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Hello, friends, have you seen the hot search? In less than a month, two of the world's top football superstars came to China one after another, and they both failed to make appointments one after another, which really caused an uproar.
Refund! Are you worthy of the fans? I flew 5000 kilometers here and now I feel cheated. "Towards the final whistle, a tsunami of boos rang out from the Hong Kong Stadium, and the Miami International commercial match in Hong Kong put international star Lionel Messi on the cusp.
On the evening of February 4, Major League Soccer team Miami International reportedly played an exhibition match with Hong Kong Stars United of China, but Messi, who was scheduled to play, did not play, causing an uproar. Not only fans, but also Hong Kong Chief Executive John Lee, and Hong Kong Sports, Performing Arts, Culture and Publishing Legislative Council member Fok Qigang also expressed their disappointment.
The clock hand turns back to January 23, and almost the same scene happened in Shenzhen. Outside the lobby of the Mandarin Oriental Hotel, the news of the postponement of Ronaldo's trip to China has just been announced, and hundreds of fans expressed their displeasure in the cold wind. Although in the end, the tournament organizers promised to refund the money, but it still wasted a lot of people's time and feelings.
In less than a month, two of the world's top football superstars came to China one after another, and they both failed to make appointments one after another, which really caused an uproar.
Considering that Ronaldo was in turmoil, Miami International copied the drama almost as it was, which seems even more inappropriate. And at the end of the game, the Hong Kong SAR** proposed to the organizer Tatler Asia, such as Messi personally explaining to the fans and receiving the award on behalf of the team, all of which were not done. This is more of a passing"Arrogance"The look and feel.
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The reason why people "do not forgive" and hope for an apology is that they hope that the hurt emotions and distorted relationships can be comforted and repaired. In the meantime, one of the key words that cannot be left unmentioned is "respect".
Fok Qigang, vice president of the Hong Kong Sports Federation & Olympic Committee, spoke out twice on this matter, and the second time he spoke out, he used a long post on Weibo to describe the connotation of the keyword "respect". The long article mentions that a former NBA star once said that respect is far more important than popularity. It was also mentioned that when Real Madrid visited Hong Kong in 2003, the six kings, including David Beckham, played games and were able to interact with the fans cordially. Such a narrative is certainly not nostalgic, in fact, the connotation of respect runs through the entire history of competitive sports. Today, the respect and care shown by those celebrities to their fans also warms people's hearts. Even Messi, who is now deeply involved in the best counterattack, has made many gestures to fans in his career and has left a deep impression.
Superstars and ordinary people naturally differ in their status and role in a particular field, but mutual respect is a principle that cannot be discarded at any time. On the day of the Miami International Hong Kong Exhibition Match, some well-known actors and singers in Hong Kong took photos with Beckham and asked for autographs. Everyone can be like a fish in water in the field they are good at, and they also have the motivation to "look up" in front of other "mountains". This scenario is a reminder to keep a sense of humility even if you've become a superstar. And this humility should be open to everyone - whether football is developed or not, fans are not high or low. Obviously, maintaining a sense of humility is not only conducive to the individual's external image, but also conducive to one's own improvement.
In the Messi incident, how to repair the relationship between idols and fans? 》Nine factions**.
Respect is always mutual. I'm disappointed in Messi, not because he doesn't play, it's because he doesn't take the fans seriously. Jordan and Kobe Bryant said when asked why they didn't want to take a break: "Most fans probably only get the chance to go to see me play once in their lifetime, they may have saved up for a long time, just to watch a live game, and I don't want to leave these fans with regrets." "Messi this time, the fans not only spent the money unjustly, but also did not get any comfort, and they couldn't accept it emotionally. In commercial competitions, everyone is here to make money, only fans like Messi and spend money to realize their dreams.
Understand the Emperor of the Ball Commentator Sun Yuxuan.
