Thousands of people have different tastes for the same tea, just because thousands of people have different hearts. If you are too kind, you will be bullied; If you are too honest, you will be taken as a fool; If you are too nice to people, you will take it for granted.
Even if there are cliffs and detours in front of them, it is a hardship that everyone must endure on the road, and there are many people who do not hit the south wall and do not look back.
Instead of worrying about other people's lives, you should worry about your own.
Soft-heartedness is a diseaseAvoid self-moving, refuse self-substitution, other people's business, don't ** thing.
When we see something wrong with others, we must keep a clear head. We cannot ignore their humanity and dignity simply because of their predicament.
Don't put yourself in the position of a savior, thinking that you can solve everything. We need to believe in the abilities and potential of others, and believe that they can solve problems on their own.
Everyone is an individual with their own feelings and needs. We need to care about others, but even more so we need to take care of ourselves.
We can't judge other people's answers by our own standards, let alone try to change others to suit our own expectations.
Love is deep and deadly
You have a good heart, you may just want to pull people ashore, but in the end, you may be taken into the water by others.
When his request is not met and he bites back, you are also most likely to become innocent and injured.
You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.
At all times, always put self-protection first. There is only one life, and people's hearts are unpredictable, so don't be kind to others.
Keep in mind that those who borrow money while standing are also difficult to recover while on their knees.
Respect the fate of others
Helping others doesn't mean you can't help them, but we also have to look at how we can help them.
When you can't take on the responsibility of one person, the best thing to do is to do what you can.
It's like a person loses his wallet, and what you do is to hand it to the ** from the other party's police station, instead of accompanying him to look for it.
Sometimes, knowing your own abilities and when to do what you should do is also a sign of a person's inner strength.
There is no one in this world who needs you to save, and everyone has their own lessons to come into this world.
Don't think that you can change and persuade others, you are the most special one.
Everyone has their own life trajectory and choices, we can't change the choices and destiny of others, all we can do is to manage ourselves.