Sometimes, we find ourselves saying something that we know is obviously nonsense, but we still can't help but say it. Recently, there was an interactive topic on Weibo that sparked a discussion among netizens: "Do you still want to say it when you know it's nonsense?" This topic sparked heated discussions, and one of the netizens' answer was quite touching: "Whether you can talk nonsense depends on who you are chatting with." A comfortable relationship will make you feel that no matter what you say, the other person will be willing to continue the conversation. It's not because they're well-informed, it's because they're extremely interested in you. This sentence is succinctly illustrated the close connection between the outpouring of nonsense and the relationship of comfort.
Psychological research once pointed out: "When a person is unhappy, he will not talk nonsense." If more than 90% of a person's words are nonsense, it means that he or she may be in a state of happiness. On the other hand, if the nonsense is less than 50%, it may mean that he is not happy enough. "The results of this study are food for thought. Because when people are in a good mood, they will unconsciously say some seemingly inconsequential nonsense. The amount of nonsense may be a reflection of the comfort of the relationship in which people are located.
In an interview, Sun Li and Deng Chao talked about their love process. Sun Li said frankly: "We have not clearly determined the relationship, but the ** exchanges are becoming more and more frequent." At first, it was a work experience, then it gradually evolved into a communication between friends, and finally inadvertently, our relationship has changed from an increase in quantity to a qualitative improvement. This passage vividly expresses the fact that in a comfortable relationship, people are more willing to share the bits and pieces of life.
In life, trivial things abound. Lin Huiyin once said: "Love, the wind and snow are the most moving; And marriage is the truth of firewood, rice, oil and salt. "In these trivial lives, we don't need too serious conversations, but we need someone who can accompany us to share these so-called nonsense.
There is no happiest thing than finding someone who is willing to talk nonsense with you and listen to your nonsense. Therefore, we should cherish those who can make us speak freely and are willing to listen to our nonsense.
In life, we often ignore the warmth and emotion contained in nonsense. Those seemingly inconsequential fragments are actually the lubricant in our emotional communication, the emotional bond between us. In the daily chores, we may be easily troubled by heavy work and social pressure, but it is in this nonsense that we find an emotional sense of belonging and find a balance in life.
So let's cherish those who are able to share nonsense with us and who are willing to listen to our inner voice. Let us experience those subtle emotions with our hearts, and feel the warmth of life with our hearts. Perhaps in some seemingly inconsequential nonsense, we can find the most real and moving emotions in life.
Behind the crap, we will find the beauty in life. Because that nonsense is not only a tool for dialogue, but also an expression of our emotional communication. Let's listen to the voices behind the nonsense with our hearts and feel the warmth between each other with our hearts. In this way, we can truly appreciate happiness and fulfillment in life.
Therefore, whether at work or in life, let's keep a warm heart, listen to each other's nonsense, and share each other's emotions. Because it is these nonsense that connect the emotional bonds between us and make our lives more colorful. May we all be able to cherish these nonsense, cherish each other's emotions, and make life better because of nonsense!