Wang Xiu'e and Lao Ding are arranged marriages by their parents.
In my impression, she is unkempt, inquisitive, and gossipy. is an officer's wife who is not even looked down upon by her grandmother.
Re-watched "Parental Love" and found that we were all deceived.
She was actually a very wise woman.
01 Warm and generous
An Jie and Jiang Defu saw Wang Xiu'e for the first time, because the child broke the thermos and chased after him. Lao Ding couldn't get over his face, he said that it was just a hot water bottle, and it was not money when he was replied.
She is a frugal person, but she is generous and warm.
steamed buns at home, and asked the children to send a few to Jiang Defu's family. When Jiang Defu asked about his sister, he directly said that his aunt had already eaten at his house.
In her eyes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
An Jie is an urban person, and he may not be able to understand that at that time, rural people would indeed get closer to each other by sending food to each other.
Even if she knew that An Jie didn't look down on herself, she didn't care generously, and understood that she was a young lady in the city.
When Dehua returned to his hometown and saw An Jie pregnant and holding the child, he warmly invited her to eat at home, which was also an opportunity for An Jie to get to know her again and change her attitude.
Jiang Defu went to train with Lao Ding, and when he came back, he also had dinner at her house.
Jiang Defu was full of praise for her, and it also gave Lao Ding face.
She has a clear sense of herself and knows how to make up for it with her strengths.
02 Attentive and sober
Although she didn't have much contact with An Jie, it can be inferred from her state that she may be pregnant.
When Jiang Dehua told his brother and sister-in-law the news, An Jie and Jiang Defu didn't believe it at all, and even said that they would tell Lao Ding to discipline him.
Unexpectedly, An Jie went to the hospital the next day and confirmed that she was pregnant, Jiang Defu couldn't help but say that Wang Xiu'e was a half-immortal.
It was this carefulness that made her quickly discover that Lao Ding liked An Jie. She reminded her husband that she once quarreled with Lao Ding, but she was not hostile to An Jie because of this.
Because she knows that the root is in her husband.
knows that the beautiful and cultured An Jie can't look down on Lao Ding, and Jiang Defu is there.
When Jiang Defu went to work, An Jie did not accompany the army, and treated the child in the middle of the night, and Lao Ding went to find it, which made her feel the crisis.
Wang Xiu'e didn't make a big fuss, first, she knew that Jiang Defu did ask Lao Ding to help take care of his family before leaving, the two of them have nothing now, and Jiang Defu is not here, if others hear it, they will make trouble for them.
She discussed with Jiang Dehua and found a way to let An Jie go with the army.
Although she couldn't read big words, she could see the crux of the matter.
03 Understand the world
Jiang Defu was promoted to Songshan Island, Wang Xiu'e specially boiled eggs and gave them to him, Jiang Defu said too much, and Lao Ding was ashamed. But when she said this, when she went out, she gave it to others to eat on the way, and others took care of it.
Lao Ding laughed after hearing this, this wife looks stupid, but she is actually good at maintaining a relationship with herself.
When Secretary Yang came to send noodles to An Jie, he could guess that she was Secretary Yang, the leader of An Jie, and knew that she was the principal's wife.
Regarding her husband's relationship, she still understands it seriously even though she can't read big words.
She knows people's feelings and understands the world, but she makes people feel sincere.
Wang Xiu'e is alive, and she has the shadow of us ordinary people.
She has both strengths and weaknesses.
A man with three children, working on everything in the family without regrets, has no time to spend energy on himself.
Chatting about gossip may be her only joy in life. She's real and cute.
If there is a choice, who doesn't want to be beautiful like a flower.
When life is tired, we might as well give ourselves a breakthrough and vent out.
Don't complain in life, try to live every day in the moment, you are the most beautiful.