In this complex world, each of us wears a mask and walks carefully. We crave to be understood, we want to be accepted, but we often end up in reality. Some people say that soft-heartedness and kindness are the weapons that kill oneself, and rational ruthlessness and ruthlessness are the laws of survival. Although these words pierce the heart, they are not unreasonable.
We are always embarrassed to say no to others, always afraid of hurting others, but we forget to protect ourselves. We use our kindness and soft-heartedness to tolerate the mistakes of others, but in exchange for more inches. We begin to wonder why they can embarrass us so comfortably. We begin to reflect on whether our kindness and soft-heartedness have become tools for others to exploit.
Life is not a fairy tale, and not all efforts will be rewarded. Our hearts, like a glass of water, can warm or cool. When the disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, the heart will be cold and will never be able to warm up. We are beginning to understand that we can't only be kind and soft-hearted, we also need to have principles and bottom lines.
We used to believe in love so much, so much looking forward to the arrival of love. However, when love really comes, we are afraid. We are afraid of being hurt, of being betrayed, of experiencing the pain of being cut again. So, we choose to escape, choose to bear all the loneliness and helplessness alone.
Life is like a play, and we are all actors in the play. Sometimes, we know it's a play, but we still can't help but get into the game. We are talking about stubbornness, but in our hearts we are quietly surrendering. We tell ourselves that we are not safe without me. But in the dead of night, our hearts are quietly weeping.
We are all passers-by in the world, everyone has their own ferry, everyone has their own homecoming. We can't force others to accompany us through our lives, and we can't take responsibility for other people's lives. We can only choose the path that suits us and go it alone.
Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, and it is also the most hurtful thing. We once loved with all our hearts, but we were covered with scars. We begin to understand that if we love too much, things will be reversed. We begin to learn to protect ourselves and learn to give ourselves a little space.
Say goodbye, never again. What a cruel farewell and what a realistic portrayal. We used to think that goodbye was for a better reunion, but we didn't expect that goodbye would become an eternal parting.
In this world, a proper turn of face can be exchanged for respect. We don't need to grieve ourselves in order to please others, and we don't need to punish ourselves for the mistakes of others. We need to have the courage to say "no" and the courage to defend our rights.
Life is not easy, and we are all people who are trying to survive in this world. We need to be kind and soft-hearted, but we also need to be rational and firm. Only in this way can we find our place in this complex world and live our true selves.
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