Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Feelings are like a piece of jade, and if there is no flaw, it is the most precious.
It's just that we spend our lives looking for a lover, and it is difficult to guarantee that the "first love" is the right person.
In this life, we will always accumulate experience and grow in the wrong feelings, and only then can we learn how to cherish the people in front of us.
Some women are very casual about their feelings. Getting along with a man and giving your body and mind at will will not only cause a lot of damage to your emotional world, but also make men hurt.
Women are not very "casual", you can see it at a glance from the details
I know a friend who usually has a good relationship.
She likes to go out to various business parties and meets a lot of men.
Sometimes, when we had dinner together, a man came to her and said a few words to her, expressing his thoughts and saying some sweet words, and she immediately said goodbye to me, and was pulled away by the man.
Sure enough, she changed her boyfriend again.
Each of them has not been dating for a long time, it is too easy to be tempted, and it is too easy to be deceived. At first, she would be sad, but then she became numb, and she couldn't say that she loved or didn't love, she just didn't want to face the long night alone.
A casual woman who treats feelings very casually.
She will believe whatever a man says, and a few sweet words can make her intoxicated.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Women remember a man forever, perhaps because of a song, a dance, and a promise." A man will always remember a woman, not because of a song, a dance, and not because of a promise. ”When a man says he loves her, she will believe it. Never discriminate, just give your body and mind away.
There are also women who love vanity and feel that it is a special honor to be surrounded by many men, and like to see more men bow down under her pomegranate skirt.
For a casual woman, when she hears a man say sweet things to her, she is willing to go in love with him.
When Qiu Yingying and Director Bai fell in love, it didn't take long for them to move to the house rented by Director Bai and live with him.
Director Bai got it too easily, and suddenly felt that a woman like Qiu Yingying was boring.
Later, when he saw Qu Xiaoxuan, who had a better family background and was eccentric, he immediately changed his mind and no longer loved Qiu Yingying.
After the two broke up, she met Ying Qin.
However, because she had the experience of living with her ex-boyfriend, Yingqin's mother said that she was inappropriate, insulted her in every way, and prevented her from being with Yingqin.
A casual woman is easy to live with a man because of love.
Bu Weilan wrote in "A Good Man and a Woman": "Sir, you are just infatuated, not in love. Infatuation starts from the self and is possession; Love compares the heart to the heart, is to give. ”doesn't know how to refuse, a man gives whatever he wants, which leads him to get it too easily, and he doesn't know how to cherish it at all.
If a woman gives everything too early, it will make the man despise her, and it will also make everyone think that she is too casual and not reserved enough.
A casual woman who doesn't know how to love herself. It's easy to casually give yourself to a man, and before you can see the man's character, you throw yourself into a relationship.
If a woman changes boyfriends every once in a while, or is in a relationship with many men at the same time, she lies a lot, enjoys the process of having an affair with multiple men, and treats her feelings as child's play.
Such a woman thinks she is very attractive and a "heartthrob".
But in every man's heart, he regards her as a "passerby", and he will never really love her, let alone manage a relationship with her for a long time.
A casual woman will be accustomed to putting all her mind into how to dress herself and serve others.
It seems that there are many men around, and the scenery is infinite, but youth is short, once there is no beauty, those hypocritical men around her will leave, leaving her alone and alone.
Schiller said: "The realm of love is very small, it can only accommodate two people, and if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it is only an emotional game, not true love." ”A casual woman feels that having a lot of boyfriends is a thing to be proud of, and she doesn't know what her true feelings are.
If a woman is too casual, it is equivalent to turning away an upright and excellent man, and it is difficult to find a lover.
Women must learn to prefer lack to abundance, and true love will come to the door.
No matter what men say, women should not give up their principles and bottom lines easily. The meal should be eaten one bite at a time, and the relationship should be managed slowly step by step.
Don't live with a man too early, if a man is too anxious, it is likely that he just wants you and doesn't care about your heart at all.
Women, to learn self-love, too casual will increase the probability of being hurt.
Self-love is the only way to get better love.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.