Everyone encounters setbacks and contradictions in love, and when contradictions arise, we impulsively say "break up". Many years later, we easily say "break up" to the people we love. You will regret what you said. Ray said in "Defending Love", "Don't break up easily, or you'll have to spend your whole life trying to redeem it." ”
Some relationships are irreparable after a breakup. Forget it, it will live forever. Therefore, if there is a problem in a relationship, you need to cherish it and don't break up easily.
Xiaomei and Xiaoding are lovers who fell in love when they were in college. At that time, they loved each other and were the only people in their world. The two have been through a lot of ups and downs together. However, after three years of love, their conflicts have become more and more frequent.
Xiao Ding's work is getting busier and busier. Xiao Ding only thinks about work. I want to give Xiaomei a better life. He wanted to wait until his career was successful before he and Xiaomei entered the wedding hall, but every time Xiao Ding Mei asked him out on a date, Xiao Mei would wait with Xiao Ding in the restaurant for a long time. Xiaoding is still very busy at work, often about 30 minutes late, which makes Xiaomei feel very regretful. My time with Xiaoding is getting worse and worse, he comes less and less, and I don't even have time to eat.
Ding told her that she would be busier during this time because she was now competing for the position of director. It will be better when it is over. However, the success of her career is not easy, and although Xiaoding has not been promoted to the level of director after many hardships, she has not given up and firmly believes that her hard work will pay off.
Because Xiaomei has taken the initiative many times, she is disappointed in love. Xiaomei and Xiaoding parted ways. Xiaoding tried his best to save her and said that he would accompany Xiaomei more, but Xiaomei was still resolute. Xiaomei chose to break up, but Xiaomei was actually very reluctant to break up, she still loved Xiaoding, but now she felt that she was alone with Xiaoding, without any care and protection.
Because the lives of the two people do not match, Xiaomei's work is easy and stress-free, but Xiaoding is very busy every day and has a lot of work pressure. After the breakup, Xiaomei went to another city. I wanted to forget about Xiaoding in my busy life, but Xiaoding went to another city. After letting Xiao Ding go, she regrets breaking up with Xiao Ding, but when she looks for Xiao Ding again, a girl has already appeared next to Xiao Ding, and she asks Xiao Mei that there is no second chance.
There have been too many breakups, all on the spur of the moment. As Tu Ray says, "Don't break up easily, or you'll have to spend a lifetime getting back on your feet." "Love is not a game, so it is not a game. It means it's all over. You can get it done. When you say "break up", it's easy to say those two words, but it's hard to want to break up.
Not only did we give up on the relationship, but we also hurt each other. Because we've broken up so many times. As time went on, I really felt like we weren't in love anymore. We cherish love and don't say "break up". In other words, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we need to learn how to communicate, understand, and find solutions.
Love is a fragile thing that needs to be cared for. When you have a conflict, don't threaten your partner with an easy breakup. Because once it is done, it will cause irreparable consequences. We need to learn to be tolerant and understanding. They are tolerant, attentive, and loving.