Valentine's Day The best valentine relationship is nothing more than two words!
Mo Yan once said: "Understand, it is the warmest language in the world." "In love, understanding or not often determines the happiness of two people. On this Valentine's Day, let's take a look at why understanding is the best lover relationship and the happiest thing.
Understanding and not understanding in love is sometimes like a mirror, reflecting the true mentality and way of two people. Take Qi Heng and Gu Tingye in the TV series "Do You Know" as an example, they both love Minglan , but their attitudes and ways towards her are completely different. Qi Heng is a person who doesn't understand Minglan, he will only love her in the way he needs, he wants her to be a gentle and virtuous wife, he wants her to give up her ambitions and talents, and he wants her to accompany him to escape from reality. He doesn't understand Minglan 's thoughts and feelings, he doesn't respect Minglan 's choice and wishes, and he doesn't support Minglan 's growth and progress. His love is selfish, bound, and hurtful. Gu Tingye is a person who understands Minglan , he will love her the way Minglan needs to do it, he appreciates her intelligence and talent, he encourages her ambitions and ambitions, and he accompanies her to face the reality together. He understands Minglan state of mind and emotions, he respects Minglan decisions and propositions, and he supports Minglan in her development and achievements. His love is selfless, free, and fulfilling. From these two examples, we can see that someone who understands you will love you the way you want, while someone who doesn't understand you will only love you the way he needs to love you.
People who understand you can bring you not only the way of love, but also spiritual comfort and support. There is a song called "How can you understand if you haven't walked through", and the lyrics read: "A person who understands your tears is better than a group of people who understand your smile." This quote speaks to the truth that someone who understands you can give you warmth and strength when you need it most. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, when you feel lonely and helpless, when you lose confidence and direction, people who understand you will stand by your side, give you encouragement and comfort, give you trust and understanding, and give you hope and solutions. People who understand you will not dislike you because of your weaknesses and flaws, will not blame you for your mistakes and failures, and will not reject you because of your differences and specialness. People who understand you will appreciate you because of your strengths and strengths, be proud of your efforts and progress, and cherish you because of your uniqueness and personality. People who understand you are your strongest backing and your most gentle support.
People who understand you can also let you live your own life, without having to change yourself in order to cater and pity. Take Jack and Ruth in the movie "Titanic" as an example, they are two people from different worlds, but they can understand each other's hearts and dreams. Jack is a free-spirited painter who is not bound by the world, he pursues his passions and pleasures. Ruth is a rich and unfortunate girl who is oppressed by her family and society, and she longs for her freedom and happiness. Jack understands Ruth's distress and helplessness, and he uses his brushes and actions to bring her new vision and experience, allowing her to see the beauty and possibility of life. Ruth understands Jack's talent and charisma, and she uses her trust and courage to bring him sincere love and gratitude, making him feel his own worth and dignity. Jack and Ruth, who did not change themselves because of each other's identities and backgrounds, appreciated and respected each other, they encouraged and supported each other, they understood and tolerated each other, and they achieved and redeemed each other. Their love is a kind of understanding, but also a kind of release.
Valentine's Day is a day to express love and reflect on love. On this day, we have to ask ourselves if we know our lover and if we are understood by our lover. Understand, it is the warmest language in the world, and it is also the happiest thing in love. If you meet someone who understands you, then please cherish him, don't let him down, don't let him get hurt, don't let him leave. If you haven't met someone who understands you, then please be patient, don't compromise easily, don't give up at will, and don't despair and disappoint. Because, the best lover relationship is nothing more than two words, that is, understand!