In an ordinary family in Zhejiang, a "war" without gunpowder has lasted for 8 days. The husband and wife fell into a Cold War stalemate because of a seemingly trivial word. There is no winner in this "war", only two hearts that are gradually estranged.
The cause of the incident couldn't be simpler. After a busy day, the wife complained to her husband about the hard work of taking care of the children and doing housework, but the husband replied lightly: "Take care of the baby at home all day long, do nothing, and are you tired?" This sentence was like a fuse, which instantly ignited the anger in his wife's heart.
She decided to prove her worth with her actions, so from the next day, she did no other chores except taking care of the children and cooking. She wants to see what will become of this family without her efforts?
The husband soon tasted the bitterness. When he came home from work every day, he was no longer greeted by a tidy room and hot meals, but a place of chicken feathers and a cold pot and stove. He had to roll up his sleeves and start cleaning up the "mess" left by his wife.
At first, he may have been a little unimpressed, thinking that these chores were just a gesture. But soon, he realized that he was wrong. Wash dishes, tidy up the kitchen, sweep and mop the floor, tidy up toys and ......These seemingly simple chores are really tiring to do.
What made him even more unbearable was that this life had lasted for 7 days, and his wife did not seem to have any intention of reconciling. He hovers on the verge of collapse every day, but he never bows his head to admit his mistakes to his wife.
The Cold War left both sides physically and mentally exhausted. The husband is under tremendous mental and financial pressure, while the wife feels that her efforts are not being recognized and respected as they deserve. They all stood their ground and refused to budge.
However, marriage is not a competition, and there is no need to divide the winners and losers. In this Cold War, no one is really the winner. If both sides could calm down and sit down and communicate well, perhaps this conflict would have been resolved long ago.
Coming back to the couple, I hope they can end this cold war as soon as possible and sit down and have a good talk. The husband should admit his mistake and apologize to his wife; And the wife should also give her husband a step down and stop stubbornly insisting on her own position. Only in this way can they regain the warmth and happiness of the past.
Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished. I hope that every couple can learn to communicate and understand, so that love can bloom the most beautiful flowers in ordinary life.
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