In the past few years, there has been a sense of anger in society - there are too many national problems, too many social problems, it is good for young people to live, and it is the right life ...... not to marry or have children
Objectively speaking, most people, including myself, are trapped in this theory and unconsciously agree with this theory.
However, a sudden illness during the Spring Festival made me completely change my mind.
A week ago, maybe it was the fatigue of long-term work, maybe it was the result of sub-health, in an ordinary mopping, the lumbar disc herniation that had been healed for many years suddenly committed, the acute onset of edema, seriously compressed the nerve in the left leg, the pain in the heart made me feel painful, the beads of sweat bursting out, the hair was wet and dry, and the sleepless night finally stayed up until dawn!
I discussed with my daughter-in-law that I still want to go to the hospital, but I have basically lost my mobility, what should I do?
I never thought that my body, which could even carry the new crown, would collapse with a bang, and it would drag down several people.
This is something I never imagined before.
Get! Who to look for? still has relatives, and the first thing that comes to mind is my sister's family in the same city.
Naturally, without hindrance, it is the feeling of being a loved one.
So, a **, sister and nephew put down everything and rushed over in less than a quarter of an hour, and they also brought a wheelchair, which was really embarrassing and surprising.
With the nephew, all the problems were solved, and with the addition of my sister and daughter-in-law, I arrived at the hospital smoothly.
When I went to the hospital to go to the emergency department for hospitalization, and with the care of my sister and nephew, my daughter-in-law was relieved to go through the procedures.
The doctor came to see it, gave an injection to relieve the pain, and it was a little better, so he prescribed a bunch of lists for examination, imaging, CT, MRI, electrocardiogram ......
At this time, it was impossible for me to walk, and it was very painful to be in a wheelchair, so a board bed became my leg.
I never imagined that I would be so sick that I would be in bed and unable to do anything.
People, don't think too highly of yourself, when fate is coming, the so-called strength, ability, and luck are all floating clouds, and you can only accept it obediently.
Just like I was at the time, I couldn't deal with the pain and could only let my relatives push me around, but fortunately, in addition to my daughter-in-law, I also had my own sister and nephew's family.
Endured the pain, lay on the board bed, and did various examinations. I laughed at myself and joked with my nephew, but I was still a young man, and I also sighed with my sister and daughter-in-law, fortunately, our family was ......It really comes from the heart.
If I don't have a sister and nephew, I'm afraid that my parents will have to help, or I have to pull my son to the fifth grade of elementary school.
Fortunately, the examination was successfully completed, the doctor's diagnosis was not particularly serious, and it was recommended to be conservative**, the family's hanging heart finally landed, and the next thing was to strictly recover in bed!
In life, seven or eight times out of ten, the unsatisfactory person is unsatisfactory, and the future and the accident, I don't know which one will come suddenly.
Who can guarantee that I will grow old safely, just like myself, I never thought that there would be a catastrophe today.
So, what do you do when you're stuck on a sick bed and can't help yourself? Who will get through such a difficult day? By money? At this point, money is invalid because you don't even have the ability to spend it.
In addition, there are all kinds of difficulties when people are old, which can never be solved by money. For example, nursing homes do not accept disabled elderly people, even if you have money. The elderly who live in nursing homes are also divided into three, six, nine and so on, those with children are the most cared for, and those who have money but no relatives will be reduced to "Tang monk meat", this is the reality!
Life and life, relatives, parents, wives, children, is not only a burden, but also a motivation to support each other!
Young people, listen to some persuasion, it is still necessary to get married and have children, we don't talk about contributing to the country and the nation, just let life rely on each other!