Subtlety and introversion have always been the essence of life in China's traditional culture. Under the guidance of subtlety and introverted, Taoguang is obscure and behaves with his tail between his legs, which has become a concrete performance.
First of all, let's talk to you about what it means to be Taoguang Yanghui. Tao: The cover of the bow or sword in ancient times, metaphorically refers to collecting and hiding; Light: radiance, sharpness; Nourishment: Tibetan storage; Obscure: dim, unclear. Hide your edge and retire for the time being.
Therefore, Taoguang Yanghui means that you must put away your edge, hide your strength, show weakness when you are outside, or avoid its edge, and at this time, wait for the incident and wait for the opportunity.
The other is called being a man with his tail between his legs. Many people think that being a man with a tail between them is a derogatory term. It refers to those who have made mistakes, or those who have failed and have a bad life, and cannot swagger when they live in the future.
However, in the process of dealing with the world, our understanding of this matter may change. It mainly means to be low-key, not to show publicity, to hide all their wealth, the way of doing things, personal ability and talent, and money, they may be a rich person, but in front of outsiders is a poor egg, people feel as if they have no strength at all, they protect themselves in this way, reduce their enemies, reduce the harm of the outside world to themselves, so as to be able to make themselves in a more complex external environment, In search of a better way of life, they are proactive in what they do.
Whether it is the Tao Guang Yang Hui I mentioned earlier, or the tail I mentioned to be a man, in fact, it is to deal with a problem, in our environment, there is a sentence that is particularly reasonable, called a gun to shoot the first bird.
Therefore, in the process of dealing with people, we are not so subtle and introverted, we like to show our ability to show our ability, we like to show our wealth, we like to show our more rigid side, especially if we like to scare the air, then it will inevitably lead to more enemies, suffer from more opponents of resistance and resistance, then the disadvantage to ourselves will increase, and eventually you find that it is yourself who suffers losses and faces more difficulties, so why bother?
A person's own jealousy, and the distress caused by a person's jealousy from the outside world, may have an extremely bad impact on a person's career development. So to avoid jealousy, the best way is, of course, to be a man with his tail between his legs, and to be able to keep his head in obscurity, which may be very aggrieved in this process, but the goal we want to achieve in the end has been achieved, our interests are protected, and our goal will eventually be achieved, which is a more cost-effective thing.
So I think that whether it is to keep our heads in the dark or to be a man with our tails between them, it is actually not a shameful thing, it may push us into a more favorable situation and allow us to achieve better development.
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