01 Without a sense of security, it is easier for us to improve.
There are so many wonderful things in this world, and many times we always appreciate these wonderful moments.
Many times we will find that in fact, this society will have more requirements for women.
Women need to learn to take care of their families, and they need to have an independent economic foundation.
Women should be as beautiful as possible, and women should be as virtuous as possible.
There are always all kinds of adjectives in front of women that limit us.
No matter how much this society restricts us, no matter what the social structure is, what we need to do is to make ourselves stronger.
Don't always think about relying on others and then change yourself.
During the meeting, we will find that there are many girls who always change their destiny through marriage.
But we will find that in this kind of marriage, we always have an unequal relationship.
Many girls are taught from an early age that you should obey your parents, and if you get married, you will have to put your husband first in the future.
Therefore, in the case of being exposed to it from a young age, it is often easy for us to lower our status.
I always feel that I am not as capable as boys, or that we should be so humble.
Actually, this is not the case, the right way for us should be to make ourselves stronger.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, in fact, if we are all in a state of progress, then we are all moving towards a good state.
02Quit emotionality.
In fact, in society, we will find that girls are always easy to be emotional.
We will also find that in fact, girls can easily fall into the whirlpool of emotions.
It is indeed possible that girls are very simple, and they are very pure about their feelings.
In fact, all they want is a sense of security and a partner who can give them happiness.
We will find that the more people value their feelings, the more they will be hurt in the end.
Because we value the relationship so much, many times we do the wrong thing.
For example, through some extreme ways to retain the other party, or make the other party inseparable from us.
Many times it's just that we think too extremely, and a relationship doesn't need us to control.
Good feelings should happen naturally, not by anyone.
Emotions often cause us to be scarred.
In fact, a relationship is just a flavor enhancer in our lives, don't always let yourself become bruised because of a certain relationship.
Feelings only bring us pain, so why should we be entangled in this relationship?
What we should do more is to focus on ourselves and make ourselves better, which is the right attitude.
03 Overcome fear.
The future is always full of fear.
We are afraid of being abandoned by others, and we are also afraid of being alone.
We have a lot of things to fear in our hearts.
Some girls are scared of marriage because they have seen too much about the failure of marriage.
For example, after pregnancy, you have to face the pain of giving birth, and after giving birth, you have to raise a child, this experience is difficult for me to accept.
But we don't have to be afraid, when we meet a good partner, in fact, these pains will be alleviated.
But we also need to be cautious, because when we meet someone who has different values or ideas than ours, we are likely to fall into an endless abyss.
So we don't have to be too afraid in front of Guanyin, what we should do is to keep a clear head.
Don't let yourself be lost just because you're in love.
Knowing what we want in this relationship, we also need to know what we want in life.
The other party lowers their own bottom line, and we must maintain our bottom line no matter what we are doing.
04 Take care of your wings.
The only thing in this world that can love ourselves forever is ourselves.
But some people always let themselves be hurt.
For example, when something bad happens to us, we start to hurt our body.
In fact, we have heard about some people doing crazy things for their own feelings in various channels.
For example, some of the people we have seen on the Internet have even committed suicide to save each other in order to save their other half.
In fact, this kind of thinking is too extreme.
Isn't it irresponsible to give up one's life for the sake of others?
Is it true that we live only for others in this life?
Is there really only one relationship in our lives?
How did we grow up?
What about our loved ones?
Is it worth it for us to give up a loved one who has been with us for so long for the sake of someone we have just met?
It's when we're doing these crazy things, we have to think about ourselves, because we still have our parents, we have loved ones, and they're all worried about us.
Don't ruin our entire family just because you're alone.
It's important to think about the consequences before you do something.