To a certain extent, the attitude of stars and teams towards the Chinese market and Chinese fans, whether commercial interests are paramount or respect for fans, determines the future development of commercial sports events in China. Only by showing respect for the fans and the spirit of the contract can commercial sports events go further, and the tournament organizers and teams can gain the continued support of fans and have a broader market. The controversy and disappointment brought by Messi's trip to Hong Kong, China, is worth pondering for all parties in China's commercial sports events, and how to show the greatest respect for the Chinese market and Chinese fans in the event will be a question that the organizers and the teams that come to "pan for gold" must answer.
Commercial sports events should respect fans in mind" Kunming Information Port Zhou Shuo.
In general, the reason why Messi has received so much criticism this time is that the fans feel disrespected. "Respect" is also a hot topic in college entrance examination essays, and today we will accumulate some materials on the theme of "respect".
Character material
Duke of Windsor: Respect for the character of the shown
In England, there is a famous Duke of Windsor. Once, the British royal family hosted a banquet for Indian tribal leaders. At the end of the feast, the waiter brought a small basin of water for each guest, but the newcomers did not understand this etiquette, and when they saw the water in the delicate vessel, they took it and drank it all. This action made the Britons present stunned for a moment, however, before they could laugh, the Duke of Windsor had calmly picked up the hand washing water and drank it all. As a result, other Britons followed suit. This did not cause any embarrassment to the Indian chieftains.
Lu Yu: Friends don't need to be cheered
After Lu Yu, a famous tea scientist in the Tang Dynasty, came to Jiangnan, he made many friends, and everyone often drank tea and chatted together, forming a deep friendship. Once, a friend who was a county lieutenant learned that Lu Yu had written some plays and tunes, and decided to invite the troupe to perform his works. On the day of the performance, Lu Yu's friends came one after another, but until the end of the performance, Lu Yu's best friend, the monk Jiaoran, did not come. Everyone was puzzled, but seeing that Lu Yu didn't make a sound, Xu was angry, so he didn't ask anymore. A few days later, when everyone went to Lu Yu's place to drink tea, they saw Lu Yu and Jiaoran talking and laughing, and they didn't see anything unusual. After the dismissal, someone asked Lu Yu why he lost his anger so quickly, Lu Yu said that he was not angry at all, and said with a smile: "I knew for a long time that Jiaoran would not come, because he was not interested in opera at all."Why should I force him to come and cheer me on? This does not prevent us from continuing to interact. We're still good friends. And Jiaoran was also very grateful to Lu Yu for his understanding, and the two became close friends. Later, with the help of Jiaoran, Lu Yu "settled on the shore of Tiaoxi and closed the door to the book" and began the writing of "The Book of Tea". Interpretation
"Gentlemen are harmonious but different".It means that a gentleman can maintain a harmonious and friendly relationship with others in interpersonal interactions, but he does not have to agree with the other party in his views on specific issues. When friends interact with each other, they should indeed know how to understand and respect, accept each other's "dislikes", and respect each other's"different", to give each independent space
Dolce & Gabbana: Eat the consequences of disrespect
In April this year, the Forbes billionaires list was released, and it is worth noting that the two founders of the Italian luxury brand d&g (Dolce & Gabbana) fell out of the billionaire list. According to people familiar with the matter, sales fell sharply because its brand was affected by incidents such as insulting China. In November 2018, d&g's controversial "Eat with Chopsticks" section was deliberately frivolous and pompous, with a distorted look at Eastern culture from a Western perspective, from the female model's behavior to the set narration. And after thatIts designer's straightforward insulting remarks have directly damaged the feelings of countless Chinese children. The so-called "account theft" remarks and the designer's apology** reflect D&G's lack of respect for China and Chinese culture。In addition to showing great disrespect for Chinese culture, some of d&g's products have been criticized in the past, such as the 2013 model wearing black chef earrings on the catwalk, and the 2016 launch of a shoe called "slave sandals", which has blatantly put "discrimination against black people" on the surface, all of which show d&g's arrogance. Interpretation
D&G's treatment of diverse ethnic cultures not only lacks respect, but also maliciously discriminates and ridicules, which not only makes it lose its influence in China, but also has a sharp decline in global brand reputation. In dealing with the cultures of other countries, we should seek common ground while reserving differences on the basis of full respect, and share the same beauty and beauty
Ji Xiaolan: The couplet is sarcastic
Legend has it that Ji Xiaolan went to visit Wutai Mountain one day. Walking into the temple, the abbot looked him up and down, and saw that his clothes and shoes were quite neat and his demeanor was relatively average, so he greeted: "Tea." After a few words of greeting, he learned that he was from the capital, and hurriedly stood up, smiled, led him into the inner hall, and greeted, "Please take a seat." Then he commanded, "Make tea." After a detailed discussion, when he knew that he was a famous scholar, a master of poetry and literature, and Ji Xiaolan, a scholar of the Ministry of Rites, he immediately stood up respectfully, smiled with a smile on his face, invited him into the meditation room, and greeted him repeatedly: "Please sit down." He shouted loudly: "Make good tea." He also took out a pen and paper and asked Ji Xiaolan to leave the ink treasure and light the Zen Temple. After Ji Xiaolan picked up the pen, she wrote a couplet with a wave of it:Sit, please sit, please sit; Tea, make tea, make good tea。The abbot was very embarrassed to see it.
