Married woman with a short temper.
Xiao Chen said that life could not go on, and his daughter-in-law Wu Dan had another dispute, and even abandoned the child and returned to her parents' home.
This is the third time. They have been married for more than a year, and their children are only a few months old.
Xiao Chen smiled bitterly. Before he got married, he was a little sheep, but after he got married, he turned into a red wolf.
The first time was a family dinner, and my brother and sister-in-law came with their children. Although the roast chicken made by Wu Tang is delicious, not everyone is satisfied. Xiao Chen asked her to guess again. Mr. Udan said it was a hassle to make, and he didn't have all the ingredients, so if you wanted to eat it, just take it out.
The mother-in-law said, "It's expensive and dirty to take home, so it's better to make it yourself." "If you don't own this material anymore, just create another one.
"There are only cooking dishes left on the table, and I can't do enough after eating," Udan. ”
Xiao Chen said that Wu Dan was lazy, Wu Dan was angry, and anyone who said that he was not lazy would do it. My mother-in-law doesn't want to do it, why is it so difficult to let her eat? She looked at her face first.
Wu Thant stepped forward and overturned the table.
The family dispersed in embarrassment.
U Thant said. "There are a lot of rules in his family, at the beginning of the lunar calendar.
On the first and fifteenth of the year, they had to eat together, and even if the whole family got together, there was no one to help, and no one even complained. Masu. ”
You can't point to a sheep to gather wool, and you can't always tell people to do that. Since it's a dinner, can you help me with the work? Don't talk about this, Xiao Chen, don't you think you need help? The ingredients at home are not the same as those in the restaurant. There are vacancies, but they are ready. You can order and refill your food.
Xiao Chen is my husband. Not only did he not take the initiative to balance the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but not only did he not help Wu Dan integrate into the family, but also caused greater contradictions.
Behind the woman who loves a bad mood, there must be an incompetent man.
The second time was after she became pregnant. Due to the severe reaction, U Thant quit his job and stayed at home with his children.
After getting off work, Xiao Cheng saw that the simple meal was not ready, and muttered: "I stayed at home all day, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't even cook, there was no food." "Do you have any credit for making money?
Wu Thant was about to serve the plate, but when the plate was served, he fell to the ground and kicked the plate away.
Before she got married, she was a carefree little princess. Her parents held her in their arms and felt very sad. She spends her salary alone without any plan, goes shopping, watches movies without asking directions, does not eat, and does not cook. You have to adapt to other people's tastes.
Once you get married, you no longer have any freedom. I also have to deal with the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, work and housework, and I have to deal with the ...... of another child
People have always seen the princess as the one who takes care of them. Once married, you become a caregiver and end up taking care of a lot of people. Anyone who suddenly has to accept such a gap becomes emotional and doesn't want to accept it.
The most important thing is that when she endured this, no one understood and recognized.
They either didn't see it, or they pretended not to.
Behind every woman's tantrums, there must be a man pretending to be asleep.
It's time for the children's 100-day feast again. It was crowded with friends and family, and everything was calm. The mother-in-law saw a very delicious soup on the table, so she put it in a bag and invited Wu Dang to drink it. Hou Dan's mother didn't drink it hot because she felt it was greasy and had a strong taste.
The mother-in-law was dissatisfied, and the parents began to quarrel. Xiao Chen borrowed wine to save her mother-in-law, which made her angry and ran away. This time, Wu Dan was even more angry, and he didn't bother to answer any questions, so he handed the child to Xiao Chen, and then dragged his mother away.
Xiao Chen said that when she was in love, Udan's words were very gentle, but she didn't expect the quarrel to become so intense, which gave her a headache.
I think a lot of men feel this way when they get married. It's obviously the same person, why has it changed so much? Is it that women are naturally fickle and can't control their emotions? Or are you narrow-minded and can't control your emotions? Is it carelessness?
The answer is: the man behind the marriage.
Behind every angry woman is a man who hasn't grown up yet.
If you look at Xiao Chen's performance, it can be seen that Wu Dan has changed, but he has not changed and has not yet entered the role.
After getting married, such a man will feel like a woman, feeling that he is not good enough and unmotivated. Because their parents are his parents, their home is still his. Marriage is just one more person, one more pair of chopsticks, and one more person who can use a salary.
He feels safe and enjoys the other person's efforts, so why should he blame the other person if he doesn't respond equally?
Men are the flashpoint of a woman's temper. The greater the temper, the greater the disappointment of the man. The greater the disappointment, the greater the explosiveness.
There is a passage from Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions": Before getting married, she was an irreplaceable pearl, but after getting married, for some reason, there were many bad problems. Pearls, she has no luster, the precious color is a dead pearl, it is not a pearl but corn that changes with age. How can one person accomplish three things?
A woman is inherently beautiful, but if she marries an adult who does not want to grow up, her own beauty will disappear and her pearls will be covered with dust.