Extramarital affairs, fresh and exciting, are easy to sink into.
For this reason, many men are greedy for momentary pleasure and would rather cheat and be a junior.
So, what is it like to "sleep" someone else's wife?
With this question in mind, we interviewed 100 men ......
@皮皮虾 23 years old, Foreign Trade Commissioner
When I first started my career, I met my colleague G.
At the age of 30, she is down-to-earth and generous, lively and enthusiastic.
However, her marriage was bleak.
At first, I was grateful and sympathetic to her.
Slowly, we got closer and closer, chatting and chatting to the bed.
It was my first time in a relationship, and I was shy and ignorant.
However, she was very experienced, and that time, I had a very good experience.
Our relationship has also become closer.
After a while, I found out:
I'm in love with her, and I can accept her divorce as well as her daughter.
However, she said that she had never thought about divorce at all.
She slept with me just to get revenge on her cheating husband.
It turned out that she was just using me as a vent for her unhappy marriage.
I thought I was sincere for sincere, and as a result, I was the clown.
I really suggest that you don't look for a married woman.
Because, it's really hard for you to get into their hearts;
You never know what's going on in her mind.
@阿天 30 years old Sales team leader
To be honest, I'll admit it, I'm very attentive.
I've talked to a few girlfriends before, but in the end, they often urge marriage and birth.
I'm still young, just having fun, so I don't want to be responsible.
In order not to be tied down by marriage and children, I specifically hooked up with married**.
Since then, it has been like I've opened the door to a "new world", and it's so cool.
Because, what they want is very simple, just sex.
It's just a good night's sleep, no after, and that's exactly what I want.
In contrast, falling in love is simply too troublesome, asking for money, love, companionship, and ......
However, often walking by the river, how can you not get your shoes wet.
My husband came to the door, went to the company, beat me up, and beat my parents and relatives.
This incident is well known.
In the end, I lost my job and lost my face.
After going through this, I also understood:
Behind indulgence, there is an endless abyss;
Both men and women must learn to control their desires, otherwise they will be revolted.
@隔壁小王 35 years old Freelancer
I don't know when my wife and I entered a sexless marriage.
It's not that I don't want it, it's that my wife is cold.
Every time I took the initiative, my wife ruthlessly rejected it.
The lower body has endured it once or twice, how can it be endured for a lifetime.
Just when I was depressed, the beautiful neighbor next door walked into my field of vision.
Her husband is a workaholic, often away from home, and the couple doesn't have a good relationship.
She was lonely and unbearable, and my long-held desires had nowhere to vent.
She had a heart, I had an intention, and the two of us went to bed naturally.
After a lot of rain and clouds, we enjoyed each other very much, and she also praised me for my good skills.
My libido was released, and I felt a sense of pleasure and accomplishment that I hadn't felt for a long time.
No matter how happy we are in bed, when we get out of bed, we are still just neighbors.
Because, we just huddle together to keep warm, and each takes what he needs.
There is no love, only sex.
That's enough.
@w Xiansen, 45 years old, is a company executive
My wife and I met on a blind date, and we have been married for 15 years, and we have survived the itch of seven years and the pain of ten years.
Although the days are dull, they feel warm.
Until that day, when my first love returned to China, my old emotions still unconsciously surged into my heart.
After many years, I still love her, but this love has always been hidden in my heart.
This time, she told me about her unhappy marriage, her unladylike encounters, and how much she missed the good times we had together.
She confessed that she still loved me.
I believed, and fell into her tenderness.
Afterwards, we are in bed, reminiscing about the past and looking forward to the future.
However, this shady extramarital affair made me very uncomfortable.
I resolutely divorced and wanted to be with my first love.
As a result, three years passed.
The first love just said that she and her husband had no relationship and would divorce soon.
Later, I woke up
My first love was just "painting cakes" for me and wanted to trap me.
If she truly loves me, how could she destroy my otherwise happy family and involve me in this triangular relationship, which makes me miserable.
I really regret not being at the beginning!
A happy marriage is similar.
Unhappy marriages are different.
A lot of men and women cheat, just for sex.
They think that sex and love are separate, and that loving and sleeping are two different things.
They may be seeking thrills, or they may be seeking revenge, or they may be ...... indulgent
But, in any case, none of this can be a reason to trample on marriage.
Loyalty is always the bottom line of marriage.
Whether it is a male junior or a female junior, once derailed, it is destined to have no good results, let alone a winner.
We all hate juniors, so don't know what to do.
If you are a junior, then it is also a kind of wisdom to stop losses in time.