so as to reduce their tendency to participate in politics and maintain political stability.
As a part of the selection of horses in ancient times, the trial marriage system was also a severe double test. Candidates for the pony were required to live with a selection of court ladies for a month, where they were observed and evaluated in all aspects. Candidates are required to objectively assess the candidate's character, knowledge, fertility, etc., and submit a report to the royal family. At the same time, the trial marriage also poses a severe test to the female officials, who need to handle the relationship with the candidates, ensure the objectivity of the observation and evaluation, and are under great pressure. In this political version of "love each other", a month is enough time to determine the fate of two strangers.
Li Yuan was originally a businessman from a well-to-do family, and his success stemmed from his shrewdness and political skill in the business world. When he learned that Tang Zhongzong's princess Jinchi was about to reach marriageable age, he actively fought for the opportunity to become a concubine.
As a candidate, Li Yuan knew that he would have to go through layers of tests, including a procedure called "trial marriage". Although Li Yuan was a little disappointed in the face of his trial marriage partner, he quickly adjusted his mentality and decided to go all out to win the favor of the royal family.
In getting along with Princess Jinchi, Li Yuan cared for her daily life considerately and tried his best to make a good impression on her. They often play chess together, and Li Yuan will patiently explain the skills of the game, so that Princess Jinchi can enjoy the fun. He always pays attention to his words and deeds, for fear that a small mistake will ruin his chances of becoming a colt.
A month passed quickly, and this relationship was an unforgettable experience for both Li Yuan and Princess Jinchi. Li Yuan didn't know if his performance had satisfied Princess Jinchi, but he knew that he had done his best. When the royal family finally announced the selection of Li Yuan as the candidate for the horse, he felt relieved. This is not only a personal affirmation of him, but also a precious exchange that transcends identity.
Li Yuan passed layers of selection and assessment, and finally married Princess Jinchi. When he greeted the bride in the palace in a wedding dress, his heart was full of changes. Royal life is about to begin, but he is well aware of the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with it.
Becoming the husband of the colt and the princess meant that Li Yuan's every move was extremely strictly restricted. He must learn to deal with the emotions of Her Royal Highness and always be careful not to damage the reputation of the royal family. In the shadow of power, he felt great pressure and loneliness.
He had wondered if he and the princess could develop a genuine relationship. They are both victims of political marriages, and fate dooms them to not enjoy married life easily. However, after getting along day after day, Li Yuan gradually understood and was considerate of this smart and arrogant princess.
Life in the deep palace was not as comfortable as he imagined, but Li Yuan was willing to use his business acumen to help the princess solve difficulties. Gradually, the princess was also attracted by Li Yuan's wisdom and steadiness. In the fate of glory and sacrifice, the two developed a deep bond and became an indispensable pillar in each other's lives.
Reflecting on the ancient Chinese horse system in history, we find that there are many problems in the marriage system during this period that are worthy of our deep consideration. The marriages of the horses and princesses are often subject to royal politics, lacking choice and autonomy, and their marriages are more formalized political marriages than on sincere feelings. Although this form of marriage helped to maintain the stability of feudal society, it also sacrificed the happiness and lives of many individuals.
Compared with ancient times, contemporary society has given us more rights to find true love and pursue marital happiness. However, the realization of this right also requires our efforts and dedication. We should cherish the existing freedom to marry, and build and maintain the bonds that bind every relationship based on understanding, trust, and respect. Only in this way can the modern marriage system reflect the dignity of the individual and jointly build a harmonious and inclusive family.
Looking at this period of history, with a deep understanding and study, we can get a glimpse of the trajectory of the development of human society, so as to pay more attention to the various rights granted by the modern society in front of us. Ancient experiences remind us that the inequalities and limitations of the past form the basis on which we are able to freely choose and pursue today.