Love should still follow the heart

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-07

What if you like each other but don't want to be in love? Liking each other is just having a good impression of each other, and even having a good feeling, having a good impression and liking just has a certain foundation and premise for falling in love. Since you don't want to fall in love, it means that you don't think that you don't have the conditions to fall in love yet, so you should still follow your inner thoughts.

If you don't want to fall in love if the internal conditions of love are not mature, then you will fall in love after you are mature. Men and women like each other, but they are not mature in each other's hearts, and they do not have strong requirements and desires for love in their hearts, nor are they mentally prepared for love, and they do not have the ability to control the emotions of love; Therefore, it is also normal that you don't want to fall in love for the time being.

If you don't want to fall in love if the external conditions for love are not sufficient, then wait until the conditions are met before falling in love. Love is the behavior of men and women who love each other, and love is the prelude to marriage. Love is going to love and marriage, the foundation and conditions of love, in addition to liking, there are personality fit, family status, work nature, living environment and other factors that need to be considered in marriage, only when these elements are comprehensively measured to be almost mature, or the conditions that are particularly concerned about are met, it is possible to have more desires and ideas for love.

Whether you are in love or not, you should follow your inner decision. Liking and wanting to fall in love, although they are the other party's inner reactions, relatively speaking, liking is more direct and external, and it is more emotional. And whether you want to fall in love or not is the result of a certain amount of careful thinking, which seems more rational; Rational thinking is often the true thoughts of one's own heart, so it is still the adage that says: "Be cautious again and again, and don't deceive your heart first." Following your heart's mind is the best way to do it.

In fact, love with real mature conditions, in unconsciously daily interactions, will also be driven by the heart and subconscious, and naturally enter the role of love.

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