No one is an island, and no matter how old or young, should have the right to pursue love. In recent years, the love of the elderly has attracted more and more attention and has even become a hot topic.
Recently, the variety show "It's Not Too Late" with the theme of blind dates for the elderly has become popular, and the Northeast aunt on the stage has attracted the attention of a large number of netizens with her unique blind date, and her various bold words are also refreshing.
Many netizens sighed: "It's a surprise that the love of the elderly can be so wonderful!" ”
Of course, Aunt Northeast's blind date bureaus are not just looking for entertainment, behind them reveal a social reality worth pondering: for single seniors, lack of love and money is not the biggest problem, they are more afraid of lonely companionship ......
Young hearts can also be moved by sincerity, and the blind date bureau of Aunt Northeast has no gorgeous decorations, no gorgeous dresses, and no cumbersome promotion, but it has attracted the attention of countless people with sincerity.
50-year-old Uncle Long introduced himself bluntly on the stage, he said that he has an annual income of hundreds of thousands, looking for a wife who can get by, as long as the two of them get along, he will give each other 100,000 pocket money every year.
This sincerity deeply touched everyone present and made this blind date event cause great repercussions.
For young people, this direct way of communication may seem a little strange, but for these Northeast aunts, they have long been accustomed to it. Northeast people have always been bold, and the aunts in the Northeast who have gone through vicissitudes like to get straight to the point, they understand Uncle Long's problem that they can't love siblings and women's figures can't be out of shape, and put forward their own requirements for choosing a mate.
The 66-year-old is a natural optimist, and although she is already a grandmother, she still hopes to find a partner to spend the rest of her life with because of loneliness.
However, Aunt Chen emphasized that she is not making do with life, but hopes to find a partner who is younger and handsome than her. For her, money is not important, as long as she can see it, she can take it straight home.
Aunt Chen's self-confidence is admired by young people. At the blind date bureau of Aunt Northeast, she said some topics that young people are ashamed to talk about. For example, Aunt Wang (not her real name) spoke bluntly about sexless marriage.
Although Aunt Wang is over half a hundred years old and has been menopausal for many years, she said that she could not accept a sexless marriage. She likened the issue to the functionality of a color-screen phone and an elderly phone, saying that while it was optional, she would be unhappy if it wasn't.
Aunt Wang's straightforwardness filled the scene with joy, and other aunts also expressed their opinions, some said that they would not take children after marriage, some asked for regular pocket money, and some said directly to the uncle: "You are still a little short of the passing line." ”
Here, you can let your guard down, put aside your calculations, and be honest with the other person. If you find the right one, hold hands, and if it's not suitable, you will continue to move forward, just like the love of the Northeast aunts when they were young, so relaxed and happy.
It is the first time for young viewers to see such a light-hearted blind date show, and the ratings of "It's Not Too Late" are rising. So, why do young people love this show so much?
In addition to the sincere atmosphere that can make the majority of netizens feel warm, many young people have no time to take care of the elderly because of their busy work, and hope to find a way to communicate with their parents through ** programs.
An audience member said: "After watching so many episodes of the show, my biggest feeling is that parents don't need much, sometimes it's just a simple greeting and a short companionship." ”
Aunt Northeast's blind date bureau allows young netizens to have a deeper understanding of the connotation of love, love is not only a unilateral pursuit, but also requires the fit of both parties at the spiritual and practical levels. With only firewood, rice, oil and salt, love cannot last long, only spiritual communication, and love will gradually fade.
From the blind date bureau of Aunt Northeast, we can learn a lot of things, such as sincerity, realistic considerations, etc., which are exactly what young people need to tutor.
In the show, the Northeast aunts are most concerned about each other's health. At their age, they have experienced many vicissitudes of life, and various strange love experiences have also touched them deeply.
The love conditions they talked about when they were young are still in their hearts, but after years of precipitation, the aunts understand the most important point: as long as two people are healthy together, nothing else matters.
With the development of society, health has become a topic of increasing concern, especially for young couples, who should not only pay attention to each other's external conditions and family background, but also pay attention to each other's health status and whether the family is suitable.
In recent years, many couples have high pressure on their lives due to high medical costs, which even affects the long-term preservation of love. The experience of the aunts in the Northeast tells us that only under the premise of good health can we have a long-term happy marriage.
Through the ** blind date program, young netizens can learn about the importance of health and family in the Northeast, so as to pay more attention to their health and future married life.
Marriage is no longer just a romance for two people, but also about the eyes of both children, relatives and friends. If one of the children objectes, the other party has to be re-examined. This is a real problem, a necessary consideration.
Because most people have experienced getting married for love, but then it became very painful because of the pressure from the outside world. This is what attracts young netizens, because they have fewer things to worry about, and parents who have seen the world often tell their children: "As long as you like it, we will support it." ”
Young lovers are more fearless when they hear such promises, but after years of getting along, they realize that their parents' promises do not withstand the wear and tear of the years. Originally a small problem, because of the dissatisfaction of one party's family, may be magnified, eventually leading to irreconcilable contradictions, and even towards the end of divorce.
In the blind date show, the Northeast aunts' examination and consideration of the other half not only reminded young people not to be blind in the face of love, but also showed their brave and direct attitude towards life.
After finding the other half of the eye, they unabashedly asked about each other's physical condition, including the medical examination report, which brought courage and inspiration to some young people.
For the aunts in the Northeast, choosing a healthy person is to find a partner who can live together, so that their minds can be relaxed, rather than to bear the burden of needless care.
Therefore, their demands are also a manifestation of responsibility for themselves and each other.
In China, blind date programs for middle-aged and elderly people such as "It's Not Too Late" are still relatively rare, because the topic of blind dates for the elderly is not widely accepted among many young people.
In their eyes, the elderly are already old and should focus on taking care of themselves and their grandchildren, so why bother to go on a blind date by themselves? They think it's shameless.
Although middle-aged and elderly people understand the thoughts of these young people, why do they still cling to participating in blind date activities?
With the acceleration of the aging process, the phenomenon of blind dates in the elderly is becoming more and more common. The reason for this is still the old saying: what the elderly are most afraid of is not lack of love and money, but loneliness.
According to statistics, the proportion of people over 60 years old who do not have a spouse has reached an astonishing 35%, and more than half of them have expressed their willingness to remarry.
In this world, there are millions of elderly people who are looking to rediscover their love and find someone to spend the rest of their lives with. For them, living alone is too lonely.
Especially in rural areas, children often go out to work in order to earn a living, and as their living standards improve, they will also bring their grandchildren to the city to go to school, which means that only the elderly are left in many villages.
These elderly people may not see their children and grandchildren for a long time, and even if they do, they are unable to discuss things in depth in life for various reasons. The loneliness of the elderly cannot be alleviated, and this loneliness becomes stronger as their children leave home to work.
This sentiment is even stronger for single seniors, who are eager to find someone to talk to. Therefore, although children may not understand the behavior of their parents who go on blind dates when they are old, and despite some criticism on the Internet, older people will still go on blind dates because life is their own.