Benjamin Franklin: Borrowing books to settle grievances
When Franklin was young, he invested all his savings in a very small printing house, but he failed. He was eager to get a job printing papers for Parliament, but there was a disadvantage in the fact that there was a wealthy and capable member of the Parliament, but he hated Franklin so much that he publicly scolded him. This situation was very bad for Franklin. Therefore, Franklin decided to make the other person like him.
Franklin racked his brains for this. How many bucks to borrow from his enemies? It's useless. He should have asked for something that would make him very happy——— and it should have touched his vanity, made him feel respected, and subtly showed Franklin's admiration for his knowledge and accomplishments.
So he pleaded with the councillor: "I have heard that there is a very strange and special book hidden in your library, and I am eager to see it, and I beg you to lend me that book for a few days, so that I may read it carefully, shall I?" ”
Sure enough, the man immediately called for the book to be delivered. After about a week, Franklin returned the book to him, along with a letter expressing his strong gratitude.
So, the next time they met in Parliament, the councillor greeted him first, and was extremely polite. From then on, he was always willing to help Franklin, and they became good friends until his death.
The Australian Prime Minister apologized: We must be more respectful to ordinary people
Becker, a 74-year-old man in Australia, sent a piece of pleadings to a Queensland magistrate's court to sue Hawke, then prime minister, for calling him a "stupid old guy" when he argued with him about pensions in a shopping mall. The local court sent the summons to the Prime Minister's Office, and there was an uproar for a while. Prime Minister Hawke held a press conference on the matter and publicly apologized to the old man for saying this rude remark, saying: "I was very upset that day, but that doesn't excuse me for using that kind of wording." If I did hurt him, I would like to apologize to Mr. Becker for this, and I ask for my forgiveness. ”
Quotes materialIt is not good to humble oneself and respect others, and it is not good to honor oneself and humble oneself. - Xu Teli.
He who knows his own dignity, he is completely incapable of respecting the dignity of others. - Schiller.
A truly great man is neither oppressed nor oppressed by man. —Gibran.
The plants and trees are nourished by the rain and dew of the heavens, but they also dare to look up at the sky. —Shakespeare.
Only by respecting others can people be respected. —Descartes.
Whoever has self-esteem will be respected. - Balzac.
One should honor oneself and consider oneself worthy of the noblest. —Hegel.
Disrespect for others is, first of all, disrespect for oneself. - Whitman.
Whenever people don't respect us, we are always deeply enraged. Deep down, however, no one respects themselves very much. – Mark Twain.
Those who endure humiliation and steal their lives will never be respected. - Gao Nayi.
Those who respect others will always respect them. —Mencius
Men will respect themselves, and then they will respect them; Men will insult themselves, and then they will insult them. - Yang Xiong.
I don't know that self-love is self-harm. - Zheng Shanfu.
The benevolent will respect others. - Xunzi
A gentleman is noble and despises himself, and he puts others before himself. —The Book of Rites
Dignity is something that cannot be wasted in the human soul. - Guzmán.
It is difficult to respect a person to the level he wishes. - Wolfgner.
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